Secretly stopped taking Pill 2 weeks ago

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i want another child and have done for 2 years, dp wont discuss another one
so ive been naughty

thats a bit rubbish for your dh

omg. I know I probably should just stay away from this but that's awful.
forcing someone to have a child they don't want. hmmm

ARe you sure this is the right thing to do for your relationship?

Hmmmmm I can't say I would be impressed with that if I was your other half. There must be a good reason for him not to want another child even if you do and as hard as it must be, surely by doing this you risk losing him altogether? Is it something you've discussed to the death or will he not talk about it at all?

rather than all the risky subterfuge, just tell him you've stopped taking the pill, and it's up to him to sort out contraception. sooner or later I expect he will be a bit careless about condoms, and you may well get the result you want anyway.

you've changed your name? you know this is wrong. how very selfish.

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agree with others - sorry, but it could all end in tears otherwise.

that is not naughty..that is deceitful and a potential relationship wrecker

I've recently been through a few tough months where I felt really broody but dh was adamant that he didn't want anymore children. I totally respected his decision and would never have gone down the path you are taking - no matter how strong my desire was to have another child.
What do you plan to tell your dh if and when you fall pg? I hope he takes it well for you and your baby's sake.

you need to talk and communicate and work out why he is so against having another child

if you get pregnant will he not suspect that you have done this on purpose as you are in control of the contraception

it has the potential to destroy the trust he has in you

Sorry but ia m appalled, he is bound to realise what you have done and is the ultimate deceit. Have to say I tink it will all end in tears. Sit doen with your DH and talk about it, if he is so against another then love the family you have and ensure it stays together!

I think that these things always get found out, and you will feels so guilty about having done it this way, and your DH will feel betrayed.
MummytoSteven's suggestion was sensible, you will be being truthful and putting the responsibility in his hands

oops- don't think you expected that response!

put yourself in his shoes. imagine you weren't on the pill, you relied on him using a condom. for a few nights he forces himself on you without a condom. you get pregnant, he forces you to keep the baby. nice?

Wait till Xenia finds out what you've done

ooooooh! what will she say?

wouldn't like to guess

she will say he should wear a condom if he doesnt want kids , or get the snip.

Why doesn't he want more children?

How is your relationship in general?

Very dodgy thing to do, and would put the future of your relationship under a huge risk.....having kids puts a relationship under considerable stress when both partners want achild. How much more if one partner has been tricked?

Namechange what's the full background on this? How many other children do you have? Do you care more about having another child than your relationship?

windup?

where is she???? Please talk to us- don't worry bout judgement. We want to help.