Bumsnet - where we get it on and get our BFP!!

[Rainy34]

This is the bus where we will get our BFP, hop on with your summer skirts and grab the bfp 's!!

We've got an appointment on Thursday and he will have a blood test then too. The only thing he said on the phone was that he'd need to do another SA asap but that it was very unlikely to be a lab error.

I'm just clinging to the hope that it is just blocked and he is producing sperm that we can use, but in my heart I feel that he has none. All I've ever wanted is to be a mum

Thank you for your messages of support, I really appreciate them all

I am so sorry to hear this twinkle and I so hope that it's just a blockage. Even if that's not the case then you will still be a mum! Would you consider sperm donation? Or there's adoption! If you want to be a mum then nothing can stop you lovely :)

night DH has said from the beginning that using a sperm donor or adoption is not an option for him and I have to respect that, we've been together for 7 happy years and I knew that from the get go. Even so, it hurts.

purdie thanks for the info, I guess there's nothing I can do until Thursday, but I'm terrified.

pixa It's good that you have a plan of action! Hopefully you'll get your bfp before August but if not things will be moving forward

In that case twinkle I am crossing all my fingers and toes for a blockage!

Evening ladies! Kew was lovely, it was a beautiful day for it. ibeka no I missed the giant spices!! Doh! I loved the waterlilies though - sooo pretty!
Got home to a lovely surprise from DH - he had gone out and bought me a gorgeous dress which we saw when out last weekend, wub him!

twinkle welcome back, so sorry to hear about the SA results, I really hope it's just a blockage and treatable

mummy glad it's nearly a bfn lovely and you can try again soon xx

sparkers!! lovely to see you back, glad the good days are coming more often now lovely xx

rainy your SIL sounds annoying - you're right, better to limit contact with people like that! It's a shame as you were close before, I hope she's more sensitive in future.

Thank you night

So sorry for bombarding you all today, when that call came I just didn't know where to turn. DH doesn't seem to want to talk about it much, I guess he must be thinking all sorts. Thank you all

twinkle don't be sorry that's what we're here for. It's big news to take in, keep talking here as much as you need to x

Yes, Twinkle, I just wanted to echo Woolly's comments. The reason we are all here is so we can share the TTC journey and be a good support network. You know where we are if you need to vent.

I am freaking out slightly. There is a very faint line on my test from this morning. I am assuming its an evap. A little part of me is thinking "What if at 5.50am, you were too tired to see that faint line, and it was indeed there? What if the temp drop was because of a disturbed night sleep? At 10dpo, with possible implantation on the 7dpo, what if it was just too early to test?"

Why do I do this to myself? I know that it will be an evap line, but I seem so determined to hang on to that little bit of hope.

Pixa test again tomorrow!!!

twinkle I hope you get answers. Don't be silly, vent away. It's what we are here for.

Ps: earlier tonight DP jumped me, like he hasn't had sex in 10 years or something. Like he looked at me like I was some goddess. It was amazing. I am officially back in the game sorry for swooning on but I was really nervous of dtd again.

Mummy Yes to swooning! That's great news. Fantastic way for you both to connect again.

Thanks Pixa

Fx for you pixa

I can't post a photo as am on phone but I got a BFP!

WHAAAAAAAAAAAT????! Night! Congratulations! Anuvver ironidiff

Pixa, I am hoping, hoping, hoping it's a bfp for you. You are a

Thanks Purdie am in shock as had written myself off yesterday! However temp rose again this morning :) Line relatively faint but definitely there and appeared well before 3 mins. Digi confirmed it. Waiting until it isn't rude to the in laws for me to wander around making noise and then I will grab my laptop and post photo :)

Oh, Night, I'm so thrilled and I did think you were writing yourselves off as biological parents a little too prematurely, though your plans to foster are noble and good, of course.

Just like when I posted my bfp news here at 5am, you'll have to wait an age for anyone to congratulate you

Thanks Purdie :) Definitely haven't given up on fostering but as long as this pg progresses fine then it will be some years down the line rather than now :)

Don't worry am awake far too early! Took my temp, got excited, tested, woke up DH and now can't get back to sleep (he is snoring away happily )!

night congratulations lovely!!!! So happy for you!

blows kisses to sparkly

Risked the wrath of the in laws and sneaked downstairs to get laptop to upload photo! Also my chart for anyone who is interested. The rise today is what convinced me to test

Stats are nightandthelight, ttc1, cycle 4, BFP 31/05/2015!

Thank you so much to all you lovely ladies for your support and advice, can't wait to see you all get your BFPs!

Now I need to stop panicking about mc risk...

Omg night congrats!!!!!!!!! that's fantastic news! So very happy for you wishing you a healthy safe pregnancy

pixa I so so wish the same for you xx

mummy yes for being back in the game!

Am now far too excited for this time on a Sunday morning...

Night!!! Congratulations !!
Will check out your chart and pic on the laptop later!

Sadly the same cannot be said for me, my temp is way down. And the fridge has broken. Fab. Xx

So sorry to hear that Sammy :( Not long till IVF and your BFP, I have complete faith in a 2016 baby for you!

Night, I am so so so so so so chuffed for you! Congratulations. Temp rise here again...