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The Bumsnet/Angry Pubes Bus #2... BFPs for the taking!

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Sparkly123 · 06/04/2015 13:09

Hi all! I came to catch up with you lot today and see the bus is full... Do we want another Bumsnet?! Are we standing united?! I thought I would start another incase it is needed!

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Sparkly123 · 09/04/2015 22:37

purds I don't watch emmerdale clueless you love a red bloom then eh! Grin at the goth comment.not sure where she disappeared to! I saw she had started a new thread a while ago I can't recall what about but she hasn't been on here since. Maybe she has her BFP..!

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Pixa · 09/04/2015 22:38

Sorry, that was a completely self absorbed post. Sparkly planning keeps me positive - I like feeling proactive. I think it was Rainy who said about taking control in helpless situations and it's so true. Smile

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Sparkly123 · 09/04/2015 22:39

Pixa again.. Mr Grey. Shock

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Sparkly123 · 09/04/2015 22:41

Pixa yes I hear you. I need to plan. I just literally have no idea what to do different this cycle ! I'm at a loss as to what to change! Maybe it's just a time thing. Maybe we are doing everything right it's just gonna take time. that old chestnut

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Pixa · 09/04/2015 22:42

Sparkly No, no, no - DH is far more submissive. Grin

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Sparkly123 · 09/04/2015 22:42

Not self absorbed Pix nice to hear how much effort dh makes for you!

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Sparkly123 · 09/04/2015 22:42

Submissive Grin

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Mummyofonesofar · 09/04/2015 22:45

Love that red polka dot dress. Being sunny always makes me wear dresses to work. Someone asked today why I had a wedding outfit on. I never go anywhere nice so I wear my dresses to work.

Bum on pillow then rubbed vix onto dps chest as he has man flu.

Woolly84 · 09/04/2015 22:46

Aww pixa that sounds awesome! Love a bit of cheese I do. And yes it will totally be worth the wait!!

I have a sex negligee which DH gets treated to occasionally. A sex dress would be a good addition though...

purdie I love your posts

frogbubbles · 09/04/2015 22:48

Pixa your DH sounds super lovely

frogbubbles · 09/04/2015 22:49

Purdie I love your posts, please please write a book or get your self a column in a newspaper or something

Pixa · 09/04/2015 22:50

He is a blatant romantic. and I am madly in love with him for it

Sparkly please forgive my complete ignorance, I haven't been on here long enough to know your history, but after today's inspiration is there anything supplement based that may help? That time chestnut really grates on me, in my job I see accidental pregnancies all the time and I can't help but ask myself if actually all I should do is go on a night out with DH, have a couple of dodgy bicardi breezers and see where the night takes us. That seems to be the method of choice around my neck of the woods.-

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Sparkly123 · 09/04/2015 22:51

My BiscuitBiscuit now hurt. This cycle is the actual pits! What the 'eck!!

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Pixa · 09/04/2015 22:51

Yes! Please write a book Purdie. Pleeeeeeaaaaaaseeeee.

DizzyMerry · 09/04/2015 22:54

That sound amazing pixa. Sorry AF arrived but glad you have some lovely things planned. I'm right with you and sparkly in trying to do things differently each cycle. It keeps me going. This cycle it will depend on my blood results but I will start temping.

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Sparkly123 · 09/04/2015 22:55

Pixa I haven't drank in about nine years, I think id only need a half breezer'! Ha. Thanks lovely, Supplements I dunno. I got a BFP in jan after only four cycles so surely I must be fertile! I had early mc so I feel so much more desperate now.. So this next cycle will be cycle 8. 4 cycles after mc. So it's not like years of trying I shouldn't complain. It just drains me a lot as I have health issues to contend with daily and it's having an impact on that too. Anyway! We will see what happens this cycle. Id rather not get into supplements quite yet. I did order vit D today though as I know it's very important and I'm exceedingly low on it.

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Sparkly123 · 09/04/2015 22:56

Dizzy temping brigade welcomes you! Wink

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purdiepie · 09/04/2015 22:58

Okay. But it will be in Braille. Coz me mum would kill me, innit. Actually, my mum knows absolutely everything about my past except for stealing huge sums of money from the wallets of two of my clients (one put his dick up my bum without asking and so he deserved it). She knows about the dogging, escorting, stripping, shoplifting, alcoholism (obvs), drugs, bum sex (I once bled and confessed to her. I thought my rectum was collapsing), and criminal records. I don't think she knows about the threesomes (with men not women; who needs the competition? Hmm)

purdiepie · 09/04/2015 23:02

Sparkly, yes, yes, yes to your baby just taking time. It's definitely just a numbers game for you now in terms of months ahead. You are totally allowed to feel the pain of this waiting, sweetheart. I remember thinking how less painful and panicky the twelve month mark was for me than the eight month. Don't ask me why, probably a sweet kind of resignation. Your mc is still screwing with your conception chances and that BFP will be here before the summer's out. Don't believe me? You don't have to, coz your faith isn't needed. Just spunk. That's all you need to keep this train on its tracks. TOOT! TOOT!

Nanight, gorgeouses xxx

Pixa · 09/04/2015 23:04

Thanks all, I shall tell him you think he sounds lovely. He will be pleased. Smile

DizzyM I have ordered a thermometer this month, so I think it will be you, Night and me as the temping newcomers. It will be good to have each other to cheer along.

Sparkly as ever, I will have my fingers and toes crossed for you. Smile

Pixa · 09/04/2015 23:07

Purdie I would honestly love to read your book so much so, I think I would even learn Braille Hope the tot is much better. Smile

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Sparkly123 · 09/04/2015 23:08

Purdita do I believe you?mm I think so... Why do you have so much faith? Because there's no anatomy issues etc? I think it's just that panic of what if I do keep going and going and get to the point where there's nothing wrong but it isn't happening.. And this spotting is just buggering up my head! How do you mean the mc is screwing conception chances?! Thanks for always offering such a bright opinion. I wish I could keep you as upbeat as you keep me.. And the rest of us!! Ps a threesome always did appeal to me, too late... Wink the dogging and bum sex not so much. You need that tell all book, I would like a signed copy.
Thanks lovely. Again. Nights Star Smile

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Sparkly123 · 09/04/2015 23:10

Thanks Pixa Sames. But def onto next cycle unless there is a miracle.. Which do happen Wink same for you lovely. New cycle new hope !! Grin

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frogbubbles · 09/04/2015 23:14

Nighty night you lovelies. Thank you again for all the advice, giggles etc

DizzyMerry · 09/04/2015 23:15

Haha sparkly. I have attempted to temp in the past but it never worked out as I would get up at odd times and not get that solid block of sleep or I'd lose the thermometer, how is that even possible?? To make matters worse I'd hallucinate about doing the temps Confused.

Pixa I will be relying on you and night to cheer me on and will need help from all the temping experts!