Bumsnet - where we get it on and get our BFP!!

[Rainy34]

This is the bus where we will get our BFP, hop on with your summer skirts and grab the bfp 's!!

Robot, thanks for being such a brilliantly supportive newbie. You are lovely

Ibeka, welcome back, love. What an absolute shitter that chemical was. I'm so sorry. Are you okay? Do you want to talk about it?

Pixa, well done on the work target. I'll bet you're proper prized in your department.

Woolly, I just laughed out loud at your placatory pee stick idea

Mummy, yes, it's normal to want someone you love to be actually sharing the pain. It's a lonely place to be, miscarriage.

Glittery, zitty jawline is good. It's very, very good. It means the filthbag progesterone is lobbing out sebum, innit

I just asked him to talk to me about it. He said he will talk about it when he is ready and when I am better. How can I get better if he isn't talking!!!

Pug I would have been 12 weeks mid May too. It's shit but we'll get there. With my first MC I used to really begrudge baby announcements, bumps etc but now I'm happy for them, they may have had a really tough journey.
Ibeka your bfp is waiting for you, sorry to hear about your cp.

Mummy men tend to bottle their feelings up, he's probably also afraid of upsetting you.

Thanks guys for your kind words. I suppose I'm just annoyed because we started dtd early on in my cycle and we're still at it! More ewcm so really hoping with all I've got that I do ov soon.

Thanks for the pep talk purdie it's just what I needed right now. Both the acupuncture ladies indicated that if it was to work it's more likely to work within 3 months so I suppose I can commit to that. DH is waiting on his SA results but stupidly we forgot about his appointment and were dtd right until the night before.

I think DH has been doing his own research. We were taking our vits and supps when I noticed he had an extra tub... Vit C. I just wanted to swoon at him.

......wine & chocolates constitute dinner - right?

Aww yay for mr pixa!

mummy sounds fine to me, we had crisps n' dips n' cheese n' crackers yesterday

Pics of CM on the phone imagine that woolly!

Mummy he will talk soon. They go into their man caves don't they.

Haha glittery I don't know how i would explain that one!!

Robot Thank you for your post. Your story has given me a lot of hope and I read it to DH too, who doesn't know anything about clomid, and was worrying about it until he heard what you said. Please post more often; you're lovely

Thank you to Purdie, Pixa, Woolly, and Mummy for your kind words too. I'm so sorry that I can't do a big catch-up and reply to everyone individually tonight. I have been running around trying to find things like the cool box, various sleeping bags and plastic cutlery and also trying to dry the dog's duvet covers (they have various single duvets lying around the house), which I washed earlier and couldn't hang out as it was raining. We still haven't got packed and I need to wash my hair tonight!

I'm so glad that I called my GP a day early and got the results. If I'd called tomorrow morning, I wouldn't have had time to post before going camping and then I'd have spent the whole time worrying. You lovely, lovely ladies are invaluable in your support, knowledge and advice, and I really am grateful

Probably won't be able to post now until the weekend; y'all take care of yourselves now x x x

Enjoy Eskimo

Oh! I very almost forgot! Whilst in that, there London, Dh and I went round the Natural History Museum and I took a couple of photos for you all They are from the 'human biology' section of the musuem as opposed to, like, pictures of dinosaur skeletons and shit. The first one reminded me of the drawing that Giddymama did when we were on the Feb / March bus- the one of the big vagina with the tubes and ovaries. The second is a diagram that I think is appropriate and topical Hope you like them... I did get a few funny looks as I was taking them

I loved giddys pic. Whatever is going on in pic 2 inside the man is gross....

I know! I just said to DH, 'what have you got inside you? Whatever it is, it's gross, but why don't I have one?'

The first pic looks like a wildebeest's head

Purdie Yessssss! Hahaha. I have also just outed myself as you can clearly see me in the reflection of the glass!

How long is that vagina too?! Seriously!!

Laughing at your pics eskimo I spotted you in the reflection Glad you are feeling reassured after getting some good advice here and hope you have a nice time.

Pixa your dh sounds great I can't imagine my dh researching and starting any supplements by himself

Hope you ov soon Dizzy and sorry you were feeling fed up this ttc is really shit when it's not happening.

I missed your post before it was deleted Purdie but guessing it was good news. Still smiling for you

Sorry for what sounds like a cp Ibeka hope you are ok

Good news about your landlord Night

Hope you are ok Mummy and Pug hugs too you too.

10 dpo here and temp dropped below cover line so looks like AF is on her merry way again the bitch.

I saw that reflection too, Eskimo, but thought it was a dinosaur Have a superb time camping and don't forget to have noisy sex casting silhouettes on the canvas leading to some axe-wielding psycho to come and terrorise y'all.

Mummy, I'm sure I read that the average vagina stretches to 6" to accommodate a penis (which is why big schlongs hurt).

So after yesterday's temp dip, my temperature has massively increased today. I don't want to get my hopes up but it is the highest it has been. Does temperature dip at implantation?

Pug, please, please, please say you had a temp rise...

Pixa, not always - and I have at least twelve charts to prove it. However, for some women it is a definite sign of implantation.

Okay, I will not get my hopes up. Thanks Purdie.

That 2nd photo.... That's not.... Poo.... In the man is it?!