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April TTC girls! Lots of babies being born! And the rest of us are gonna grab those BFP's!

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Cupcake92 · 05/02/2015 16:23

Thought id start a new thread girls before the old one gets maxed out! :) let this be the thread where we all get out BFP's and babies!! :)

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Cupcake92 · 26/03/2015 18:14

Well apparently no there wasn't a reason. Sounds like bs to me. He said they just came past called him a twat and punched him, but I know the kinda person he is and he probably had a fight. Maybe it was karma, who knows :)

Tori how was the scan? Hope it went okay :)

Oh Siarie that's awful :( come on labour! get u out this misery and pain.

Lill, I reckon it was deffo a fight. I know what he's like. And unfortunately I'm being forced to go and see his parents this Sunday as apparently he's made arrangements that we all go over so they can see DS. But I swear if they say one horrible thing to me or talk to me like shit then I'm leaving and they can then make contact with DS by visiting him at my house. Angry they make me so angry!

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ToriB34 · 26/03/2015 19:11

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Siarie · 26/03/2015 22:08

I think part of my show has come out this evening, but not sure. Seemed like snot (gross), keeping my eyes peeled for more

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Cupcake92 · 27/03/2015 06:47

Gosh Tori that's like 4lb's already! :) aw glad it went well and all is good :)

Oo Siarie! Deffo so so close now! :D

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lillamyy1 · 27/03/2015 11:03

Glad baby's well Tori Smile
Siarie, very exciting!
That's rubbish Cupcake, I hope they're nice to you and that you don't have to stay long.

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Cupcake92 · 27/03/2015 17:58

I ain't gonna go anymore Lill.
The twat is being... Well a twat! He's been talking to me like crap today and ive had enough! Sorry if I sound harsh but he isn't that great and he certainly isn't the best thing on this earth so he needs to stop thinking he is! Angry roll on Wednesday when he can buggar off!!! Angry
I've been training to start a better role at my work and today was the first day of my training. He was texting me all day just moaning about things and saying horrible things to me etc. I didn't need that at all. N then bloody moans because I stay at my moms for a cuppa to say thanks for looking after DS. what's it to him anyway? Jeez. I hate men so much! My son is not going to turn out like him at all!! And this baby certainly won't either!

Wine I'll drink my imaginary wine (black currant) to wind down lol Grin

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LuluJakey1 · 27/03/2015 22:39

I love this house. If it was just a bit closer to the town!!!!! My family come from here and it is such a lovely area. I am so tempted to go and look.

www.rightmove.co.uk/property-for-sale/property-45803050.html

I just think we would be a bit lonely for DS.

LuluJakey1 · 27/03/2015 22:44

Just stick two fingers up at him Cupcake everytime he is not looking. You will be well rid of him.

lillamyy1 · 28/03/2015 00:06

Urgh, what a complete arse he is Cupcake!
Nice house Lulu Smile

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Cupcake92 · 28/03/2015 06:38

Beautiful house lulu ! :)
I'd love to live in something like that but the price tag is never reachable for me on my own lol! Maybe when I meet a nice handsome man who has a good stable job :)
I'm in a new build think this house is about 9 years old.

I'm feeling so ill I've got an awful cold and all my sinuses are blocked. There's not a lot I can take for it while pg. and my hormones are going crazy and I've broke out in tons of spots Grin lol I'm 9 weeks now :) getting closer to 12 weeks!

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LuluJakey1 · 28/03/2015 08:10

It is just a dream Cupcake. It would be the top of what we could afford and we would just have to stay in all the time. DS could not go to nursery as we could not pay the fees so he would have to stay home alone. Grin

It must be spot week. I have got one on my forehead and one on my leg- funny place for a spot.

DS has been awake since 5. I brought him through to the spare bedroom to let DH get some sleep because he is jsut knackered, but now he can roll over he thinks he is mobile! He chuckles when he does it. He is wide awake. We are showered and dressed and I am about to put him in his buggy and take him for a walk.

Ducky23 · 28/03/2015 10:04

He's a dick head idiot cupcake Hmm at least youl be rid of him soon! Has ds been more calm?

Lulu that's a lovely house!!! Are you planning on moving?

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Cupcake92 · 28/03/2015 12:00

Hope u had a nice walk lulu! :) I've been sorting my car out. Cleaned it out and polished the dashboard etc. once DS has woken up I'm gonna go and use one of the hoovers at the garage and vacuum all inside then do a good jet wash :) so it sparkles!

Ducky DS has been so incredibly good recently! Like he's such a lovely boy :) he's started to say words now it's so cute :) he calls me "mum" or "mama" and says "mama biscuit please!" Haha Grin and he can now say "Nana" and every time he wants to speak to my mom he grabs the iPad and clicks on FaceTime and brings it to me and says "Nana please" he's so adorable bless him :) can't wait for his brother or sister to be here. I'm so lucky to have my children :)

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LuluJakey1 · 28/03/2015 19:19

Not really Ducky. If we move it will be because DH persuades me to have another baby quickly, give my job up for 5 years and move to Yorkshire near the PIL. I could be tempted. I don't miss work half as much as I thought I would and I think we might as well get it all over with at once! And it would be nice for DS to have family around him- we have no one at all up here. But I am a Northumberland girl and hate the thought of leaving.

Cupcake- DS has been awake since about 5 this morning. He has not had a single sleep apart from 20 minutes at lunchtime and he looks quite chirpy. We are exhausted but he isn't. Babies are supposed to sleep!!!!!!

Ducky23 · 28/03/2015 20:53

How quickly are you thinking about another lulu? Grin

Cupcake I bet ds will be a lot easier as there won't be the tension. Smile

Can't beleive ds goes in his own room in 8 weeks... I'm scared! We have an angel monitor mat though. He usually falls asleep around 8 now, I think he was planning on sleeping through last night but as he had his 16 week injections he usually goes off his food so I woke him up at 4.30 to get something down him Smile

I got a letter through today asking me to go for the cervical screening Confused I've not had one before and I found the internals/sweep etc very painful so I am not looking forward to it Hmm

LuluJakey1 · 28/03/2015 21:13

I'm not thinking about it anytime soon Ducky. Grin DH thinks we should start TTC in the summer. I don't but I can see why he is thinking like that. We are sort of discussing it- which means he finds ways of bringing it up and I get drawn into conversations. Have you got any plans?

DS has just fallen asleep. I think he is on the verge of sleeping through too. We have nights where he will go from 10 until 5. I would like 9 until 7 Smile Once he is asleep he is sound asleep. We can listen to music or watch tv on the ipad in bed and as lng as it is reasonably quiet he is fine.

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Cupcake92 · 28/03/2015 21:19

Oh my gosh lulu! U must be longing for ur bed! Whoever made up the saying "I slept like a baby" must mean they didn't sleep at all!
DS has only just gone to bed tonight as he's been a bit naughty this evening so was playing up.

Aaww bless Ducky I'm sure DS will be fine :) u might find he sleeps through all the time when he goes into his own room :)
And as got the cervica screening... I'm not old enough yet but I did have one once as I was getting UTI's often, the nurse did one to see if they would test it but the hospital refused to test it as I wasn't 25. But anyway, it wasn't actually that bad I didn't feel anything much rele. Only uncomfortable bit was the clamp to open u up down there lol! Grin u'll be okay :)

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Ducky23 · 28/03/2015 22:25

I won't be 25 when I have it but I got the letter Confused and there is a history of cancer in my family so thought it best I have it Hmm I'm so scared.

A lot of my family had hysterectomies early due to the risk Hmm

do you think it's similar to the fucking pain discomfort of an internal? I find them really bad Hmm

Siarie · 28/03/2015 23:05

How old are you ducky and cupcake. I have my smear done at 25 and it wasn't painful just not comfortable, my cervix is really high so the nurses have trouble getting there. I bled a bit because she had to really push to get a sample.

Siarie · 28/03/2015 23:07

Had* gah can't type on this phone anymore.

lillamyy1 · 28/03/2015 23:56

It's really not that bad at all having a smear Ducky, and it's over dead quickly. Haven't had an internal exam but I imagine that to be much worse. Like cupcake says, it's the speculum that's most uncomfortable, but the whole thing's over very quickly. Why do those tools for putting in your fanjo have to be cold metal?! Shock
The first smear I had came back with some irregularities so I had to go back for a colposcopy where they have a good old close-up look with a camera and take a larger scraping sample (it was because I had the hpv virus that they're now vaccinating pubescent girls against) and even that wasn't too bad at all, the worst bit physically was being stretched open with the speculum for quite a few mins but the very worst bit that still makes my toes curl today is that one of the women (there were two there - not sure if they were both docs but this one I think was in training) asked if I was interested in having a look at the screen to get an idea of how they could tell which cells were abnormal (they put some dye on the cervix and the abnormal cells look different or take the colour while the normal ones don't or something). So I was like, "yeah, why not?" And the reeeeally wished I hadn't looked because that's when they took the swab and of course it made my cervix bleed a tiny amount but because the image was sooo enlarged on the screen it looked really gruesome and made me feel Shock Shock Shock
Then I went for another smear a bit later to see if there were still any abnormalities and there weren't so it's all fine...
But come to think of it I haven't had a smear since then and it was about 6 years ago so I should probably see about having another shouldn't i?? I thought you were to have them more regularly than that Hmm

lillamyy1 · 28/03/2015 23:58

Just had a look and should have had two since then!!! Will mention this to doc...

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Cupcake92 · 29/03/2015 06:02

Oh God no it's not as bad as an internal. They are just awful lol! Internals seem painful like they are shoving their hole bloody hand in there! No a smear is a so much more easier than an internal so ill be just fine :)

Lill book one in when u book ur 6 week postnatal check? Cuz of course u can't have one when pg lol Grin U should have been sent reminders for it tho Confused

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Cupcake92 · 29/03/2015 06:45

My Ms had gone away this week but it's back this morning in full force :( worse than before.

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Ducky23 · 29/03/2015 07:22

I'm 24 now so not far off Grin

I think the letter I got says you have them every 2-3 years.

Id just be terrified if it came back abnormal Confused