Who wants to buddy up...thread 2!

[Issie339]

Hi everyone,

Here's our shiny new thread continuing from the old 'who wants to buddy up' thread (sorry, don't know how to link). I'm sure some regulars will be along in a minute and also anyone else who is ttc and would like some company is very welcome to join- we're very friendly!

It's ok, I think I am taking it quite well. My DH can hardly believe it. I actually came home and spent all this time working, only stopping for 2 cries. I have decided I will have a glass of red later on.
I'd much rather have the passing part happen over the weekend cause I can't stand the idea of going through it at work..but let's just see what happens.

I asked my DH if we can try again and he said yes xx

mrs so sorry for your news hunny. hope things are over quickly and you can move on and retry. xxxxx

duck....still no frickin af from me ...cd 59 now. I've no idea what's going on.

on the plus side...weight loss tablets taken since Monday and I've been super good with eating and I was weighed at hospital on wed and I'd already lost 4lb so diet is going good. hoping diet continues and af rears her ugly mug soon xx

So so sorry to hear this hun!! Don't know what to say but wanted you to know I'm thinking of you xxx

I had a little cry when I woke up cause I think I'd forgotten for the first second and then when I remembered it hit me. I am still waiting for the cramping and the blood. Any bleeding i had has completely gone.
Duck how long did your bleeding last for? I am supposed to be going to London today to see a show and have some dinner, I think I will still go and see how it goes. I am just so scared that the bleeding and cramping will happen when I'm least expecting it.

Thank you x

Just to let you know that I'm thinking of you today mrs xxx

Love and strength to you Mrs x

Hope you are as okay as you can be. Love and hugs to you xx

Well done on the weightloss Nicky x

aw mrs your post where you say is it all your fault had me in tears...it's not your fault at all hunny unfortunately it's just wicked mother nature. I'm so sorry for you hun. how are you today? xxx

thank you violet

duck there called orlistat....prescribed by my doc.

still no af for me but I've got a cheapie test to do in morn as told by my doc if af hadn't arrived...I know it will be bfn but will do as I am told and have got some opks at last. xx

Ahhh you're all lovely, and your support actually makes a big difference.
Hard is - i) not talking to anyone about it ii) my DH not fully understanding what I'm going through and iii) not actually having anything to go through.

I decided to go to the show (was a matinee), we then went to dinner at one of my favourite restaurants. I decided to have tuna tartare and medium rare steak and wine!
I'm now on the train home, already with a massive headache (I only had a few glasses!!) and I'm ready for my pyjamas and a cuddle. My husband has been incredible. And you lot are great too.

So as soon as this shit is over, I'm buying a thermometer and my stats will be:

Mrs - ttc#1 - cycle ??? (Let's say 3)

I do consider myself very lucky that I now know we have no problems conceiving. Even if this has been a very painful way of finding out.

Xxx

Ahh sorry Duck, hope you get some clarity soon.

Nicky those pills sound great! Maybe I should mention it to my doctor.

Today I saw some friends with their little ones, so got out of the house for a few hours, then got straight back in my pyjamas and dressing gown when I got home. My DH doesn't know what to do with himself bless him. I have started getting a couple of cramps but nothing major. No bleeding whatsoever.

How has everyone's weekend been? X

How do you find the orlistat nicky? Alway read quite a lot of grim sounding stuff about the side effects but never spoken to anyone who'd been prescribed it. So glad you're getting great results! X

Oh girls I'm in tears reading your messages :(

Mrs I'm so sorry to hear about your news, unfortunately I know exactly what your feeling... I've been to casualty , the Drs and been booked in for an emergency scan all in the same week of finding out I was pregnant :(. I have my scan tomorrow, so I don't know what to expect, I've been really distressed and upset and the Dr signed me off work for a week until I find out and get settled!

Everyone has said to me, and it seems really a good way of thinking it, rather Mother Nature took care of this herself than something happening at like 20 weeks! A lot of people have said that bleeding in pregnancy is really common same as period pains, but I have such a bad feeling about mine.

I hope it's not lost hope Mrs, if you can conceive once you can conceive again! I have everything crossed for you XXXXXXX

Congratulations to you Issie! What a lovely way of revealing the news! Delighted for you! And wow Nicky! care to share your tips?? I feel like all I've done is eat rubbish and binge haha! I can't seem to get out the bit! Xxx

Duck, I woke up on Wednesday with really bad period pains and thought I was going to be sick ended up with a really bad fainting spell and couldn't come round, oh had to come home from work and everything :| Dr said it was normal could just be my body changing and getting ready and as long as there was no blood I was okay
Next day I started bleeding really bad like proper period sorry for tmi! So went to Drs and he signed me off work immediately for a week and booked me in for a scan n the earliest they could get was Tuesday
The bleeding stopped yesterday but it was honestly just like a period which is really strange!
I would of been 5 weeks on Saturday. I've prepared myself for the worst but I just can't stop thinking about it and overthinking my pregnancy symptoms!

Oh dear duck sounds like ur having a time of it! Sorry to hear about the bfn :( still may be hope yet tho! Fx for you xxxx

Wow, a rough ride indeed! What a shitty few weeks for some of us!
I guess ttc comes with huge ups and downs - it's an emotional roller coaster!

I am so sorry Sparks, it's such an awful thing to be going through! I'm right here with you!!

No bleeding still for me, some cramping but nothing at all major.
I went to work. I can't just stay off work indefinitely until I miscarry, I manage a whole team of people who need support.
Someone at work asked me today when I might consider starting a family. It's a question I have probably asked loads of times- I never realised what an awful, insensitive question it can actually be.
I have been brave today, no tears. But the second I get home I am getting my pjs on and getting in bed with my tissues xx