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No period or pregnancy symptoms :/??

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16MrsE · 04/06/2017 18:44

Since coming off the pill I have had my period bang on time, arriving always on the 3Rd or 4th of each month. Therefore I was expecting my period to come today or yesterday (sat/sun).. Instead since Friday j have had odd bit of brown discharge which I've only noticed from wiping or once using a tampon for a few hours.. I've since been wearing a panty liner and had nothing show up.

I didn't expect to be considering pregnancy this month as I'm the pervious weeks we have been on holiday and avoiding pregnancy via the "pull out" technique. We were told by our nurse before going on holiday to avoid pregnancy until we returned and had a test for the Zika virus.

We hadn't had sex since coming home two weeks ago but haven't had the money to have the test for Zika yet.

Any thoughts on whether this sounds like pregnancy? I haven't really had any other symptoms x

Thanks x

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ThisisImpossible1 · 10/07/2017 15:50

Miscarriage is very serious. Make sure you know what your dealing with and talking about.
You need help. Sorry to say it on here but all your posts and all your other threads you have started on the same issues have all been very desperate.
If you don't like the opinions of compete strangers don't come on the internet asking for them.
You are obsessed and it comes across on here quite blatantly.
You also seem to be kidding yourself.
You need to calm down your body will not want to conceive.
Do you like the drama of it all? The attention you get from TTC? This is what it seems like.

tobeornottobe1 · 10/07/2017 16:05

You poor thing 16 ,
Yes she does sound abit desperate to be pregnant but so do alot of people on here. And yes she was pregnant! She has just quite obviously had a chemical with a desperately wanted baby which would have been due on her anniversary? Show a lil compassion maybe? And again she is obviously holding onto something as she isnt bleeding full flow and desperately thinks she may suddenly get a positive test again? Maybe??
16 dear I dont think your mental at all I think your just going through the motions. Im
Glad your husband is getting tested for zika and then you can get back onto the TTC wagon. I would recommend taking your vitamins to prepare your eggs for fertilisation for good quality eggs. Your young huni im sure you will be just fine and youll get there in the end. X

ThisisImpossible1 · 10/07/2017 16:14

My period was 12 days late this month. I did a clear blue test and it came back positive. I went to docs and got a blood test and it came back negative. My period started 2 days later. You can get fake positives.

16MrsE · 10/07/2017 16:15

Tobeornottobe1 thank you for the support and understanding. I can't believe people actually think I'm doing this for attention. I'm not that sort of person. To those people, You've got me all wrong.

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whyhastherumgone · 10/07/2017 16:27

16 I hope my post did not come across that way, I don't think you're doing it for attention at all but just want to prevent any unnecessary confusion or upset from relying on the OPKs.

tobeornottobe1 · 10/07/2017 16:33

Thisisimpossible, im sorry to hear this, but fake positives are quite rare. What made your gp do a blood test out of interest? As this isnt the norm either.

tobeornottobe1 · 10/07/2017 16:36

Just to add, clear blues and super drug early results are quite notorious for evap lines, This is very uncommon in FRER tests.

whyhastherumgone · 10/07/2017 16:37

Didn't realise that tobe - good to know, thanks!

ThisisImpossible1 · 10/07/2017 16:39

I asked him too! It would have been baby number 4 and I was pretty desperate to know if it was truly happening or not. I wouldn't want to be pregnant so I wanted to know asap what was going on and to have make a decision on the matter straight away.
It didn't feel pregnant at all. With my other 3 I have had the same early symptoms. But I was very late and getting worried (I think this is why I was probably so late. To stressed to come on) and I had the positive so he agreed to the bloods.

ThisisImpossible1 · 10/07/2017 16:43

I also did a pink test. Just a cheap dip one and that was positive too! But it did cost 99p so you can't trust really. Hence why I did a clear blue. But I wouldn't trust them either now!

ThisisImpossible1 · 10/07/2017 16:46

OP you said you used clear blue. It could not be trust worthy then. We both had the same outcome. I would stay away from them now only use the digital ones that tell you how pregnant you are.

tobeornottobe1 · 10/07/2017 17:33

I guess it could be possible you too hAd a chemical and by the time the bloods were taken your hcg levels returned to below 5? Or your very unfortunate to of had positive tests with no hcg in your system. Sounds like it was a real mind fuck situation for you. X

Zigazigaaahhh · 10/07/2017 19:31

Hope your ok OP?

TheseAreTheGoodOldDays · 10/07/2017 20:13

Hope you're ok OP! X

MouseLove · 10/07/2017 22:20

Yes I hope you are ok OP. It seems the messages got a little murky since my last post. The OP had a positive test earlier on from a FRER pink dye. There's no mistaking she's possibly had a chemical pregnancy. Let's just get that straight. Something I wouldn't wish on anyone.

However my comment about speaking with your GP about your mental and physical health has been interpreted wrong. I didn't say you had mental issues. Not that you were 'mental' - mental health can take the form of stress, grief, depression, ill feelings and struggles whilst TTC. My advice would be to talk about your issues face to face, because I don't think a forum full of people telling you things is really helping. Please don't think the word mental is a stigmatism for everything bad.

whyhastherumgone · 11/07/2017 10:38

Just checking back to see how you are OP

TheseAreTheGoodOldDays · 11/07/2017 14:02

Ah I hope 16 comes back, we were in the Zika boat together!

Writerwannabe83 · 12/07/2017 08:50

I have a feeling she won't be after the recent posts. I hope she's ok though and feels she can still use the forum for support when she needs it Flowers

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