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Someone help please who's more likely the father

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Lucozadex · 03/08/2017 15:10

Please please someone help me get some answers! I'm worried sick
I no my last period was around the end of May I want to say around 17th but can't be completely positive.. My cycle is usually date to date so 28-31 days I think! I don't keep track of my periods! I was having sex with guy# 1 all throughout may & June but we split up end of June and I had sex with guy#2 on 23th June this was around 2am in the morning so 24th very early morning i done a clear blue pregnancy test on 29th June 6 days after & it came up positive.. Could a home pregnancy test detect that early? I done a didgital clear blue pregnancy test on the 1st July and it said 3+ weeks ..someone please is ther any possibility it's guy#2 from 23th 24th June or will this baby be from sex in May and June with guy#1? This is really important to me as it's weather I end this pregnancy or not

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snackarella · 03/08/2017 15:33

Guy 1

Bea1985 · 03/08/2017 15:38

Guy 1. You did the preg test 5-6 days after sleeping with Guy 2 - it's not really possible for the baby to be his.

Betsyboo87 · 03/08/2017 15:38

Yep agree guy 1. If you only DTD with guy 2 on the 23rd/24th then even if that was ov day it would be too soon to get a bfp on the 29th. Hope it works out for you.

Mrscropley · 03/08/2017 15:39

Man 1.

No way would you have gotten a positive if it had been man 2.

Hope this helps. .

Calliwalli · 03/08/2017 15:41

Most probably guy 1. The best thing to do would be to go for a dating scan (you can get one privately if you don't want to go through nhs). They are pretty accurate so should give you a more solid idea.

dowhatyouwish · 03/08/2017 16:45

Your baby more than likely belongs to man number 1. I wouldn't give it to a mumsnet poll to decide the fate of your baby though. Definitely get to a doctor and have a chat and they can help you be more accurate

lovemelovemyboys · 03/08/2017 17:33

90% sure its baby daddy no 1 however 10% of me says it baby daddy 2 due to the fact you can ovulate very late in cycle and still get pregnant that month

dowhatyouwish · 03/08/2017 17:37

I would agree with you @lovemelovemyboys but I've never heard of a pregnancy test showing up positive 5/6 days after DTD. That's every TTC woman's dream haahahahha

lovemelovemyboys · 03/08/2017 17:58

I no cause it happened to me 😋

Mrscropley · 03/08/2017 18:06

I conceived on day 23 of a 28 day cycle but didn't get a positive til af was a fortnight late. .

pinkyredrose · 03/08/2017 19:26

Ever heard of STIs?

SleepFreeZone · 03/08/2017 19:36

Guy 1

NoMoreBones · 03/08/2017 19:38

Guy 1

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Lucozadex · 04/08/2017 14:48

Did u get a positive pregnancy test early? This was mine 5/6 days after sex with guy#2
Looks quite Clear & dark am I right to say that? Or doesn't it matter positive is positive?

Someone help please who's more likely the father
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WineAndTiramisu · 04/08/2017 14:51

I'd say definitely guy 1

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Lucozadex · 04/08/2017 14:57

Also would like to add because nobody's mentioned it yet I got a digital clear blue test result reading 3+
This was only 8 days after sex with guy#2 so 1st July. How reliable are these tests ..anyone had false results?

Someone help please who's more likely the father
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hiimmumma · 04/08/2017 15:18

It's guy 1
You've got such a strong positive
And the clear blue is saying 3+ weeks.

If it was guy 2 it would say 1-2weeks if anything at all that early.

It's seems like your clinging on to hope that it will be guy 2 but it's really not looking like it is I'm afraid.

The best way to confirm is a dating scan if you can get one.

Sorry for in a tricky situation. I hope it works out for you Flowers

ifeellikechickentonight · 04/08/2017 15:22

Yeah, I'm almost certain from what you've said it's Guy 1. I don't think that's what you want to hear and like others say a dating scan will tell you definitely but it's very rare to get a BFP 8/9 days after ovulation and when you do they're super faint. Yours look much further along.

turquoise88 · 04/08/2017 15:26

It's Guy 1.

There's no way you'd get a Clearblue 3+ 8 days after sleeping with Guy 2 if it was him.

Afishcalledchips · 04/08/2017 15:26

Very helpful pinkyredrose Hmm

TheHodgeoftheHedge · 04/08/2017 15:29

Simply from the maths showing on the tests, it's obviously guy 1.

You can't be 3 weeks pregnant with guy 2 less than a week after you slept with him.
Sorry.

Have you been to the docs and got the ball rolling on dating scans/options? You did these tests over a month ago?

abigcupoffuckyou · 04/08/2017 15:34

Very helpful pinkyredrose

I think it is helpful, OP needs to be having a lot more tests than just pregnancy ones!

It's door number 1. 2 is not possible.

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Lucozadex · 04/08/2017 15:43

Thank you so much everyone who's replied to this it really helps speaking about it & having other opinions
Yes I went to the doctors mid July was still so confused when I came out so waited a week called him back and asked for the midwives number I'm seeing her next week then she can refer me for a scan

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FeralBeryl · 04/08/2017 15:47

Another vote for 1 here too.
Please do not feel pressurised in to making any decisions you aren't comfortable with. The relationships board is helpful if you need to talk your situation over Flowers

Betsyboo87 · 04/08/2017 16:12

Yes you're best getting a dating scan but I think you should prepare yourself for it to be guy 1...... I drew a diagram out to my head round the dates so I'm pretty sure Hmm

Couple of posts say pinky isn't being helpful, admittedly she was a little blunt but you should follow the advice and get an sti test done.