TTC after pregnancy loss. Thread 16. New Year, new hope for all!

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Hello to anyone TTC after suffering pregnancy loss at any stage. Supportive group for all hoping for their rainbow babies.

hope you are okay @eastend and @unicorns

@Mimilicious013 I'm doing okay I think When is your AF due or is it the 1st one?

@unicorns, af was due on Wednesday and got a bfn on Friday so just waiting for it to arrive any time now.

Thank you! And good luck to all of you TTC.

Hope it's just a late bfp for you @Mimi!! Are your cycles always regular?
Any sign of af yet @ek78 and @Primrose16? Hope she stays away.
I'm back in the UK now and will no doubt be obsessively checking this thread again as before.
I'm expecting AF on Wed- happy Valentine's day!- so am hopeful for my March bfp!!

Oh you too @keepinghopeful! Hope the witch stays away!!

So I have TMI a bit of pink when I wipe. I expect this is AF but I feel good actually. Apart from not being able to trust my books in TWW in future! At least I can pretend my body is back to normal and get back to 'actively trying' although I'm tempted to take a month off. I suppose I have a few days to think about it!

*boobs

@peachesarenom IMPLATATION BLEED!!! I had it last time!!! Omg!!! Test! Test!!!

AF here 👎🏻 I’m okay. Not overly upset. One thing that is upsetting me was my plans at work. I have to make a decision to go back up full time or stay part time permanently- I hoped that if I were pregnant I could go back up full time for the short time (going on mat leave with a full time wage at least) ah well. Shit happens

@peachesarenom have you had an af since your mc?? How many dpo are you?
Sorry to hear @Primrose16. Hopefully it happens soon! I had a bunch of plans for later on the year too around mat leave and it sux that they won't happen now.

OMG Cakelaur you actually made me lol on the train! I didn't have an implantation bleed last time! Although, I have been taking Vit B12 this time round as I read on mumsnet that it aids implantation and I am a veggie so prolly on the low side with B12. But remember I tested this morning and it was BFN!

Hi Boboelephant no, this will be my first AF since mc so can't blame boobs for being confused really! I have no idea how many DPO I am because I don't know when I ovulated. BD'd last sunday!

@peachesarenom fingers crossed you are one of the lucky ones who catch before af! I know what you mean about boobs- and whole body in my case- being confused. I've had one af since MMC in Dec but this month have had the weirdest symptoms amd feel like i ovulated twice. Just all over the place!!
@welshsoph welcome although sorry you're here. Hope your cycles sort themselves out soon.

Primrose16 I'm glad you're ok.

Hi welshsoph apparently your cycle can take up to sixth months to go back to normal. So hopefully your leutal phase will go back to normal. How do you feel about it?

Boboelephant there are defo cramps now so prolly AF. I normally know first thing though. Don't normally start bleeding mid way through the day!

Sorry to hear AF arrived @primrose16. It's just rubbish - but glad you aren't feeling too bad.
@bobothelephant Thanks for checking in! I've been feeling like AF imminent since Thursday. Was due today but no sign yet.

@peachesarenom I hope the witch stays away!! I hope this doesn't happen to you but I always used to get af first thing as soon as I woke and since mc it started middle of the day. Really crap how on top of the loss we have to deal with all the changes too! Hope this isn't the case for you though.
Fingers crossed @ek78!! Hope this is the month for you! Will you still test tomorrow?

Good luck ek78 !!!

@boboelephant thank you! Yes I think so. Though bottling it a bit now..!

Good luck @ek78. 🤞🤞

@peachesarenom TEST AGAIN!!! I feel it!!! It's a bfp!! But wait a couple of days actually. Cos implantation then gets bfps a couple days later!! I have everything crossed for you!!! Even my ovaries!! 🙈

Omg!! @ek78 TEST TEST TEST... I need other people to test so I dont! Hahaha! I've got 3 days until test day!

Cakelaur 😂😂😂

Ha- love it here. It's funny that half of us seem to have the same or similar dates for AF etc. I have never tested so much wee since the month or two I have been on this thread.

No sign of AF for me today (14DPO) I know roughly when I ov,d be coo used OPKs but last month AF Was a week late (no idea about ovulation) so I guess it might be again. Like all of you feel like it will start soon, but have become super aware of every cramp and twitch.

When I had my mc I realised my smear was late and I meant to book one, so once AF starts I best get round to that.

I NEEEED one of you to have a squinter tomorrow. I love seeing them. Or even a clear line. Come on!

Hope those of you who recently got your BFPs are able to enjoy it a bit- I know it is stressful.