Can you lovely lot talk me down?
This is a tiny issue in the scheme of things, but I'm so fed up.
Our clinic made an error a few weeks ago, and failed to do a CMV test on DP when they did her other bloods (they also messed up and over-charged us because they processed my blood as if I were the mother - ie., with extra tests - but that's another story). They were very nice about it and didn't charge us for the CMV, but it meant, obviously, that we had a bit of an unexpected delay.
We had the HyCosy, and the doctor said that everything was good to go for the next cycle. She also said that now we'd done that, the chances of conception would be higher for the next three cycles, so of course we want to get onto it.
We were told they had now sent the paperwork to the sperm bank would ring us with a list of possible donors 'in the next few days'. DP rang up this morning to check on the progress of that, and discovered that the nurse thinks the paperwork has been lost! She can't confirm whether it was even sent to the clinic, and she wants to ring us to confirm that 'by the end of the week'.
DP is due on the 19th, so we do actually need to get on with this, and it's looking increasingly as if we'll miss this first cycle.
I totally get that people make mistakes, but would I be unreasonable to chase this a bit? I can't follow why it should take an entire working week to sort this out, and I'm really angry on DP's behalf, because she has got all psyched up and now it looks as if nothing will happen!
I'm thinking of writing them an email (if nothing else, because given their track record they clearly need things in writing).