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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

SQUARE ONE'ers to GRADUATES - expecting plenty of BFPs in June!

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Tee4me · 31/05/2016 06:54

Rollover thread!

June
Mimi -8th
Summer - 9th
Ps - 11th
Russ - ?
Physics - 14th
Radders -16th
Jem - 18th
Tee - 18th
Footprints - 21st
Nimisha - ?
Jodders - ?
Purple - ?

Graduates
Parney
Newhair
January
Toast

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physicskate · 05/07/2016 07:28

ps - that definitely looks darker to me!

Have had a really shit night's sleep. No dtd last night and my temp this morning was too high for me not to have ov'd. H (not dh at the moment) said his head felt like lead and he was too tired. I get it, having sex on demand is a bit shit, but I also feel like I want this a lot more than he does and the effort is all one sided (bbt opk etc...).

Plus I found out last night that my ex got married (he was such a lovely guy, but at the time it wasn't right). Which makes me feel a lot of strange and unfamiliar emotions...

Feel like should I really be wanting to bring a kid into my baggage? anyway... CD 20 1dpo. Only dtd on cd 17, 13, 9.

Tee4me · 05/07/2016 07:30

Jodders I was just thinking, the day you noticed implantation spotting would have been a few days after little seedling actually implanted wouldn't it? I've read before that it takes a few days to show, hence being brown. Were you counting implantation from the day you noticed the spotting?

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Parney · 05/07/2016 07:55

PS that line is looking good! I see your dilemma about the in laws, personally I would tell them in the hope of sharing some good news!
Jem I'm glad your home and hope to hear you're feeling better!

Parney · 05/07/2016 07:59

Purple I'm impressed by your weight loss! Are you following a particular plan?
Sorry to hear you're experiencing doubts Kate, hopefully this cycle will bring some clarity!
I've a hospital appointment today, not really sure what to expect but would love for them to sneak in a scan! Not very likely, I've been told I could be 7 months before my next one. If this is the case I'll definitely pay for a private one at 20 weeks, will have to travel though as its not done in this area. I'm in same country as you Jod and I really feel our scans are not enough!!

Parney · 05/07/2016 08:00

Busta you've nailed it with the waiting reference! The wait continues throughout pregnancy... I wonder will it end when there's a baby?!?!

Footprints1 · 05/07/2016 08:11

CD19 Star9dpo

PS-so sorry think I posted at same time last night didn't read your news about DH grandma. I was in similar position when I was expecting my first with my grandma and I had to tell my mum as I wasn't being helpful with baking anything but I was green with sickness so told her. She was thrilled and was a distraction for her. Try to relax, as your test looks darker :)

Physics- sorry to hear about your "h", I totally understand as mine is a bit like that. If he's not in the mood then that's it so feel like I miss loads of opportunities. He doesn't see the bigger picture and feels there's no rush. What do they know eh?Hmm

Tee- yes I'm on that theory too after looking at Jodders dates. I'm tempted to test - well last night I was, but today I feel no symptoms whatsoever and my temp took a dip today to 36.56 lowest yet after ovulation so wondering if it's on it's way down. Had last few (sat,sun& mon) evenings of hot flushes Blushand slight nauseous feeling so wanted to see if it got worse. If it happens tonight again then I'll test with FMU tomorrow. Today I'm fine, bouncing around! So don't think it's my cycle. It would make sense though as I ovulated incredibly early so clomid wouldn't have had a good chance of producing a big egg in time.

What's earliest time to test with a IC test? I have lots of them but nothing else. Might try get something today.

Jodders · 05/07/2016 08:15

PS def looks darker. Seen you on the antenatal thread too Wink it's so busy I can't keep up with it tbh.

Tee I think I ovulated 6 days before I had the implantation spotting.

Jodders · 05/07/2016 08:20

Sorry pressed entering too soon.

Hope you are ok Kate. Hugs to you.

Parney the system sucks. I am thinking of going semi private but it would leave us stretched financially.

Jodders · 05/07/2016 08:21

Girls I feel sooooo sick today. I dunno how I will get through today.

ps2304 · 05/07/2016 09:01

Jodders how many weeks are you? I am 3 weeks 4 days according to my new app!

Jodders · 05/07/2016 09:24

What is the app you're using ps? Think I'm 5 weeks 3 days

ps2304 · 05/07/2016 09:31

Ovia pregnancy and what to expect. Not really sure what I'm doing on them though Confused

Mimilicious013 · 05/07/2016 11:02

Cd31 no af
Morning all
Posted my msg yesterday and only just realized it wasn't sentConfused.have a throbbing headache and a flu.

Hope you are feeling better jem. Here is hoping its the start of your bfp.

Kate hugs. OHs are a piece of work!! I have decided that having a baby is for me Smile I love kids(well my kids)

tee thanks for thinking of me. We managed to resolve our issue. He wanted to invest a chunk of money without hearing if l agreed (selfish) but all is well now.a couple more days till poas. Fx this is it dear

Mimilicious013 · 05/07/2016 11:08

ps lovely bfp there hun.don't worry just eat healthy and relax.

So sorry jod about how you feeling. TwinsHmm would you like that?

Tee4me · 05/07/2016 11:18

Kate I missed your post this morning. Sorry you're feeling down, it's frustrating to miss opportunities. I still think you're in with a shot having DTD 48 hours before OV, and that's if it was only last night, could have been yesterday morning making it 36 hours which is actually great timing. Think Ovia gave me a score of about 9/10 at that point in my cycle, so don't give up hope! x

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Mimilicious013 · 05/07/2016 11:28

footprints good luck hun. By the weekend you will know .im beginning to think I can't have kids anymore!! Its soo disheartening. All l can do is be happy for others.

SuchaJem · 05/07/2016 11:41

Cd20, 4 DPO

Feeling a lot better today but am off work resting. Still feeling faint if I stand up too quickly and still getting abdominal pain, but it seems more to the left hand side today.

How is everyone doing? mimi you must be quite late now?
ps your lines are looking great! We have lots of pregnant ladies now which is wonderful.
Good luck testing footprints
Hope your oh gets with the game physics it's so hard when it feels one sided. And exes getting married definitely feels weird!

I'll post the list again and see how our dates are looking ...

June
Mimi - 28

July
Pepper - 3
Summerblush - 7
Footprints - 8
Russ
Busta
Tee - 12
Jem - 15
Psychickate - 17
Nimisha
Purpleowl

Graduates
Parney
Newhair
January
Spreadontoast
Radders
Jodders
PS

Jodders · 05/07/2016 12:27

Ah mimi I'm sure that isn't the case. Also note I had a flu before finding out I was pg. maybe a cold is a sign. When will you test?

I always thought I wouldn't mind twins but I'm now not sure. DH would freak. He isn't accepting the pg very well at all actually. Sad

Mimilicious013 · 05/07/2016 12:50

Very late jem but clear bfn and no sign of af.ohhh well

jod men are clearly a rare species. Enjoy your pregnancy hunSmile

SuchaJem · 05/07/2016 14:42

Sorry to hear that jod, what's he worried about? Hope he comes round.

Mimi hope you get some clarity soon - of the bfp variety preferably xx

Nimisha · 05/07/2016 18:36

Hi all. CD 12 and faint line on opk so might get a positive on the next few days. Cm is stretchy but still cloudy, not clear yet.
Dtd CD 9 and 11 so far. I'm exhausted tonight and some tummy cramps. Still hoping to dtd alternate days with an extra Conga shag on ov day.

I'm thinking positive thoughts for you footprints, hope you get your BFP. You too Mimi.

Physics, you're still in with a chance, dtd was within the fertile zone, especially if there was some ewcm around so good luck!

Sorry Jod your Dh isn't in to it yet, it must be hard seeing you unwell, and daunting being at the start of the journey. I'm sure he'll get his head around it, might just take him some time.

Remember all the grads, rest while you can, early pregnancy is exhausting! I hope to join your ranks soon.

ps2304 · 05/07/2016 18:42

Hi everyone, hope you are ok. Feeling fine, CM has increased today, is that a good sign? Feeling very damp down there! TMI Blush

Jodders · 05/07/2016 18:52

Thanks ladies. He seems to be worried about money and things changing, if we can cope - that sort of thing. He is very quiet about it all. I'm not really talking much to him about it but of course he knows I'm sick and very tired. I just want to sleep all day today!

Mimilicious013 · 05/07/2016 18:53

Thanks nim. No af no bfp,my body is a mess!am in too much pain to care atm.good luck catching the egg and hope you have recovered fully.

ps lots of cm is a good sign.

Already in bed having an early nite.hope everyone had a good day

Mimilicious013 · 05/07/2016 18:56

Sleep well jod and hope it all works out.usually men dont get as excited as us

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