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Thread 27. TTC #1 - we're stressed, we're fed up, we're bitter but I promise this will all be worth it when we're holding our precious babies

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AlexiaB · 11/03/2017 11:00

Calling all OPK-ers, Temp-ers, Clomid-ers, Femara-ers, IUI-ers, IVF-ers and anyone else on the TTC #1 Bus.

We've been going a while now so the novelty has worn off and we're slightly battle scarred and bruised in the cervix area. We don't get a lot of baby dust in these here parts, we just keep it legs spread and fingers crossed (LSFX). We love a baby bomb from a prior bus-mate but if we get told to 'just relax and enjoy it' ONE MORE TIME you will get a punch in the face!

Here's our Grad's Thread. May 2017 lead us all to upduffed heaven and the Grad's thread, amen.

Hop on board, post your stats and prepare to be dazzled by the wealth of TTC knowledge we long-timeys have to share...

Key:
HS - have/had sex
GOS - good old shag
ELH - enthusiastic lavatory happenings
LSFX - legs spread, fingers crossed

Thread 27. TTC #1 - we're stressed, we're fed up, we're bitter but I promise this will all be worth it when we're holding our precious babies
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InspectorPenguin · 31/03/2017 15:43

Konnichiwa ladies! Grin
I am back from our trip and loving this sunshine we've returned to.

Excuse the lack of proper catch up but I've had a read when I could and see we have had a couple of BFPs and are due some exciting test results soon. Fingers crossed!

Macs how on earth you are waiting until tomorrow is beyond me but well done! How late will you be by then?

Sorry about the sad times and struggles there have been for some of you. Alexia, I hope some time at your folks is giving you the rest and support you need.

Kwick I'm shocked your clinic has moved the goalposts on you like that. What a total head fuck after everything you have been through. I'm so sorry.

Jam it must be almost moving in day for you?? How bloody exciting! This is the best time of year to move house by far, but I hope it hasn't been too manic getting all the packing and moving done. Do you have time off work to settle yourselves in?
And AMAZING news on your DH SA results too. Those numbers are phenomenal! I took another look at DP's and they put his to shame; I am now wondering if his 51% motility is an issue after all??

Pug I would echo joining the exercise/weight loss boards on here for some extra motivation and support. Do you go to your local Park Run? I totally recommend that if not. They are wonderful, inclusive, community events and there is no pressure to be any good at running at all - you can walk the entire thing if you like and no-one would bat an eye.
It's a lovely way to start your weekend and put you in a healthy frame of mind. I find I eat better and am more active when I start with Park Run, as opposed to loafing in bed until 11 which is obviously my natural preference :)

Sk1pper if I ever got sore nipples I would be very excited. Keep prodding them!

Re Japan, I'm happy to do a low down for those of you planning your trips. In short it was amazing from start to finish (17 days), so easy to get around and everyone was amazingly friendly and helpful.

We did Tokyo - Hiroshima - Osaka - KoyaSan - Kyoto - Tokyo (with a few trips on top of that to smaller places). We sadly missed the cherry blossom by about a week, but we always knew that would be the case.

I could go on for hours about it though so I'd better not clog up this thread. For those of you heading over there just let me know if there's anything you want to know, or we can PM and save everyone else being subjected to it.

Getting back to TTC topic there's no news from me other than AF arrived bang on time despite the long haul travel. That means my last 4 cycles have been 31 days though so I think the 18 years of Microgynon has finally been banished and I am back to a regular cycle. Hooray!

Hope you are all having a lovely Friday and have fun plans for the weekend!

sk1pper · 31/03/2017 16:24

Glad you had a good time Penguin - were staying in Tokyo but taking a couple of trips out to see Mount Fuji and hopefully the Ghibli Museum (if I can get tickets). How was Tokyo in general? I'm a little worried about the language barrier, I've learnt the basics like please, sorry, thank you so at least I can be polite but the chances of me remembering any more are slim.

InspectorPenguin · 31/03/2017 16:55

Tokyo was amazing Sk1pper. We actually changed the plan for the last 3 days so that we sent more time there at the end of the trip as the three days at the start wasn't enough.
I would have loved to go to Fuji but we just didn't have time - I'm sure that will be lovely.

There really were no issues with language at all. We were prepared to find it tricky in the big cities and tough in the more remote places but English was on all the signs and spoken by everyone we came into contact with. It was all just really easy!

The train stations can be a bit overwhelming to start with, especially when you've just arrived and are tired, but that's due to the sheer volume of people everywhere and the number of lines/platforms.

There are maps with the station names written in Romanji (i.e. using our alphabet) and if you're ever stuck for where to go/what ticket to buy you can ask any of the many, many staff that are around and they'll be able to help you in English. But you probably won't need to because everything's signed and all the announcements on platforms/trains/busses are done in English.

We went out there not knowing any words and have only come back with 'thank you very much' - to our shame!

Honestly, it all works so well and is so visitor friendly that you won't have any problems. They are hosting the 2020 Olympics so I think a lot of investment has been made because of that.

One of the best things is the number of public toilets everywhere. You never need to hold on for more than five minutes out there, it's bliss! Everything is spotless too and very, very safe. We never saw a single bike locked up in any of the cities, there is just no theft.

It's much cheaper than I was expecting as well. Out hotels were fairly expensive, but we went for nice ones and booked them late in the day, but restaurants, travel, shops, attractions etc. were all loads cheaper than over here. You can easily eat for under 1000 Yen (just over £7) if you go to local places, and the food is delicious.

One thing I would recommend would be to get a Japanese SIM or mobile WiFi if you want to avoid using your data overseas. There is WiFi around, but when you're travelling it's tricky to get onto the public networks (you have to pre-register and it's a bit faffy).
There is this article on TripAdvisor about some options.

You will have a brilliant time - when are you going? Just be prepared for it to be very busy!! And don't bother learning how to say sorry or excuse me when navigating through crowds, because no-one else does!!

I'm envious... I want to go back!

SmittenPears · 31/03/2017 17:39

"When the nipples get involved, all bets are off!"
-- new favourite MN quote; thanks Jam. Happy new home!!

Londonjam · 31/03/2017 17:46

Fx Kerry sounds really promising

Hello penguin! Lovely to have you back. Your trip sounds fabulous, it sounds like you packed loads in. My DH is desperate to go there, think it's pretty high on our list. 51% motility is absolutely fine I think! Yes very relieved his morphology is up, although very much expecting af this weekend so not cracked it yet.

Thanks smitten we got the keys a few hours ago and have had an emotional glass of champagne together in our very first home! It hasn't really sunk in yet but it feels good 😊

sk1pper · 31/03/2017 17:49

What a great run through - thanks for posting all that. I am very, very excited for the food and learning all the history. Also, I ALWAYS worry about toilets when I go abroad. I don't have the worst bladder but whenerever I have a drink, I normally need to pee straight afterwards and sometimes I'll purposefully dehydrate myself because I'm worried about toilets - that sounds crazy now I've written it down. So yeah your paragraphs on toilets made me smile.

We're going in June, right after our wedding. It's rain season in Japan but we've always been lucky with weather in the past so I'm hoping it's not too horrendous.

I'm glad you had such a lovely time, I may have more questions as the date looms.

sk1pper · 31/03/2017 17:51

Jam - congratulations on your new home! 🍾

Binkybunny13 · 31/03/2017 18:16

Hi all, sorry I've been so flakey. Had a really crap week and been really busy so I've avoided here and tried to keep TTC (and today's appointment) out of my mind

Pug- wow about the ccg looking to cut clomid as well! Sheesh. Glad they were positive though, and brilliant with the weight loss. I expect this motivation will help you power through and lose what you want- rooting for you

Flash I'm having the same issue with weight- I'm still in "healthy" range but I've gained weight for some reason or actually in my case as I'm feeding my TTC sadness

Sorry there's been people feeling blue and baby bombed- stay strong, it's shit but we will get through to the other side, just got to hold on in there and whether we need help in the end or not, it will be worth it 👍

Kwick so sorry your FC have moved the goalposts. Hope you find another one and they bring you luck!

Good luck TWWers!

Also, in non TTC world- how's job stuff kwick? And huge congratulations jam!! 🎉And amazing holiday penguin, sounds incredible!

As for me, I'm CD16, last cycle 38days in the end. Randomly EWCM today but the OPK I did was negative. Been a bit sporadic this cycle as so busy so can't even see a trend with them. Not likely to O for a few days though I suspect with my long cycles- Jam could you please put me down for the 18th? (god I'll be another year older by then 😞)

Had my GP follow up appointment from my Ultrasound today- I definitely have PCOS, and had a ruptured cyst so that was my agonising pain a couple of months ago. As I'm now 9 months in to trying, she was very understanding and agreed that starting referral process was fine as I won't get to clinic probably until the year mark anyway. So DH has to have a sperm assessment and then the infertility clinic referral happens. Feeling a bit "blah" now

Hope everyone has lovely weekends and we get some more good news here soon x

SmittenPears · 31/03/2017 18:56

Sending good vibes blinky Flowers

Yay, what a great feeling jam, congrats again. Glad you're celebrating :)

Flashinthepan · 31/03/2017 19:03

Ooo thanks for that smitten I can go down in MN history now.Wink

Congrats jam so thrilled for you. Hurrah for the regular cycles inspector and Japan sounds incredible - somewhere I have always wanted to go.

glitteryvibes · 31/03/2017 20:36

macs i do not know how you have not tested?! arnt you about 16dpo now? crossing all my fingers and toes for you.

binky ouch on the ruptured cyst. do they think clomid or similar would work for you or is that down to the fertility consultant to decide?

jam congrats on the house, i think ive only recently finished upacking and i moved about 6 months ago!

officially in the tww (or 11 day window as it seems to be!) if i make it to beyond 10dpo with no spotting i will be chuffed.

macsworth · 31/03/2017 20:52

Thanks so much for all the info about Japan penguin. We're doing a similar trip to you, flying on Thurs. I had the same worries as skipper about language so that really good to hear about how easy it was. Any one/two things you reckon are "do not miss?"

Massive congrats on the house jam.

So sorry you're having a hard time binky. Good that they're starting the referral process. FX you don't need it.

Good luck with TWW glittery!

Yep, I'm 16DPO today and CD35. I honestly have been too scared to test which is ridiculous. I had a rogue 47 day cycle in August which I think really messed with my head as I kept testing when I thought I was late but kept seeing BFN. And then my chemical in December lasted until DPO16 so I think I just wanted to wait.
Anyway, we will have some answers in the morning!

Carley27 · 31/03/2017 23:51

Massive congrats on the house Jam! Hope you enjoy celebrating your new home and hope AF stays away for you!

Kerry hope your symptoms are a good sign, FX!

You are an absolute trooper holding off testing Mac, FX crossed for you tomorrow!

Apologies for my absence (yet again..), I have been lurking though. And sorted out my me being a dumbass technical issues so I can get onto my account via phone/tablet as well as laptop, so I should keep up with this thread better now!

Not feeling optimistic this cycle.. CD22 and still no positive OPK. It was pretty dark today but not positive, although I got different IC's and don't like them so much. FF reckons I should ovulate tomorrow (April Fools Hmm) based on last month, but I got a +ve OPK CD22 last month, so reckon I will be a day or two later this month (hopefully I actually ovulate!).

Although the waiting is pissing me off it's actually good I've not ovulated yet as DH has been working away all week so we couldn't HS Mon-Thurs. He got home tonight and I pretty much jumped him as soon as he got in, just really hope we at least have a chance this cycle!

Waiting for the fake April Fools baby bombs tomorrow too.. urgh.

SmittenPears · 01/04/2017 03:13

Ugh,, pardon my misplaced citation, flash -- you made me laugh!

macsworth · 01/04/2017 07:48

So I feel a bit foolish for waiting for long to test now....

Thread 27. TTC #1 - we're stressed, we're fed up, we're bitter but I promise this will all be worth it when we're holding our precious babies
Kathrino · 01/04/2017 08:06

Congratulations macs!!

InspectorPenguin · 01/04/2017 08:08

Yes! Macs, I knew it!!! StarStar
That is the line of our dreams!

How are you feeling?? Any clear symptoms that you've been ignoring?

Huge congratulations, hope you have a lovely happy excited weekend of it.
And Japan is still an excellent choice for your holiday, don't worry, although you may not be in the mood for the fish market at 6am..!

Londonjam · 01/04/2017 08:09

That's a blazer! Congratulations mac how are you feeling?

Pyjamas81 · 01/04/2017 08:15

Congratulations mac!!! What a belter of a line!! Brilliant news 😁😁😁

Starmist · 01/04/2017 08:20

Yayyyy congratulations Macs what wonderful news! Grin

Miranda234 · 01/04/2017 08:24

Congratulations macs!!! SmileSmileSmile

Tonks87 · 01/04/2017 08:30

Congratulations Macs! Fab news! Smile

glitteryvibes · 01/04/2017 08:32

Yes macs so happy for you! No doubting that line. Fx for the next 9 months.

Carley27 · 01/04/2017 08:34

Congratulations mac!! What a lovely clear line 😊

What cycle is this for you? And did you do anything different this cycle? Wishing you a happy and healthy 9 months x

WingingIt83 · 01/04/2017 08:44

What a line macs!! Congratulations, what cycle were you on?

Glad you loved Japan penguin it really is an amazing place.

Fingers crossed for kerry those sound like real symptoms!

FW now for me but have been utterly unmotivated this month and have only HS for first time today. No ewcm yet though so think I might have a late ov month. .maybe that pesky clock change has had something to do with it!

Has swab and another blood test last week which gp said had to be done before referral so as soon as those results come in we can get officially referred.