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The November Bus: Bonfires and BFP'S!

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Loki17 · 23/10/2015 10:30

Thought I'd start a November thread for those of us left over from the October thread. (I hope this is ok and I'm not bypassing some sort of forum etiquette).

Here are my stats:
Loki
ttc #2
Cycle 2
CD 14
ETD 6th November

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redstrawberries101 · 10/11/2015 20:48

Wantingno2

I've seen you on the July 16 post too, just wanted to say congrats and yes you need a cyber slap!

All this stress and worry is no good for you. If something happens, it's not in anyone's control and will happen anyway regardless to how much you stress over it.

You've fallen pregnant , try and enjoy it :) I know it easier said than done but I also had to give myself a cyber slap because I was feeling all miserable and thinking it won't feel real until midwife appt at the earliest. I even got to the stage where I was checking to see if AF arrived late. But seriously it's not helping our bodies and it's not helping our babies. Be strong and happy :)

Jw35 · 10/11/2015 20:50

Congratulations mummyc92!

Ovulating today so my 2 week wait is starting tomorrow!

wantingno2 · 10/11/2015 21:01

Thanks for the cyber slap melvali ino I just need to try and relax and enjoy it I will be having early scan's at 7 and 9 weeks so once there out the way I think I will feel alot better need to make a doctor's appointment tomorrow I've got my pregnacare and baby aspirin but need a stronger dose of folic acid I was taking pregnacare conception all last month so should already be some good vitamins in my body.

Havetobecrazytolivehere · 11/11/2015 06:47

Morning everyone,

I am feeling a bit worried today, my tests have been getting lighter and have just done a CB digit which said 1-2 instead of 2-3!

Plus my symptoms have disappeared. Is this a bad sign? Have been feeling a bit down since I told DH as he was less than enthusiastic, he has come round now but I am in worry overdrive. You are right Melvali of course, wish I had waited longer to test. Will try and concentrate on looking after myself whilst I wait for AF date to pass.

wantingno2 · 11/11/2015 07:19

hi havetobecrazy I've been reading on the Internet that apparently the conception indicater isn't very accurate at all and as for the fainter line it all depends on how much hcg is in ur wee a blood test is more accurate could your wee of been abit dilutes??

AddictedtoGreys · 11/11/2015 07:27

Just woke up with really sore nipples! Good sign as I have pretty much lost all feeling in them since BF DS Grin

redstrawberries101 · 11/11/2015 10:53

Havetobecrazy

I've seen other women experiencing the same thing , I'm sure someone said they were 30+ weeks but the clear digital wouldn't show past 1-2 weeks

Purplerain067 · 11/11/2015 11:34

AF not due until next Sunday and still getting EWCM, so no idea why I feel so sick!! Hopefully not down to a bug!

That's a good sign addicted! Fx!!

OwlinaTree · 11/11/2015 19:46

Boo, af arrived this pm for me. So I'm out for this month! Hope there are lots more bfp to come, if not I'll see you on the next thread.

Good luck for Friday third ~// Grin

ThirdThoughts · 11/11/2015 20:15

Thanks OwlinaTree hope you get lucky next month x

No sign of AF yet and still have on/off nausea. I think I'm going to be more surprised if I'm not tbh even though it would be lucky to be. But I also have a bit of a plan to get myself fitter and healthier either way so at least I'll have something to focus on if I get the dreaded BFN.

AddictedtoGreys · 11/11/2015 21:25

Boobs been sore and tingly all day, how am I going to wait 9 days to test!! Confused

Mimilicious013 · 12/11/2015 09:02

Sorry Owlina good luck next month fx Addicted what cd ate you on and do u test?? Crazy how are today ?did you test again and is the line getting any darker ?praying for a sticky bfp.good luck for tomorrow Third,if u haven't caved.Purple,we will be worrying together next week .fx fx

AddictedtoGreys · 12/11/2015 09:24

Hi mimilicious I am CD 20 Smile but will be too soon to test for BFP won't it?

Namethattune · 12/11/2015 10:18

I've woken up feeling rubbish today. Really hormonal and weepy, so I suspect I'm premenstrual, and af is on its way. This ttc business is starting to get me down.

SeriousStuff · 12/11/2015 10:31

Can I hop on please?

SeriousStuff
TTC #2
CD 10
Cycle 1 (of properly trying - just been DTD without protection so far, but haven't coincided with OV days)
ETD what's etd?!

MrsNuckyT · 12/11/2015 10:37

name I'm with you, I'm starting to feel really fed up.

AF is due on Sunday and I have a full medical today which should include a smear so I tested to see if there was any reason to avoid the smear. Used a FR and absolutely positively no second line.

This is cylce 7 for me and I'm 36. I feel it is hopeless at this stage!! Seeing an NCT friend tonight who is pregnant with her second. I am genuinely excited for her but know it will stir up feelings of 'why isn't it me too?'

Mimilicious013 · 12/11/2015 10:53

Addicted cd 20 is too early for bfp.how long are your cycles ?im on cd24 and af due next week but for some reason just been to the loo and noticed sme brownish stuff so i think i might be out sooner than i thought.Name i so get u when u say this ttc business drives one insane.mrsnuckysorry hey and good on your medical today.hang in there it just might be your month.fxSerious welcome and happy ttc

Namethattune · 12/11/2015 10:54

MrsNucky I'm similar to you. Also 36, and on cycle 6. I fell pregnant instantly with DD1, so finding all these fruitless 2ww really depressing. Also, I'm so good at convincing myself that I'm pregnant when I'm not, then I always feel like an idiot when af arrives, especially if I've done an early test.

I'm starting to hate pregnancy tests, as they're so resoundingly negative. At least with a OPK test there's usually some sort of line!!

Mimilicious013 · 12/11/2015 10:55

Good luck

AddictedtoGreys · 12/11/2015 10:55

mimi my cycles are usually 28 days but I was on the pill so not really sure now. Last time I came off the pill they stayed at 28 days.

Somnambulator · 12/11/2015 10:58

addicted I'm CD20 today too with 29-31 day cycles. When are you thinking of testing? The wait is killing me although I have absolutely no symptoms so am feeling like it's going to be another BFN this month.

MrsNuckyT · 12/11/2015 11:17

name - are you me?? I also conceived DS instantly. I got married on the Saturday and ovulated on the Monday and hey presto! Had never done a test before I got my BFP with him! I now feel like I'll never see a BFP again... Not sure what to do next, but going to speak to doc about it today and see if it is too early to consider testing...

redstrawberries101 · 12/11/2015 11:53

Really hard I know,, but try leaving the test till when you have missed AF and have symptoms .. Rather than testing in hope. Setting yourselves up for a fall that way. I would go mental and probably need sectioned after seeing negative after negative. It starts playing tricks on your mind. Remember anything up to a year is normal. I hope in the meantime you are focusing on being in the best of health for when it does happen!

AprilShowers16 · 12/11/2015 12:35

Melvaili I'm enjoying reading your cyber slaps and pep talks :) They're very helpful. I'm not planning on testing until missed AF - for one thing I don't want to spend £s on tests when AF will tell me for free!

Namethattune · 12/11/2015 12:48

Nucky I think I am actually you!! I'd never seen a negative pregnancy test until I started ttc DC2 either. Let us know what the dr says.

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