Positive opk after miscarriage- 2

[jinglebellmel]

Can't believe we've filled that thread, hope you all find this one!

Ali - so uncomfortable isn't it?! But I like that I can feel it happening, gives me a bit of warning at least. Yeah, I'm expecting I'll ov Thursday/Friday now which would work out much better than Saturday so fingers crossed.

How many dpo are you bear, are you sure it's not too early? Hope you enjoy your holiday and manage to relax a bit.

Just got a bfn too bear :( really disappointed. Onto next month I guess

It could be too early for both of you.

Mel when is AF due?

Could be, a had a definite line at 10dpo last month though, I really don't think we've done it this month. Probably won't stop me wasting lots of money on more tests and tormenting myself though! Af due Saturday.

How are you feeling know Ali?

Bear I think your behind me though, so quite early for you?

I would keep testing too. Or I guess all will become clear in a few days anyway.

I'm feeling slightly better. Definitely not in the positive phase yet but am slowly feeling better.

I think I need to adjust my expectations but how?!

9dpo Mel, so it is a bit too early but I did get a bfp last month without FMU on 9dpo. I'm inclined to think that you might at least get a squinter by 9dpo/10dpo, but this was a very glaring bfn!

It is so hard to adjust expectations Ali, especially when others get their bfp so quickly after mc. The delayed ov this cycle makes me think that my body isn't quite ready to support another pg just yet. And all we can do is work with what we have!

And sorry for your bfn Mel. Even if you're not really expecting to be successful, it's still a disappointment

I guess it all depends how long it takes to implant - which must vary from pg to pg.

My first milestone of being pg by my birthday is now a fail.

Pg by MC due date or perhaps let's just say end of Jan or even a year from MC?

Well Happy Birthday Ali!

It's funny that we probably all have the same targets, mine were 1. My birthday (back in August, pah!) 2. By due date (21st Dec) or 3. By year end.

Thanks Bear

Let's see if we can hit target 2!

Happy birthday Ali! Hope you're doing something nice!

Mine was to be pregnant by June so I could be off on mat leave when my son starts nursery (had to turn down his place as its half days which we can't manage if I'm not on mat leave) then by the due date, then by Christmas. I honestly don't see us making any of them now. I know that sounds a bit defeatist as I still have a couple of months, but I've been in this mindset so long now ipthat I can't really imagine things working out anymore. Hope we do all hit target 2 though.

Thanks both of you.

Looking on the plus side, if we get pg now we're gonna have Jul/Aug babies.

If we get pg from Dec, autumn babies - better for school.

I will take anything though - I can't afford to be picky!

Ladies help me. Can you see something here or am I being a dick?!

They're not good photos sorry, maybe this is better. I'm not sure if I just want to see it so much that my eyes are going funny? It's barely there if it's there at all.

I can see something Mel!!!!!!

Thanks for responding Ali. Oh god! I'm thrilled to be getting another chance but I'm terrified this time. Dr receptionist has agreed to get dr to phone me tomorrow morning about the test results, im trying to decide if I should take an aspirin today before I hear from them incase it is the clotting thing.

Difficult one.

Could it hurt? Did you take it last time?

I didn't take it last time. I don't think it can harm once implantation is finished. But is it finished when you get a positive test, or still ongoing then? I think I'm just going to take one, at least I feel like I'm doing something then.

I would think it's finished as that's when the hcg is released.

Good luck!!

Oh! I can definitely see something Mel!

You must've had a feeling to test again? Sorry I couldn't reply earlier by the way, I was out.

I think it would be fine to take the aspirin, as Ali says, it can't hurt. Is it a child's one or can you halve an adult one?

After I saw your pics Mel I thought, what the heck, might as well use my last FRER... And now I need your eyes please ladies?!

Thanks Ali, I've taken it, fingers crossed it was the right decision.

Thanks bear :) I didn't have a feeling really, I just have a hard time accepting news I don't like! It's baby aspirin so a very small dose. I see the 2nd line, congrats! How do you feel?

What is it with you two! You are so in sync!!!

Yes I see a line Bear!