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TTC after miscarriage thread #7

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SayItIsntSo1 · 11/12/2016 08:16

Hello,

Starting a new one as we've maxed out the #6 thread.

Hoping MrsY, Brenna, Rose, Legend, Miami, Bertie, Insufficiently and all the others find it!

Let it be our lucky no.7 thread for BFPs Grin

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Littlemisssugarplum88 · 31/12/2016 16:00

Ahh congratulations to those who've had a bfp recently...amazing news!!
A little bit tmi, but I feel quite excited lol...just been to the toilet and had a little bit of cm for the first time since my mc two weeks ago Grinxx

BertieBotts · 31/12/2016 18:27

Ah Little, that's great! Glad things seem to be moving on for you :)

I feel sooo relaxed and dopey. Been doing this for so long that I'm well aware there is no good month to be pregnant but I just have a weird feeling that it's going to happen this month with the break from all the stress. (Not the best month because DS was conceived on NYE 9 years ago!) But we've actually DTD loads Blush including twice some days and I can see lots of signs of my fertile week so I am quietly hoping here.

MrsY87 · 31/12/2016 18:41

Fingers crossed for you Bertie. I'm sure being off work for a couple of weeks and being so busy with Christmas is what has helped me this cycle.

Rum I saw a consultant privately after my second mc and he prescribed me progesterone basically on my request. Have also been taking COQ10 after reading up about how it can help to improve egg quality.

We are off to a wedding/NYE party this evening, not quite sure how I am going to hide not drinking!

Happy new year to everyone, I really hope that 2017 is much better than 2016 and brings us all we wish for Smile

Carlotta82248 · 31/12/2016 20:02

Hello everyone, I'm new here, 34 TTC#1, got my first BFP after 4 months of trying just in time for Christmas, unfortunately it wasn't meant to be and had an early MC at 5+1 on Christmas Eve. Not the best festive period, currently experiencing EWCM.....parents staying at moment so no chance of DTD, to be honest I don't know if I can, feel equally scared of conceiving and not conceiving :( x

whyhastherumgone · 01/01/2017 00:33

Happy new year all let's hope 2017 brings both physical and mental recovery and sticky pregnancies!

whyhastherumgone · 01/01/2017 00:34

Carlotta I feel your pain I started on Christmas Eve and still going :(
I'm giving myself a break to recover before even thinking about it. I know what you mean about the fear!

TheLegendOfBeans · 01/01/2017 07:13

Good morning ladies and a happy new year!

Feeling much better now after my grouchy post of the other day as January is my favourite month of the year and I love the feeling of newbstarts, new beginnings, and new hope.

DP (DH in 27 days) and I haven't DTD for two days now, it may or may not be my FW, I'm not binning it off from my mind and concentrating on shifting the extra stone of lard and basically looking like a foxy sex goddess by spring in the hope that the moment I think "Beans, you look alright actually", I'll get knocked up and end up blowing up like a zeppelin again.

Welcome to our hangout new joiners, rant, seethe, hope, pray, discuss TMI gynealogucal info at will. We are all here for the same thing so c'mon 2017! X

TheLegendOfBeans · 01/01/2017 07:14

*now

(oh the typos Hmm)

Anna2006 · 01/01/2017 21:50

Little good news on the CM, hopefully that means your cycle and regulating and settling.

I'm in my FW and got a positive on an OPK today so gonna try dtd as much as possibly. I feel hopeful for this cycle that it's a new year and a new beginning and maybe we just might be lucky to fall again! FX for us and everyone! Xx

MrsY87 · 02/01/2017 08:21

Just did another test and the line is no darker than two days ago, if anything it's a bit lighter so now I'm panicking that it's not progressing as it should but the progesterone is going to mask it. Sad I know comparing lines on tests is stupid but now I've done it I can't get it out my head that it's going wrong again Confused plus I've woken up with backache

Rose280187 · 02/01/2017 10:26

Oliversmummy26!!!!!

Omg thank god i found you!! They shut the other thread 😩

Anyway... just tested and clear blue says 1-2 weeks pregnant!!

Feeling very dubious!!

How r u all???? Xx

Rose280187 · 02/01/2017 10:27

Ps I'll feel better when the clear blue says 2-3 weeks as I know that means hcg progressing which it didn't with other 2 xx

Littlemisssugarplum88 · 02/01/2017 10:45

Aww Mrs, how stressful for you! You'll probably need to ask the Doctor if they'll request for you to have bloods taken.
Hope all is ok for you xxx

Littlemisssugarplum88 · 02/01/2017 10:47

Congratulations rose, lovely news! I hope everything goes smoothly for you.
I'm just beginning to test for ovulation post mc 2 weeks ago. I can see a very very faint line so will have to see if it darkens over the next few days xx

MrsY87 · 02/01/2017 12:47

Thanks Sugar, Backache has gone and no cramps or bleeding so I'm trying to stay positive,. We are away and not back until next week so can't really get bloods done til then anyway so it's going to be a case of wait and see. At the end of the day there is nothing I can do stop it going wrong again. I'm going to try and stay away from POAS now as it's only causing me more stress!!

Congratulations Rose!

Anna2006 · 02/01/2017 13:12

Congrats Rose! Mrs like you said. There is nothing you can do to prevent it so just have to try stay positive and hopeful.

Think I felt ovulation this morning and had a good feeling about this month, new year an all!
DH an I were on the way back from the city in the car and we saw a rainbow right by our house! I haven't seen a rainbow for years....FX this means our rainbow baby is on the way! 😊😊

fempsych · 02/01/2017 13:33

Hello all, tentatively joining the thread after a miscarriage at 14 weeks due to baby having Edwards syndrome. Period started yesterday (I think) so back on the TTC bus...feeling fairly terrified.

Littlemisssugarplum88 · 02/01/2017 15:16

Welcome fempsych - sorry to hear your sad news Sad
Fingers crossed we all have some positive news this year xxx

whyhastherumgone · 02/01/2017 15:19

Thanks for info about supplements mrs
sorry to hear about the test but I think often the line darkness varies due to so many different factors - easy for me to say I know. Keeping everything crossed for you it's just test variation :)

Congrats rose fingers crossed for you too. So great to see good news, it's making me feel positive about
my chances. Think my Mc Is done, got a scan weds to check so really
hoping it will come back clear. Just want to get back to normal
now so I can have a few months to chill and then start trying again in a relaxed a manner as I can manage

Littlemisssugarplum88 · 02/01/2017 16:01

I'm glad the bleeding and cramping have settled Mrs - being pregnant is so worrying and frightening isn't it. Fingers crossed all is ok for you.
Hopefully your scan will be clear why and you won't need any more intervention. You'll have to let us know on wed how you get on.
My cm disappeared for 2 days after a tiny bit a couple of days ago, but when I went the toilet today I had quite a bit on wiping and it was kind of very slightly pink tinged in colour. Is that normal? I only remember it being clear xx

Misskittycat16 · 02/01/2017 17:06

Hello, please can I join?

DP are back on the ttc bus after 3 mmcs in the last year and a half. Had a break for 6 months and quite honestly don't know if I'm ready to be pregnant again but feel like we need to get on with it mainly due to my age (40 in august)
I don't have any living DC which makes me worry that I can't carry a healthy baby and I have little faith in my body to do so.

So that's me really, hope that we all get our happy endings, I really do.

emily86 · 02/01/2017 18:26

Tentative congrats to the new bfps! Lots of finger crossing for you all.

Welcome to the new people, although I'm very sorry for your losses and that you've had to come and join us.

Here's hoping the bfps keep coming and are all sticky.

A few days ago I decided to try and think of as many positives as I could that have come out of my TTC/MC journey. I managed to think of 4 which I didn't think was too bad considering!

TheLegendOfBeans · 02/01/2017 19:33

Welcome to new joiners x

Ok, so TMI alert: this time it's about mucus and discharge...

Basically I had a funny twangy feeling in my uterus earlier today.

Thought I felt "runny" and thought "ffs this cannot be my period, it's not due for 2 weeks"

Instead there's a bit of white discharge.

Now I know the "egg white" discharge means YOU ARE OVULATING SHAG NOW but whiteish runny discharge...can that also mean ovulation?

A) I should've done my ov strips this month, ffs
B) no shags in past 24 hrs

Carlotta82248 · 02/01/2017 19:54

Beans think it could be the start of fertile period or a sign of pregnancy depending on where you are in cycle.

I've decided I'm not trying until after AF, want to use this month to get back to healthy eating and exercise and getting my head right xx

TheLegendOfBeans · 02/01/2017 19:57

Thanks Carlotta.

I expected to see - um - dark "gloop".

Instead "white ex-gloop, now dried in".

Hope you're all enjoying your dinner guys Hmm