TTC after pregnancy loss - Love is the Drug - and lots of vitamins - thread 14

[TheGrumpySquirrel]

Shiny new thread. Hugs and supportive chat for those TTC after miscarriage or pregnancy loss ♥️

Hope your okay weasle hugs xx
grumpy omg not to get you excited but that is an amazing chart! Goodluck! My chart atleast shows i ovulated and I'm 4dpo today and my temp has stabled 👍
flat still no group request lol I'll pm you after.
user I'm very similar since having DD not really any symptoms of pms atall.

Grumpy fingers crossed for you!

Hiya NoCats it's good to take a break from Interwebs. I did that recently.

Glad the procedure went okay Weasledee, hope you're resting up.

Have a great holiday, Zoo

Blue lol you made me smile. I’m not getting excited but I am feeling like a bit of a hopeful twat. Really would love this to be my month.

Weasel. Rest up and take care of yourself xx big hugs

Zoo I’m sorry, I found the emotions ebb and flow until they fade a little x

@TheGrumpySquirrel Deep down we’re all a bunch of hopeful twats.

Thanks all for your words of encouragement. Bf seemed to be dealing it with reasonably well until he turned to me this morning and said he’s not ready to go back to work yet (he took 2 days off to support me and then worked from home yesterday). That’s when we decided to book it. It’s so easy to forget the effect this has on our partners, as most of the time they put a brave face on for us and don’t actually tell us how they’re feeling. Bloody men!

Urgh it’s now moved ov from cd12 to cd17! Only 3dpo today therefore not 8! How frustrating.. got to find some TWW patience now

bluee i'm very impressed with all the hearts on your chart Very impressive

zoo I'm glad your going :) have fun x
grumpy aww man! How has it changed? Looking at it now makes more sense, With the dip before ovulation. Argh must be annoying to go back to 3dpo 😣 my temp has stayed pretty much the same everyday since ovulation it's only dropped by 0.02° today. I wanna see an implantation dip and raise!!!!

Oh no grumpy! I’m 2dpiui so we’re almost in sync!

Figured I'd do a very quick update as you've been so caring (though if it's out of line, I'm so, so sorry). Just got back home from out scan. I'm actually measuring 6+1 rather than 6+5 (she said I could've ovulated a few days later than expected. I'm guessing maybe that happened and it got there quickly to get a positive on 11dpo. I'm not sure). But it's not ectopic, she said it's in the right place. I know it's still early and everything can change. But there's a heartbeat today and I hope there will be for the rest of my life.

@UnicornsandRainbows1 I’m so pleased for you! I hope you can relax now for a bit at least and enjoy this. X

unicorns not out of line in the slightest. so pleased good news so far. really hoping all stays well for you, please do pop back and keep us posted, i love happy news from this group.

Unicorns- that is such great news❤️ I’m so happy for you. Keeping everything crossed 🤞🏽 for a very happy & healthy pregnancy. It’s so great how we have all shared our journeys & I personally would love to hear how you get on!! Am so so pleased for you💐💐

Unicorns that's great news

Unicorns that's great news, I'm so happy for you

...and "But there's a heartbeat today and I hope there will be for the rest of my life" ...you've just made me well up, what a lovely way of putting it! I have everything crossed for you and your little bean x

Excellent news unicorns!!!

Brilliant to hear that super positive news Unicorns!!! Congratulations!

Oh my goodness i am so so happy for you unicorn I've been thinking about you!
Yay xxxx

@Unicorn this has actually brought me to tears. Seeing someone get good news and what I sincerely hope is a happy ending gives the rest of us hope that the struggle we may be going through at the moment is only temporary. Xxx

Hello. This is my first Mumsnet post. I've been using SANDS forum but it's been down for a month and I'm so frustrated I thought I'd join here.
I'm 35 and last year my daughter was born sleeping at 38.5 weeks - cause unknown. I then had a missed miscarriage, and baby hadn't developed past 5 weeks. Then another miscarriage at 6 weeks.

The 3 losses have sent my cycles all over the place. My luteal phase has been only 10 days with spotting on day 9 (it used to be 11 days). And my periods are super light when they used to be really heavy. Feeling pretty hopeless.

@UnicornsandRainbows1 am so so pleased to hear that. Keeping everything crossed for you.

@ourstar I am so so sorry to hear your sad news. You've had so much to cope with. Have you been to your GP about everything? They can run some bloods to start with, and check your hormone levels.

Ourstar, you’ve been through so much! I cant begin to imagine.......
But you’ve joined a great, supportive group who will be here along the way with you.....

@ourstar welcome to the group. So sorry you find yourself here. I have no words except I am so very sorry for your losses. Feeling hopeless is a natural emotion - can you talk to your partner and friends and family? I have found this group to be so helpful to me for sharing and support. Admitting to the group I feel sad when I see my friends bumps etc... I would encourage you to share - there is so much information available here I hope someone has something that will help you.

Unicorns what a lovely way with words you have - so very very happy for you, we must share good news too I am so glad you did xx

Good news unicorn.
Our star - so sorry you've had reason for you join us. What was your daughters name?

Afm I'm out. Period started today. Onto month 35 of ttc #2 and #4 post mc.

ourstar I'm sorry for your losses :( having a baby born sleeping must have been so upsetting and heartbreaking.
We're all here for you 💖 i love these ladies, they are all so supportive xx

bean oh no I'm sorry af has arrived..Sigh! Was it a normal length cycle for you? X