swim, I've read the same as Miami and I'd get checked out if I were you love. You must be sodding exhausted from bleeding so much. Are you taking any iron? Floradix is slightly less harsh on the tummy than pills. Just if you're feeling really wiped out.
I was desperate for first af but chilled a bit when I read it should be at least 20 days after mc stops. Is your EPU any good?
Cashmere, I'm so sorry you're going through this. Neither conservative nor medical management did anything for me. My baby had stopped growing 4 weeks before they found out so nothing seemed likely to happen anytime soon. I did two lots of medical management and lost quite a bit of blood and tissue but a chunk ended up getting stuck which was horrifically painful so it ended with an MVA.
Will you be awake for your surgery? Several of us have had it so please ask any questions. Do you know when it'll be? Sending love x
I'm glad I didn't rush to surgery the day we found out. I needed the time to process the shock of what happened. If I'd thought about it before the idea of carrying on as normal knowing what happened would have been too awful for words. But it didn't feel yuck or upsetting at all, I needed time to say goodbye to my baby and all my hopes and dreams of that pregnancy and wanted to keep it safe inside me for a few more days.
I'm not sure anyone can really understand that if they haven't experienced it. Don't get my wrong - a few days later I was off my face on painkillers and wishing the whole thing would come to an end, so the surgery was a blessed relief and once it was over I could focus on trying to feel better a day at a time.
Take care of yourself 