Secretly stopped taking Pill 2 weeks ago

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i want another child and have done for 2 years, dp wont discuss another one
so ive been naughty

I thank you WWB.

Anyway, I think I hear a slight trip trapping........

That's becuase you are on the conception thread. I would rather have a baby too

I think its all subjective really, its hard to tell which is more damaging and i would not prentend to know - although i did assert an opinion in my original post.

But, it is a very serious thing to bring another life into this world. Its downright wrong to do so with someone who has not agreed.

Apart from the ethical issues surrounding breach of trust or consent (what ever you want to call it). There is a financial impact that the man and woman has to burden too from the JSA. Again, that applies to both men and women.

Another fact is that a woman can terminate in someway, if consent was not given and they wanted. Now, i am not saying its that simple. This is a horrible thing to have to do. But once a women is pregnant the man has no legal option in this matter. Its a case of tough luck Mike, get ready to be a Father and get a job too as the FSA will be asking for money for the next 18 years.

It's hard tell which is more damaging?

I can't even begin to answer that

Supply some kind of rigourous accademic study that examines the affects of each. If you cannot then you are dealing in opinion and conjecture.

You are partisan. Enter a man into the woman's den, and you all pounce. Impossible to debate here. Pity it is an intersting debate. Bye.

Simao - no one is saying it's not fucked up to trick a man this way, but referring to rape in the same post is outrageous!!! You really need to re think your comparison IMO it's despicable

You are fucking weird

was trying to think of something clever to say but I think Ill just

IG - take a deep breath and console yourself in the fact that there are many screwed up people in this world and it's easiest to ignore them one by one....sorry for you that you had to read such shit

I wasn't going to get my back up, but peiople like that really piss me off

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Who the fuck is he anyway?

I know - me too....she had to know she'd said about the most fuckwitted thing possible otherwise she would of stayed to stcik to her guns....I'm for you

I'm not normally one who gets drawn into this sort of thing on here, but what a fucking knob cheese

at least she has gone now...(we hope)

obv there were bridges to guard and all that

trpittey trap trippety trap

The fact that some men think like Simao does might go some way to explaining why rapes happen.

If they don't believe it's damaging, then there's nothing to stop them doing it.

Bloody arsehole

Indeed WWB

It's simple. A child should be wanted and loved by both parents.
If one partner does not wish a child, a child should NOT be forced on them. Yes, they may change their mind once the baby is born, but you CANNOT guarantee that.
I for one would not want to be the child rejected by his/her father. Would you like to explain to a child why his father did not want him/her to be born?
Sorry but this sort of behaviour is completely unacceptable and a total breach of trust. If you are desperate for another child then carry on discussing with your partner as far as possible. Or face the fact you have a hard decision, your partner or a life with another person willing to have a child with you.

It's simple. A child should be wanted and loved by both parents.
If one partner does not wish a child, a child should NOT be forced on them. Yes, they may change their mind once the baby is born, but you CANNOT guarantee that.
I for one would not want to be the child rejected by his/her father. Would you like to explain to a child why his father did not want him/her to be born?
Sorry but this sort of behaviour is completely unacceptable and a total breach of trust. If you are desperate for another child then carry on discussing with your partner as far as possible. Or face the fact you have a hard decision, your partner or a life with another person willing to have a child with you.

Guessing the OP was a troll????