The Bumsnet/Angry Pubes Bus #2... BFPs for the taking!

[Sparkly123]

Hi all! I came to catch up with you lot today and see the bus is full... Do we want another Bumsnet?! Are we standing united?! I thought I would start another incase it is needed!

I don't even know if I've missed more I just buggered off as couldn't be doing with it today! Everyone has enough going on in there lives without a dose of confrontation on here too!

Sparkly positivity to all right?!

Hand bag?! ha ha

Mixed seeds on their own. No chance.

"Kumbaya my Lord..kumbaya. Kumbaya, my Lord...kumbaya.."

There. Better now?

I don't know how you can make light of such a serious situation. I have re-evaluated my whole life and realised I am a terrible person. All due to the insightful words of a woman called Bitchslapper.

Yes, mixed seeds on their own. Why am I eating them, Sparkly? What do they do?

nomio

Graze vanilla seeds are alright like

Yes. I am of no help to anyone. I offer no support whatsoever and don't care about anyone. Thank goodness a random stranger on the internet put me straight.

Finally purdie somebody's said what we've all been thinking

Everything was fine before Purds! No need for the camp fire!

Seeds, um well you tell me? Is it because of the omega-3s ?anti-oxidant properties? fiber? Or that old fav- selenium?

Fibre. Blooy autocorrect

Juney noooo! I don't care if it's your "fifth box free" or whatever ... Those seeds are just full of added sugar.. Graze add it to everything. Sorry had to get that out, carry on..

Purds see my post page 22:

09/04/2015 19:27 Sparkly123

Purdita enough of this doll.Everyone appreciates all your advice and knowledge! No one thinks you are bossy or patronising. Neverrrrrr!Where would be without our Dr Purdie?! I totally agree with the concoction you think is important.All of those are important for so much in the body let alone conception so I def think they are worth their weight Thank you for always trying to help us all.Essentially- a group of strangers!Your kindness shines out of your posts and we all love ya!

Just saying.
Unsupportive?
Bollocks.

Wow. Left MrF snoring away and came back downstairs to catch up with what is going on.

Mummy your right makes me sad. Juney vanilla seeds sound yummy.

Got a faint line on a OPK. yay, now sat in lounge post DTD eating my
Emergency hidden in a bag of frozen mixed veg Cookie DOugh B&J. Happy Friggin DAys!!

Snap Frog I decided against the milkshake and was dithering until I finally settling in bed with the cookie dough
Yay indeed on positive opk, enjoy!!!

I'm feeling bad for the nice ladies on April who have had their bus derailed.... I nearly joined there before finding this thread and if I had and then this started it would feel like a support was being ripped from under my feet... Very glad of all you ladies. Not only are we here with similar goals/worries but the anonymity of MN means people can ask for help in a way that they wouldn't in RL. How sad that that thread has started to resemble one of the printed off FB threads that my 14 year old students bring me to complain of bullying. I kinda want to drop in to say grow up and fuck off but I would be a LPB over there so will stick with you lovely lot

My exciting news is I POAS again today and the positive is WAY fainter than Tuesday. I reckon a -ve tomorrow or Sunday which means I can start all over again.

juney it could have been my cervix but it felt further up inside me belly somewhere - can't explain it. It seems to have subsided this morning. Tried to sleep without emptying myself and woke up at 3am very wet feeling so rushed to to lol to tidy up without taking my temp. don't think I had ov'd though, ov is due tomorrow so will start watching temps more.

chunks what a lovely post! cake for you

Lawks can't possibly catch up with all the posts! Sorry for AF butterchunks and fx your cramps don't come to anything Vic/chops!

Well night cramps have come to nothing. Guess I must be 13dpo today. Which means if af comes tomorrow I will be getting baseline dildocam outs self on my frigging birthday! Which I booked off work to do something nice on! Luckily didn't arrange anything, thought a pedicure might have been nice.... Sigh....

butter that was an absolutely wonderful speech. I'm also now scared to go on April thread as the interlopers know me by name :-(

Everyone else ok this morning?

Hi everyone, argh I've been ill the past couple of days and so more behind than ever now! Will try to catch up and be a better bus passenger in future!

frog great news for pos opk and am loving the idea of a secret B&J stash!!

ibeka exciting to hear the line is fading - fingers crossed for the neg soon so you can get going.

butterchunks sorry for AF - any treats lined up to get you through this week? Lovely the DH is thinking about it too though - mine is still convinced he has 'super sperm' despite evidence to the contrary!

So excited for those testing soon - keeping everything crossed for you!

Hope everyone has a lovely wknd. Any exciting plans? I need to make a bday cake today but just been told it needs to be gluten free - never made one of those before so off to fret about that! If anyone has a recipe then let me know!!
Also have my sister coming to stay who doesn't know we are ttc so need to do a dash round the house to remove opks/vits etc - just trying to work out how I explain the CB trial pee pots in the fridge though!

Oh, and am also planning a shopping trip to buy a sex dress and all those vitamins . Thank you purdie for the amazing links on both! Xx

Daisy I would be very worried about that level of drinking, at three times the recommended amount for men that does make DH a problem drinker I'm afraid :( I am sure that it will be having an impact on his sperm but my bigger concern would be his liver. Are you able to get a doctor to sit down with him and explain exactly what he is doing to his body?

Really hope this doesn't come across badly, I mean no criticism of your DH as I am aware that problems with alcohol are very hard to overcome. I think that you are right to be concerned about him

Daisy I think every day drinking and 70+ units is a problem. My DP was drinking 70+ units a week without an off day. It took lots of arguments for him to realise it was a problem. And lots of support by me not drinking to show him I could be happy without alcohol so could he. But it has to be his decision to stop, like any addiction, you can't force it. I nearly walked lots of times, I refused to ttc until he had it under control. He now has 4 days not drinking a week and tries to limit it to 4 cans of its not a party or without company. He looks back now and knows this time last year he was in a very bad place but is thankful to have changed his ways. 70 units a week is not normal or healthy. This is just my take on it. I hope he finds the strength to cut down and improve his health.

Do you opk mummy I can't remember, but FF will still pinpoint ov in a few days even without today's.

What a lovely post butter but I'm so sorry AF got you :(

purdita is our illustrious leader, I luffs her and sparkly