Institute of bodies doing strange and unexpected things, but we're still gonna get our Bfps! (the loveliest group of hand-holders you ever did meet)

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Tww thread #2! Best wonderful group ever, wishing you all the best with your bfps! Thanks for keeping my chin up when I've been at my lowest and celebrating the highs with me - all the love xxx

That's the thing. I thought af should show last Tuesday and it's now Saturday. Based on ewcm it might show Monday or Tuesday next week, but based on my temperature chart (which I believe is inaccurate due to missed temperatures) could be another week and a half.

I had af cramps from last Thursday to Wednesday. But now thinking I imagined it as af hasn't shown.

Here's my chart. I'll also post my usual data

OK disregarding your chart for the minute. What is your average cycle length?

Test on the day you expect af.

The charts not accurate this cycle as it does look like a large number of days of missed temping.

If it helps I only got a very very faint BFP at 11dpo, I'm presuming it was 11dpo based on my average cycle.

When should at be due for you, based on your average cycle length?

My average cycle length is 28 days and I'm on CD33. I expected af last Tuesday or Wednesday and it's now Saturday. I've took 2 pregnancy tests and they are negative.

Have you ever had a cycle this long before?

Did you test with FMU? What tests did you use? Get some from tesco and try with FMU tomorrow morning?

Sounds promising.

Fingers crossed for you :)

I had one cycle that was 35 days in august, but I wasn't charting at the time. I used Internet cheapies, but it was fmu.

Just had a big fight with DP because he still hasn't done his sperm sample yet.

I'm assuming that I ovulated late tbh in which case things are getting worse, not better.

I don't think it's ever going to happen.

Doom I'm so sorry you're feeling down big unMN hugs. I know how you feel.

Do you think you could get your dp to take multivitamins? It might help?

I'd wait till day 35 then test, tesco has pretty cheap tests which have good reviews.

Leave it for now with your dp, when you're both calm sit down and talk properly to him. Don't argue, you're relationship is progressing to a happier point you're thinking of buying a bigger home together. That sounds to me like your dp is thinking of the future with you.

I don't even know if he has a problem cus he hasn't done the test.

The house is not happening now, the one we were looking at was already under offer and we've lost a bidding war. There are none others suitable in the area we like.

I feel like he is just killing time for the sake of it and I don't understand why.

I've got this mental image of a huge ticking clock above my head and he just doesn't seem to understand.

What do you want to do?

Discuss the test with him calmly and ask him to do it. You do need to talk about it.

My dp hated the charting and testing he totally eased up when I gave up trying. I think it's a normal reaction.

The house isn't his fault, keep an eye on the market set up zoopla alerts in the area you're interested in. The house can still happen.

He keeps saying he'll do it, but he's been saying that for 2 months. When I said that he said he's been busy and do I not believe him when he says he'll do it.

I'm so angry with him, but he's getting angry too because he thinks I don't believe him.

CD35 af still not here but still bfn

Doom how do you feel? Any signs of AF?

If not I'd stay positive and test again with FMU in a couple of days.

I've had a bleed. The epu said it was too early to scan and they couldn't tell from physical exam what is happening.
Feeling scared and down here too. 😞

Fuzzy, my temperature has dropped way down this morning so af will be here today. I'm actually relieved, at least I know now.

Hello everyone, just checking in to see how everyone is doing.

fuzzy how are you? I saw your bfp and other updates, hope you are okay.

doom how are things going? Did af show up?

Hello Handbags, How are you doing?

Our bfp sadly ended with a miscarriage at five weeks last Monday. It's been so so so heartbreaking, I know I sound ridiculous, it was beginning to feel real to us tho. This is the longest I've remained pregnant since ttc I've had about four chemical pregnancies now.

I've not been referred for tests as GP thinks it needs investigating.

I hope you are both OK.

Ahhh, I'm so glad this thread is here.

I don't even know if I'm in my TTW or not, so I'm going especially crazy!

I've got a pretty steady 27-30 day cycle, living in a foreign country and not TTC as the docs here told me I'm unable to conceive. Buuut... BD'd on days 8, 9 and 10 of my cycle and PRETTY sure I ovulated on day 12 (I can tell because of the cramps). Now I'm sitting on day 19 of my cycle, but potentially 7 dpo, and going craaaazy trying to analyze all the little things my crazy body is doing.

-- Cramping since "suspected" ovulation... but today it really feels like AF is coming at any minute. I remember having this feeling on 9, 10 and 11 dpo of my previous pregnancy before getting a BFP on 12 dpo.
-- CM is all out of whack... it's definitely not doing it's normal thing. Creamy and lotion-like.
-- Light pink bleeding on 4dpo.
-- Nipples tingly, but breasts not tender.
-- Insatiably hungry... and gassy!
-- I yelled at three people today.

Praying for a BPF and planning to pee on a stick every day until SOMETHING happens.

Fuzzy, I'm so sorry for your loss. Hopefully you will get some positive feedback from your tests with a way forward.

Doom, hope you are okay. I agree with fuzzy about sitting down and talking things through together. Maybe he is scared so is trying avoidance tactics?

Hi Fuzzy and Handbags, glad to hear from you both and welcome to Wocket. Had a pretty bad week last week as someone crashed into me in my new car (yes after I crashed my old car in October). I have spoken to DP since the previous message and he had agreed to do his sample, but as I didn't go into work on Friday cus of the crash, I took advantage of being at home during the day and gave him an ahem! "hand" with it. Will call the GP for the results in the week. As last cycle was so long thought I'd ovulate late again this cycle, but got +ve on opk today at CD13 so jumped on DP today. Will see when my temp rises, hopefully we wont be too late as haven't BD'd yet this cycle until now.

I'm sorry for your loss Fuzzy, I hope the GP can shed some light on what's going on.

Oh no Doom, that's rubbish news about your car! Again!
Sometimes I think men have a tendency to bury their heads in the sand. Good thing you've got the samples off now though, hopefully you hear something constructive/positive back.

Well guys DP's sperm sample has come back as normal. Now to book in with the Dr to see what's next.

Anyone else in the tww? All gone quiet again?

Hi Doom, I'm around, we've not been trying this cycle. I've got a lot of stressful stuff on at the moment. So ttc isn't on the cards for now.

What are the next step for you? Good news re; your DP's sample.

I don't know yet. We BD'd once this cycle the day before O, but I'm struggling to get a Dr's appointment without taking time off work. Will let you know how I get on.