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MotherOfBeagles · 27/02/2017 19:41

I get twitchy at the end lol! So next rollover thread. Roll call?

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Londonjam · 16/03/2017 09:06

Keeping everything crossed for you Kate

DuRezidal · 16/03/2017 09:55

I'm ok about it, was just being impatient as planned to do it Saturday like the last one :-)

@physicskate I wouldn't worry at all, everyone is different and it will come up in a few days I am sure.

Mimilicious013 · 16/03/2017 10:17

Have everything crossed for you too @kate

Mimilicious013 · 16/03/2017 11:15

Sorry for af @tee , Flowers.l feel your pain lovely ,but hopefully this is your month . really glad that your oh is supportive. It takes away some of the pressure.

Glad scan went well and all was looking good @durez. No more tests for you. You will only drive yourself insane. Enjoy the moment.

How are you today @foot ?any new hopeful symptoms? Counting down to your romantic weekend Grinwhere are you off to and who's staying with the boys?

@mama, you are doing a great job there dtdWink.hope you keep the momentum and are lucky to catch the egg.

Thanks for the info @earth.how are you doing?

Keeping an eye on your 12week scan @kiki.

Cd32 no af and no symptom. It's going to be a loooooong cycle.

Kiki18 · 16/03/2017 11:36

Hey all,

So sorry to those who ha e had AF arrive was so hoping that we would see more bfps on here - am really rooting for everyone xx

I have my fingers tightly crossed for those still waiting for af to show hopefully it's stays away for you!

Durez - glad to see scan went well hopefully it will give you some peace of mind that all is well x

Fingers crossed for you Kate I think it is such early days that tests can be so unreliable and variable - maybe the cb Digi is just not picking it up yet like it's been said no bleeding is a good thing xx

Thanks mim 6 days to go till 12 week scan and hopefully confirmation of if we are 12 or 13 weeks all being well.

Footy1 · 16/03/2017 11:49

Cd35Starno af and still no symptoms. Must be our age mimi eh?! Lol
Going away tomorrow lunchtime for our romantic weekend spa a few hours away. My sister is staying with us tonight and is having the boys. She's not seen them in ages so is very excited.
I'm really looking forward to it. Hoping we can really enjoy ourselves and talk lots. He's still v keen to have a new addition so that's a bit of relief!

Tee4me · 16/03/2017 12:05

Wow Mim & Footy, I really hope this is gearing up for bfps! Hey you're still young, come on! We will totally get there girls xx
Kiki eeekkk that's so exciting, you're so close to that milestone now, I'm on the edge of my seat to hear everything is perfect for you!!
Footy that's great you have a much needed break together. At the end of the day our kids will eventually leave us, and we won't be the most important person in their lives anymore (I know, ouch!!), but with any luck hubby's will still be holding our hands when we're 80... that's right people, a DH is for life, not just for Christmas!! 😂

Footy1 · 16/03/2017 13:31

Tee I know! My boys getting so tall and grown up that I can't lift them anymore. They even tell me now to "stop stressing mummy" when dinner doesn't go according to plan. Haha
Yes need to invest some quality time with Dh. After all I did marry him! Me just being me and doing what I do has made him love me more even though it was a challenge and a half to be kind after the Christmas milarky.

Kate, I'm going to knit you some booties as I believe it will all be ok! Glad I've got nearly 9 months as it might take that long. Might attempt to knit u all some lol.. x

physicskate · 16/03/2017 17:52

I did a tesco one this aft which says to use from missed period. Negative... not many shops near me! So nowhere else to go to get one! Would have to order from Amazon...

Had a very small bleed today ... pink and brown...

Freaking out and very upset. DH doesn't know what to do or say. Nor do I.... All this time and now a fucking chemical.

Londonjam · 16/03/2017 18:29

Kate I don't want to encourage false hope but my colleague is 8 weeks and bled twice last week, had a scan and saw a perfect heartbeat. I really hope this will be you too. How many DPO are you now?

physicskate · 16/03/2017 18:55

16 dpo... it isnt just the slight bleed (spotting really).. it's the now two negative tests!!! No real cramps yet. But clearly not enough hcg...

If this turns into my second chemical I think it probably means either thyroid and/ or progesterone issues... I fucking hate this shit!!!!!

Londonjam · 16/03/2017 18:58

I fucking hate it too Sad keeping everything crossed for you and really hope it's just still too early to show on some tests.

physicskate · 16/03/2017 19:00

Thanks foot... you might have a lot longer than that...

I know time will tell... but after a year of waiting... I'm just out of patience today.

Nimisha · 16/03/2017 19:07

Hi all,

Quick update as nearly dinner,

Sorry Tee about AF. Kate thats really Naff, I did have a chemical they cycle before BFP so its positive in a way but I know it feels absolutely devastating.

Good news on scan Durez.

I went to EPU today as HPT still positive. Had a scan and there is a "something" in my uterus. Not another pregnancy, maybe leftover products, they are not sure what to do.. Took a blood sample and were supposed to ring this afternoon with a plan but didn't. I'm in limbo, cant even miscarry properly Sad .

Tee4me · 16/03/2017 19:08

I'm sorry Kate, this sucks, it really does Sad

Tee4me · 16/03/2017 19:11

Oh Nim! If there is something there, isn't an ERPC the best option? On the other hand I hope it's a miracle conception post MC... is that something you've ruled out? Could it possibly be? x

physicskate · 16/03/2017 20:04

Oh nim!! That's rotten! Today is officially shite!

Londonjam · 16/03/2017 21:20

Oh nim that's rubbish, I hope they can help you sort this out quickly

Russkispy · 16/03/2017 22:13

Hi ladies, I'm still here, rooting for you all!

Durez- congratulations!

Kate, I'm really sorry you're going through this crap! Jesus, can't even imagine how you're feeling now!

And I'm really sorry for all BFNs do far and the jones are still waiting for something to happen, I,e ovulation, AF. So still looking for answers. Shitty times! Sending you all big hugs.

All is well my end, Babi is kicking and moving as we speak. Tomorrow, we're 27 weeks, and entering our final trimester. Wish she was here today! We're ready for her. Hopefully she's ready for us haha

My 28 week scan is end if this month, then I'll have it at 32 and 36 weeks due to my ancient age!

DuRezidal · 16/03/2017 22:19

@physicskate I would take yourself to EPU and get some bloods done as the not knowing is possibly the most frustrating. I wouldn't give up hope yet though, you had a positive with a FRER which are super sensitive so I would only truly worry if you had a negative on one of those.

I had bleeding and spotting too at 4 weeks (after BFP) which was quite heavy!

physicskate · 17/03/2017 07:12

It's all over. Horrid cramps and heavy bleeding. And diarreah for good measure. So gp once I've recovered to start investigations. Life sucks right now. Have to go to work though as it would wreck me to stay home.

Nimisha · 17/03/2017 07:26

Tee, unfortunately it looks nothing like a pregnancy, so that's the one thing it isn't. Might be a polyp??

Nimisha · 17/03/2017 07:27

So sorry Kate.

Tee4me · 17/03/2017 07:42

I'm really sorry Kate, that's absolutely gutting. I can imagine you are feeling pretty rotten right now.
I have a GP appointment on 30th to discuss that we've been trying for 15months with x2 unsuccessful pregnancies (that I know of, I only test when late). I just wonder if they will perceive this to be a positive, that there have been bfps? I'm sure you agree, if doesn't feel like success to us Sad
Will be thinking of you today, massive hugs to you x

Tee4me · 17/03/2017 07:43

Really hope you get an answer soon Nim x

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