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Someone help please who's more likely the father

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Lucozadex · 03/08/2017 15:10

Please please someone help me get some answers! I'm worried sick
I no my last period was around the end of May I want to say around 17th but can't be completely positive.. My cycle is usually date to date so 28-31 days I think! I don't keep track of my periods! I was having sex with guy# 1 all throughout may & June but we split up end of June and I had sex with guy#2 on 23th June this was around 2am in the morning so 24th very early morning i done a clear blue pregnancy test on 29th June 6 days after & it came up positive.. Could a home pregnancy test detect that early? I done a didgital clear blue pregnancy test on the 1st July and it said 3+ weeks ..someone please is ther any possibility it's guy#2 from 23th 24th June or will this baby be from sex in May and June with guy#1? This is really important to me as it's weather I end this pregnancy or not

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Thissameearth · 06/10/2017 12:29

Agree with others it's unchanged by new info and sounds like person 1. @juneau I think I remember the OP saying she actually wants it to be person 1 as he's her long term ex but she's just paranoid it's person 2 is that right OP?

Lucozadex · 06/10/2017 12:33

I done the pregnancy test 6days after sex with guy #2 & the digital clear blue test 8 days after sex with guy #2 ..does anyone no if lmp are usually correct with dates they give you? Would I have already missed my period by 23/24th June?

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Ttbb · 06/10/2017 12:39

Does it make any difference? My guess would by the first man but you can always get tested.

Allthebestnamesareused · 06/10/2017 12:40

It is still guy1.

I assume you want it to be Guy2 though because otherwise why do you keep asking?

MamaOfTwos · 06/10/2017 12:44

It's guy #1

You need to decide if you're continuing with the pregnancy and if you are, tell him.

Next time, use a condom - HTH

GlitteryFluff · 06/10/2017 12:47

I agree with the others. Guy 1 still. Who's do you want it to be? Do you want to talk about it? Please get checked for sti's too.

Lucozadex · 06/10/2017 12:49

I want baby to be guy #1 I just don't understand why we didn't get pregnant beforehand and as soon as we split up and I sleep with somebody else I'm pregnant

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Tiddlywinks63 · 06/10/2017 12:50

OP you have 50-odd people telling you pretty well got to be guy 1.
Clearly you don't want it to be him bout why are you still questioning?
It's never going to be guy 2 however many times you ask Confused

Lucozadex · 06/10/2017 12:50

I got tested for stis with midwife I was very lucky with clear results

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Lucozadex · 06/10/2017 12:55

I just want to be sure and haven't got anybody I trust to talk this through its made my pregnancy miserable and I feel like It should be a happy experience instead I'm full of worry

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SparklyMagpie · 06/10/2017 12:55

OP it's still guy 1. It hasn't changed

What exactly is it that you're worried about?

SparklyMagpie · 06/10/2017 12:56

Sorry hadn't refreshed an noticed a few more comments, shall go back and read

SparklyMagpie · 06/10/2017 12:57

Well you can start to enjoy your pregnancy because its guy 1 OP

NSEA · 06/10/2017 12:58

You don't need to worry. Remind yourself repeatedly that its guy no. 1.

Whatever happens you are the baby's mum and that is something to enjoy. Once the baby is born You are going to care about him/her much more than you will care who the dad, I assure you of that.

Take care of yourself, take care of the baby and remember its guy no. 1!

Ecureuil · 06/10/2017 13:00

It’s almost certainly guy 1

lalaloopyhead · 06/10/2017 13:08

Just a question for those in the know though, do the weeks indicated on a pg test not work the same way as weeks worked out by MW?

No of weeks PG is taken from the first day of your last period right? So by the time you get PG (assuming a very regular cycle with ovulation in the middle) you are already 2+ weeks PG by due date calculations.

Sorry OP I don't think anything I have said helps you, but clarification on that might be relevant.

Had you been actively ttc with Guy 1 for some time?

Ecureuil · 06/10/2017 13:17

No they don’t lalaloopyhead, the dates on the test work from conception.

Lucozadex · 06/10/2017 13:29

We wasn't planning on having baby so no not trying?

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Ecureuil · 06/10/2017 13:31

So if you weren’t trying, were you using contraception?

Lucozadex · 06/10/2017 13:36

No never with guy#1 I'm happy to have a family with him with guy #2 I was lost from my split up and completely drunk and foolish and it just happened

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SparklyMagpie · 06/10/2017 13:40

Does guy 1 know you are pregnant with his baby?

Lucozadex · 06/10/2017 13:44

Yes he does ..

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verystressedmum · 06/10/2017 13:49

From everything you've said it's almost certain that guy 1 is the dad.
These things happen, plenty of people have had one night stands and sex with other people so don't feel you have to explain yourself.
But try and enjoy your pregnancy and relax a bit.

Dragonzord81 · 06/10/2017 13:50

Hello how are you?

2furbabies · 06/10/2017 14:35

It's guy 1 op

You can relax now try to enjoy yourself xx

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