TTC after pregnancy loss - thread 15 - Christmas miracles

[TheGrumpySquirrel]

New thread!

No, he needs to do it (patient confidentiality reasons)

Good luck for your scan on Monday flat xx

Good luck for tomorrow @unicornsandrainbows1, I hope it all goes as well as it can. Big unMumsnetty hugs xx

@TheGrumpySquirrel I'm okay, though have had to take some painkillers tonight -_- Just counting the day down and feeling sick to my stomach about leaving my baby behind tomorrow.

@Flatwhite32 Thank you. Good luck for your scan. Monday would've been my 12 week one. Fml.

@Juancornetto Thank you. Sorry didn't mean to leave you out. Must have posted just after I opened the thread :3

Hey ladies! I'm just introducing myself! I had a MC at 8 weeks in February and we have finally decided we are ready to try again!

I'm just having my first post pill period and feeling sorry for myself cause it's so heavy and painful .

I hope we all get Christmas miracle rainbow babies

Thank you @UnicornsandRainbows1. I felt just as you do now the day before my ERPC. There are no words, just massive hugs. Xxx

Flat, is your scan tomorrow? Good luck if it is, really rooting for you! x

And I’ll be thinking of you too unicorns x

@UnicornsandRainbows1 Good luck today. Thinking of you. Xx

@UnicornsandRainbows1 thinking of you today x

Thinking of you @unicorns

We are in (not so) sunny Padstow (our favourite place!). Am in 2WW but eating and drinking as normal as chances are I'm not pregnant and would be gutted if I'd missed out yet again on what we came here for (food festival so eating and drinking!).

I am quite spotty, have stabbing pains in my stomach every now and again and CM which I don't usually have at this point. But sick of symptom spotting as swore I had symptoms last time and a BFN. So bloody well going to enjoy myself until Sunday then pack in the debaucery until I know for sure.

I had unfollowed (and not looked) since MC at a friend's FB page. Just looked so managed to upset myself. She got pregnant 2nd cycle of trying (at almost 38) and had a perfect pregnancy to go with her perfect new house and life. I shouldn't get jealous as her husband is a complete arse and treats her like crap (and a lot of the FB stuff is show because her mum tells my mum how he treats her) but I just get annoyed. Plus she's given up work because he earns loads (though hates his job and drinks to compensate). I just get annoyed some people seem to sail through everything whilst I'm fighting for booody everything!!!

Ty Coastal

Just signed everything so they're going to have a quick briefing with each other and then I should be in not long after :/

I'd much rather have some of their reasons for surgery -__-

Out now. Sorry for the loads of posts :)

Hope you're ok unicorns

@HoldTight I'm doing okay, lovely. Just want to get out and sleep for eternity

Thinking of you @unicorns xxxx

My boyfriend just announced in passing that he's not sure about having children at the moment. What the actual f**k? I've barely finished miscarrying and trying again is literally the only thing keeping me from falling apart. I don't know whether to laugh, cry or just ignore him (he hates condoms and I've told him there's no way on earth I'm going back on the pill).

@Zoo33 Oh no. Did he sound pretty confident with it? I remember when we first started trying and thinking about dtd again and I was a mess just thinking about using protection

@UnicornsandRainbows1 Not really, he just said he wasn't sure. We'd agreed not to wait to start again and it such a passing comment, it's really thrown me. Not having children has always been a deal breaker for us (it was one of the first things he asked me after we met as neither of us wanted to be in a relationship where children weren't wanted). Maybe he's just confused and needs a smack in the face.

@Zoo33 Maybe it's just hit him a bit. I guess trying and having it as a real thing again is enough to make anyone a bit flaky. Hopefully he'll see sense again and you guys can be on the same page

Thanks @UnicornsandRainbows1, I hope so too! Are you home now? X