TTC after pregnancy loss - Love is the Drug - and lots of vitamins - thread 14

[TheGrumpySquirrel]

Shiny new thread. Hugs and supportive chat for those TTC after miscarriage or pregnancy loss ♥️

Thanks for that hay , it’s in the morning!!!!

weasledee I hope tomorrow goes well I will be thinking of you 💕

Thinking of you today @weasledee. X

Sending a hug your way weasledee x

Thinking of you weasle. Physically my ercp was really easy and recover quick xx

Sat here waiting, with the stomach butterflies!

And 12dpo here with a bfn.

I'm sorry @beanhunter fingers crossed for you that you get a bfp tomorrow.
And thinking of you today @weasledee x

Thinking of you today weasel

I’m sorry for the bfn Bean!

Temp has shot up today so I’ve definitely ovulated 🙌🏼 cd19 today so o was cd18 at the latest, although FF thinks it was cd12! CD15 if I ignore Tuesday’s weird low temp.
I’m trying not to get excited about this chart which would mean I’m 7dpo already with a possible implantation dip! The earliest I’ve ever ovulated before has been cd15 so if this is correct then the acupuncture definitely did something!

Weaseldee- hope all goes well for you ❤️

Grumpy- I hope this is your month❤️ I really admire all of the temping & charting etc, I’ve never took my temp!! When my mum was ttc many moons ago she wasn’t falling at all so her doctor advised to temp & she fell that cycle with my brother & she done same when she was ttc again & fell straight away again with me!! I’m nearly 39 & my big bro is nearly 44!!! Really sending you lots of luck & love❤️

That’s great grumpy - fingers crossed! How did you find tha acupuncturist and what did they do? Did you tell them you were having fertility problems?

Acupuncturist was recommended by a friend, he is working to de stress me and regulate my cycles better. He knows all about the miscarriage and that we have been TTC since last December. I have 30 day cycles on average but have been 26-33 days since the miscarriage. This is cycle 6 post mc. I had acupuncture on cd12 where he did work to stimulate the ovaries, immediately felt ov pain that evening and the next day, so fx that was indeed it!

Needless to say, I will keep you posted. Testing Sunday which is 10dpo if the chart is correct.

That’s great grumpy!

Thinking of you weasledee, hope it hasn’t been too horrible

Hope everything has gone as well as possible @weasle xx

Hope everything has gone swiftly weasledee thinking of you

Negative here too at 12dpo..

Unrelated quesion - before I had my little miracle rainbow boy I had lots of pms symptoms and particularly sore boobs for 3-4-5 days before af. Ever since he was born I’ve never had these again. No sore boobs, no swelling, nothing. Beginning to worry if things are ok hormone wise? Anyone heard of anything like that?

Hi all, waves no idea if you even remember me! It's been about a month since I last posted but have tried to read back and catch up on most things.

I really want to say how sorry I am for weasledee just horrid news to go through again. Hope all goes ok today and you look after yourself. Definitely give yourself some time off and maybe assess how you feel in the new year?

I had to take some time out from posting, all feeling very repitive for me, ttc for so long since the last mc. My next due date is this month and it will be a year ttc next month. All the crap 'anniversaries' are so annoying to remember I wish I didn't...

zoo I had medical management and the process was fine. Really cathartic personally to pass my baby...but it's a very personal thing. But I felt more at peace afterwards. I had it on Monday and travelled half way across the country with work on Friday. It wasn't ideal, but I couldn't get out of work, and I didn't tell them what had happened.

flat how were your bloods? Did I miss that bit? And also the fb group, I might just join you all!

I have af at the moment so hoping, yet again, like a hopefully twat that maybe, just maybe this one will be my month and I can get a positive test before my due date on the 27th....

I booked my holiday, we leave tomorrow evening. Both midwives I’ve spoken to seemed to think it was a great idea, so I assume it was the doctor being Uber cautious. I therefore plan to ignore him. No swimming for me, but at least I’ll be away.

It’s the emotional turmoil I’m finding so hard at the moment. Yesterday I felt quite upbeat but today it’s all come crashing down - I had to pop out earlier and ended up sitting in my car sobbing. I guess this is all pretty normal though?

I have an acupuncture appointment tomorrow, the first one since I found out about the baby last weekend. She seems hopeful she can get my cycles back to normal quickly. Whether it’s her doing or my own body, I’ll do anything to help so that we can start trying again quickly. If nothing else hopefully it’ll be relaxing.

@weasledee I hope this morning went well for you and you’re taking it easy for the next few days.

Hi @NoCatsHere It might sound silly but I wanted to pass the baby too, at least this first (and hopefully only!!) time. I can’t imagine not telling work though (if only because I didn’t want them to think I was skiving), so I applaud your bravery for travelling so soon after it had happened without saying anything. X

@Zoo i think you've done the right thing booking a holiday. It'll do you the world of good I expect.

@Weasle hope you're doing ok after today xxx

@NoCatsHere I couldn't get an appointment til Nov 14th to discuss bloods!

@Zoo33 how you're reacting is totally normal. I was ok on the day, but crumbled afterwards. Enjoy your holiday. We went on holiday 2 days later, and it was definitely the right thing to do.

@weasledee hope you're ok. Have been thinking of you today. Xx

Hi ladies, I’m home, bit spaced out but ok :)
As you said procedure was fine, it was more the build up that was worse! Bit sore and crampy but ok, getting treated to Chinese for today, which frankly I deserve after today :)
Thanks again for your wishes x

Take care weasle. You deserve spoiling today. Look after yourself Xx