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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

Bumsnet - where we get it on and get our BFP!!

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Rainy34 · 24/05/2015 19:38

This is the bus where we will get our BFP, hop on with your summer skirts and grab the bfp 's!!

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ThePug · 26/05/2015 22:39

I'm not sure Dizzy , from the angle I think it looks quite a bit paler than the control line. Have you done any yesterday/earlier in cycle to see progression? How dark do they usually go? There's a pic of 9 days worth of mine on page 2 and you can see the bottom one is clearly much darker than any of the others. I had hoped the ones in the middle were almost positive but took quite a few more days. The EWCM is a good sign that you should be DTD in any case, though!

Mammameatball · 26/05/2015 22:39

Dizzy merry, I am a lurker and just thinking about putting my hand out to stop the bus and get on but I think I can see a second line.

Excuse my daftness but is that a ic test? If so I say congratulations xxx

DizzyMerry · 26/05/2015 22:49

Mamma jump onboard we are a lovely lot! It's an IC opk.

Thanks bean and pug. This is the first IC for this cycle as the CB flashing smiley was confusing me so thought I'd compare it against the IC. I really can't dtd tonigh as we've already done the past three nights and I'm shattered beyond belief!

ThePug · 26/05/2015 22:52

Meatball Hop on & grab a seat Smile If you're going to stick around though, we need to get you up to speed on the wide variety of sticks that can be pee'd upon. The one Dizzy has just posted is an opk (ovulation prediction kit) - a second line can show for some days but it is only positive (i.e. indicating that you are getting your hormone surge that will trigger ovulation) when the test line is at least as dark as the control line. It is indeed an IC though, just not a pregnancy one!

Now you're on board, we need to know everything about you please

ThePug · 26/05/2015 22:55

Ah so you're getting flashy smiley on CB? I'd say the pic you posted was the IC equivalent to the flashy smiley then - almost there but not quite. Every other day seems to work well for lots of people so skipping today and trying again tomorrow shouldn't be a problem. Now get to bed young lady if you are tired (to sleep, obviously)!

glitteryflange · 26/05/2015 23:07

Mamma meatball I love your name. Wish I had gone for something foody

Mammameatball · 26/05/2015 23:25

Ah I see... Jumped the gun a bit there. There is a lot of stuff to learn ??

About me... I'm 32 and mum to a 20 month old ds. We've been trying since November 14. Not that long just getting a little frustrated.

Thanks for the welcome guys xx

Mammameatball · 26/05/2015 23:27

Second lesson of the night: tablet smileys do not post to mums net.

glitteryflange · 26/05/2015 23:36

Meatball I can see your smiley! Smile
Wahey!

Aw! How long did it take you to conceive your ds?

Are you thinking of using ovulation tests?

DizzyMerry · 26/05/2015 23:48

Pug I'm all tucked up in bed. DH brought me up a cuppa and some chocolate. I'll need all the energy to dtd tomorrow.

Mammameatball · 26/05/2015 23:50

I love your name flange! Good news about the smiley too.

It took 8 months last time, and yes I'm going to try using an ovulation test, and tracking this month. My cycle seems to be all over and following no pattern. Would you recommend an expensive test for a newbie like me or is an Internet cheapie just as good? I'm going to read up on temperature tracking too and will start forcing git c on the husband too.

Quite a to do list now but at least it feels like action xx

Mammameatball · 26/05/2015 23:50

Vit not git! ??

purdiepie · 27/05/2015 06:33

Mummy, those pots are terrific and would go like hot cakes on ebay. Summat to think about?

Pug! How's the temp today? What date is your birthday please?

Dizzy, I think you're a little way off there, my love. A positive tomorrow perhaps?

Lucie, try to keep looking up. I've heard of this too-early dominant folliclebusiness

Someone asked if I've told anyone my news. I've told mum, dad, sister, two bezzie mates, two baby group mates, two mates from my old mn ivf thread and Asif in the corner shop.

Lucie, sweetheart, I will reply to you later.

purdiepie · 27/05/2015 06:39

Welcome Mamameatball! Hurrah for newbies!

Dizzy, don't become exhausted. Pug's right: eod from now on. You could ovulate as late as Saturday by that pale line yesterday (and it is a bit pale so don't panic).

Queenbee30 · 27/05/2015 06:57

Welcome mama! I love meatballs. nibbles on mamas leg

Still super excited for you purdie!

Yesterday and today I am constantly dizzy (not you dizzy, dizzy in the ol'noggin). Last time I felt like this I got a chest infection the following week. Hmm
Or is dizziness a pre-bfp preggo symptom? clutching ALL the straws

pug oooo your big birthday soon! I quite enjoyed turning 30. Turning 31 in a couple of months which feels a lot worse than the 30th!

Queenbee30 · 27/05/2015 06:57

mummy those pots are ace!

Pixa · 27/05/2015 06:57

Temp dip below cover line. I might be out again this month ladies. Cd22, 7dpo.

Bumsnet - where we get it on and get our BFP!!
purdiepie · 27/05/2015 07:26

Oh, Pixa Sad surely not at 7dpo?

Pixa · 27/05/2015 07:30

It looks that way. Sad I have short cycles Purdie. Three quarters of my cycles are 26 days or less. Doctor wasn't too concerned about it. FF has suggested a 25 day cycle this month.

Better luck for Cycle 11, hopefully... Smile

Hairstylisttoboris · 27/05/2015 07:49

mamma welcome
dizzym keep peeing on the sticks you are nearly there
purdie love the list of people you've told! Made me laugh.

Oysterbabe · 27/05/2015 08:01

Queenbee Dizziness was one of my first pre-bfp symptoms. Followed by headaches and sore boobs. FX!

loopylou1984 · 27/05/2015 08:27

Morning ladies, I'm back in blighty!

Had a dream last night that I got my bfp... Although the person who was the dad wasn't the same person I was having IVF consultations with and neither of them was my dh! Ooops!

We have a huge information pack from the private clinic which I'll be reading through this morning between doing washing!

Haven't read back yet, will do so after a shower. Xx

loopylou1984 · 27/05/2015 08:43

Oh and Purdie, thank you for your post. I really appreciate it! Xx

Pixa · 27/05/2015 08:57

Advice from my mum Angry Please stop me from killing someone today ladies!

Pixa · 27/05/2015 08:57

Italics fail!