I'm back, DH now knows the news too!
Here's the gossip
Tried to follow SMEP so:
Used opk's from CD12 and DTD EOD from CD8. Thought I got almost positive opk CD 14 so started DTD three days in a row, only to get a proper positive OPK on CD16, so ended up DTD 5 days in a row (CD14 - 18).
Only real symptoms were lower back pain on 10 & 11DPO, a feeling like I was getting a cold (that lasted about 3 hours!) on 10DPO, some sharp twinges when I was in bed overnight between 10 & 11DPO and then noticing a fast pulse yesterday on 13DPO. CM has been snotty-stretchy, a bit creamy and then today sticky. Noticed cervix had gone up (but not really high) over last two days. That's it!
Oh and I never bothered putting bum on a pillow after DTD.
I've attached my chart too.
According to the due date calculator on here, EDD is 8th December - so just enough time to recover before Christmas!
So excited, but also pretty nervous about the whole thing now!