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Conception

When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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It'll never happen, and even if it does, something will go wrong. Hut of Doom part deux

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duchesse · 19/01/2007 19:43

There wasn't any more room for moaning with all those grinny smilies's eyes following me around the room.

Suspected (my own self-diagnosis) perimenopause, anyone?

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lissielou · 29/01/2007 18:15

no worries, it took 6y ttc with ds then he was born, now i cant hold onto a bean how long have you been ttc?

Impatience · 29/01/2007 18:16

Lissie: You weren't being insensitive! I think thinking you're having ANOTHER mc gives you the right to follow your own chain of chat! (Is that what you're refering to?) Good luck tomorrow. Hopefully those resounding bfps are right. What a horrible stress.

I've just been told off by dp for having been rude to said friend. I'm a moody old cow. Apparantly dp is going to have to explain that I've been ftc for ages, and that friend has not p'ed me off, it was all just very unfortunate... Actually I had assumed she'd known I'd been ftc, but I hardly see her and dp hasn't told her. Aparantly the ref to being an expert was because we have to time inseminations, so actually she wasn't being mean at all. I'm so swept up in my own crap that I AM a moody old f'wit, and have now probably upset someone who is actually quite lovely and rather sensitive. Oh f*, my day is just getting worse

So thanks for the thump offer, NMM, but actually if anyone should get a thump it's probably me. Sounds like you're having a horrible day. Crying in the toilets is no fun. Hey, what you need now is a blazing row to top things off: Shall we go and start one?

lissielou · 29/01/2007 18:18

oh the prob is noone understands unless theyve been there, and its such a lonely place to be

Impatience · 29/01/2007 18:57

Thanks Lissie.

greedyforbabies · 29/01/2007 20:58

ahhhhhhhhhh! lissie! i know this is the hut and all that but just looked at your profie and your little one is a cutie! hope your scan goes ok.
i had my hcg levels checked today and have to go back on wed to see if they are doubling or not. not sure what to think cos haev had more bleeding and cramping today. guess i just wait........how CRAP!
perve! i will thump you if you really want someone to! i should warn you though, i pack a hefty punch!

lissielou · 29/01/2007 21:02

thanks greedy. how awful, how do you feel (stupid question i know) its just so unfair isnt it

ammylovesbabies · 29/01/2007 21:02

how are you feeling in yourself greedy? and DH? xx

ammylovesbabies · 29/01/2007 21:03

and lissie, good luck for tomorrow, will be thinking of you x

greedyforbabies · 29/01/2007 21:08

i feel weird actually! not sure if to be hopeful after reading stories on here, or to be pessimistic. guess it cant hurt to be hopeful can it? how do you feel? pg or not? i dont feel very pg but i guess i wouldnt anyway seeing as its so early. what i would give for a bit of morning sickness now hey!

lissielou · 29/01/2007 21:14

threw up on the way to counsellor today, feel bloated and heavy. have just decided its bad news tho. or good news.

aaarrrrgghhh. but if i do mc again thats it for ttc for a vv long time. im too scared.

Impatience · 30/01/2007 08:15

Good luck today, Lissie.

Thanks for the thump offer Greedy. Perhaps I'll wait till you're feeling less p'ed off: might get a weaker clout then! I hope everything's alright for you.

cedar12 · 30/01/2007 11:06

Hello everyone can I join you again, I had another ectopic last thursday. I was 6-7 weeks, luckily I didnt have to have surgery this time so still have one tube left. Started to get awful left sided pain on thursday rushed into EPU scanned me which was inconclusive but thought may have seen something by left ovary. Still in lots of pain taken up to the ward, pain did settle then told my bloods were ok so werent going to operate. We started thinking it might all be ok as blood were going up so nicely. Kept in until saturday when they did my bloods again and they had dropped loads. So was sent home told to come back if I got any pain etc. Started bleeding monday morning taken back more bloods and being poked about bloods had halfed again. The sho told me she thought i had had a misscarriage not a ectopic. Which I supose is the better of the two if you can call it that. But then saw my consultant who thinks I did ectopic but it was an ectopic misscarriage. Not feeling as crap as last time and the consultant thinks I pregnant so quickley after my lap and dye(2 months) my odds are to good to go for ivf. But it didnt feel like 2 months as had been trying for 18 months before lap and dye. Anyway at least I know I can get pregnant again hopefully next time it will be in the right place. See some of you on the weight loss thread again soon been eating to much chocolate again. Greedy a really hope you are ok fingers crossed.

lissielou · 30/01/2007 11:07

oh cedar

Impatience · 30/01/2007 11:24

Oh Cedar, poor you.

greedyforbabies · 30/01/2007 11:33

ceder thats horrible, hope you are bearing up. makes me feel bad for going on about my problems when there are others much worse off than me.

cedar12 · 30/01/2007 11:48

Greedy dont feel bad I really hope you will be ok when are you going to have a scan or blood test?

rahrah1 · 30/01/2007 12:31

cedar12 - so sorry... I know how hard it is waiting all that time and then the pregnancy not sticking. We have now been trying for 28months...(I had a lap and dye too) and because all was clear and we conceived naturally in the end... He said he can't promise but we should be pregnant and have a healthy baby..within the next 18 months.... seems like you are getting similar advice..Although it does not make it any better, but its the best possible outcome in regards to the future.

greedyforbabies · 30/01/2007 13:18

cedar - i have another bld test tomorrow, but i am not too hopeful. ive had quite a bit more bleeding today, so i am trying to be realistic.

PinkElephant · 30/01/2007 15:30

Hi all,

Cedar - I'm so so sad to hear you news, how awful for you. Having just suffered one ectopic I know how desperate you feel TTC again afterwards....its the only thing which will fill the void...or it certainly is for me. And for it all to happen again is just soul destroying and heartbreaking . How are you feeling?

Greedy - just trying to catch up with your news too. Its so hard to know how to feel at this stage isn't it? Are you having Beta HCG's checked again? Are you in any pain or have cramps?

Impatience -ggggggrrrrr to your insensitive friends

hello....to everyone else

cedar12 · 30/01/2007 16:29

Hi Pink elephant not feeling as crap as last time no surgery etc, cried a lot a hospital. I think both me and dh are trying to make sure my daughter dosent get to effected by this. I am so lucky to have her.
Dr said we can try again when ever we are ready. I am not going to let it rule my life this time.We are going away for the night on friday so looking forward to that.
Greedy I hope you ok tomorrow.
Impatience I think some people are just a pain in the arse insensitive buggers!

amandaf · 30/01/2007 17:16

my niece in her early 30s (after having one child) had a miscarriage then an ectopic where they had to remove one of her tubes, she was in a terrible state. BUT she got pregnant less than a year later and now has an 18 month old daughter so don't give up hope.

PinkElephant · 31/01/2007 08:21

Ooomf!! I feel a bit down today. I really mustn't look at any other threads which are celebrating BFP.... there is nothing more sole destroying than reading about other peoples well deserved happiness and postivity when you feel sad and miserable. God I'm in a selfish mood today!! Good luck to all those BFP really, but oh it makes me feel so down. Anyone care to join me....

rahrah1 · 31/01/2007 10:45

I must admit I have been up and down seeing all the BFP's... I wish it was me so much..
There seemed to be loads in Jan... But other times I am fine about it...
Plus I don't think many of the guys that got their BFP are having a stress free time....which is a nightmare for them... so I want to be here to support them... Especially since I have so much bleeding I can really relate to how they are feeling... It's such a roll-a-coaster for them. I just hope all of them are OK.

Impatience · 31/01/2007 10:55

Rahrah, that seems a very balanced view you're managing to hang on to! I'm afraid I'm with PinkE on this: I can't bring myself to look. Each one feels like a slap in the face at the moment, and I know that many of our friends are about to start announcing their second rounds, so I think I'd better save my last ounces of ability to look/sound pleased for someone while trying not to be obsessed with myself for people I shall be dealing with in RL.

honeyapple · 31/01/2007 11:05

Hi,
I agree about the BFPs. (Apart from Greedy and MrsMcJnr- you are excused)
It seems like they are all being announced from people I've never even heard of... eg.
"I'm new to Mumsnet, just wanted to tell you all that I got a BFP today, not really TTC so a big shock!" grrrgrgrgrgrggrgrgrgrrrr

(phew- got that off my chest, cheers)

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