woodmouse - Please don?t apologise for talking about your worries on here, we are here for each other, and it doesn?t have to be directly linked to ttc to make it important. It certainly isn?t hijacking!! I am glad that nothing I said upset you, I tend you put my foot in it a lot of the time. It?s a shame that your DH is so adamant about not trying for a baby if you are not working. But you are not naïve or stupid ? so please don?t think that about yourself. I really think that you need to have a big talk with DH, and try to make him see that you are not trying to take him from London, or change his career ? but you don?t feel you can continue working the way you are and you need to seek something different. If he loves his job, then it may be hard for him to understand how someone can get so down about a job. Talking is crucial.
Personally, I am not the ambitious type when it comes to a career ? and I always laugh that my opinions set feminism back ? but I think that life is so precious and working yourself into the ground is not what life is supposed to be about. My ambition in life is to be able to look back and know that we were the happiest we could be. Of course that is only my humble opinion ? and I realise that my life is very different to the next person, and I would never judge a person by their decisions. But you are clearly unhappy, so I definitely think you need a change. Working out what you want to do is the hardest part though, isn?t it! (big hug) ? I hope you are ok?
Gangle - I am just coming up to the ?crucial stage? in my cycle ? how about you? Fingers crossed for you.
Seaside - Lovely to see you on here! The thread has missed you.
PinkElephant ? Sorry to hear about your DH?s redundancy. Like you say babies come when they want!! Glad you are feeling a little more positive today. Do try not to worry, I know, easier said than done huh! And never feel that you can?t tell us your worries and concerns, like I said to Woodmouse, that is what these threads are for. We are all going through so much, and if we can lend an ear and help each other then we can all forget about our own things for 5 minutes. Hope the cramps have stopped.
Bella - It?s lovely to hear you so chipper. (hug) ? I am glad that you feel that just taking the first step of booking the appointment has lifted a weight! I hope your GP is suitably understanding and gives you some things to work on. Hang in there flower ? your time will come
I think we need another question to ponder too ? when is Gilly back?