ttc after mc- the best shit place to be! #3

[northdownmummy]

looking forward to new beginnings in the new year

all the queens you can test before AF but they don't recommend it as you might not get an accurate reading

treacle lovely news on scan. You can relax for a little bit hopefully now.

Allthequeenshorses sorry to hear of your work situation but as you say, things have a way of working out.

Busy day on here again. Will read the next page now!

It's always best to wait till AF is late. But you can get an early BFP, esp if you had early ovulation. I know I did with my both pregnancies. Good luck with testing next week

Thanks everyone. I think it's my mind going funny but as I say, the world seems to be playing tricks on me so I am slightly hmmmmm. Trying to remain positive and calm. The work thing is massive but not my doing, ie, the downfall. Been screwed over badly and I'm desperately trying to crawl myself out of it. I have been offered two other jobs but I'm sure they would be whipped off the table if I was pregnant.

I feel surprisingly in tune with myself and very like, oh well, everything happens for a reason. Anyone that knows me knows how damn hard I work and if they can't see that as a future asset then fuck em.

It will be an interesting job proposal meeting on Wednesday though if I am late. Five male partners and me saying, yes, I would love to work for you however, I am a day late and there is a masssssiiiiivvvvvvveeeee back story. Maybe I should give them my user name and point them in this direction. Or maybe I just have a sore back. God I can ramble. X

Awesome scan news Treacle - I'm so delighted for you.

Sorry you're having such a tough time with work AlltheQueens - Keeping everything crossed that this is your cycle. Do keep us updated. Thinking of you.

Thank you ladies :)
My worrying has eased for all of 5 minutes.
I'm still having horrendous pains (guessing ligament pains) and worrying about passing the mark I got to when I mc bit hey.
Today I am pregnant :)

I'm sure it's all of your turns now!

queens I'm eagerly awaiting the say you poas work stuff sounds really stressful, but please don't tell any job offers you are pregnant (if you are) in theory they shouldn't withdraw offers but it's best to get your foot in the door and tell them when you know things are progressing ok with bub.

Ahh hope everyone's busy having a fun weekend. Finally got a sprinkling of snow here. Which vanished after rain. Taking a quick biscuit break from painting atm.

Sorry things at work are chaotic queens. I hope the back ache is a good sign. Life has a funny way of working out sometimes. Don't be worrying about it all too much this weekend. Life's too short. And precious. I have been known to get a very faint bfp before AF is due but I usually hold off testing until at least its due.

by the time it gets to lunchtime every day i am exhausted, symptom spotting at its best. keep thinking if it is a symptom i didnt have this last time. 11 days from poas time. think i will invest in some tests today just incase

hope everyone is doing well today and having a nice weekend.

Same weather here diddly- maybe we're near each other.
Don't think I have any symptoms to spot! Just my usual pmt. Period due on Tue I think. Seems like it would be wasteful to test before then anyway so I'll try wait and see.
Still don't think I ovulated.

Bizarrely have a whole load of cm again today. Due in about 8/9 days I hope.

Can't wait for next AF to come and go.

We've a bit of snow left. It was fab Thursday and Friday! Today not too bad. Was in work - 1st weekend working in a decade due to change in department - but went ok. Looking forward to my lieu days Monday and Tuesday!

Symptom spotting is a curse - I'm on now but still thinking could this pain be....

hello!! we had snow too! just a dusting but I counted 4 accidents on my round to work! silly people! dp has finally come round and is starting to feel excited about pip coming!

I know its early days but I'm sure I can see a tiny difference round my hips! just swollen but I'm counting that as the start of the bump!! xx

does anyone know and ill give a tmi warning here. if when your af comes it starts off with what i would call pink wee, is that the start of af or is af when you see actual blood?

i amended my ovia app today taking into account the pink wee stage and if that is classed as the start i am 5 days from poas and i bought some cheap tests today

i am completely prepared for a bfn when the time comes, id feel very lucky if i fell again that soon but there is no harm in double checking.

it could be blood in your wee from implantation? I'll keep my fx for you ginger

oh no i get it every af mrse i wish

sorry I didn't read your comment properly at all! I count it from first sight of blood.

another tmi warning anyone else taken folic acid and ended up with green number 2s

Yes, mrse blush! me. But I'm not great on anything. Hence I think my nausea is more to do with paracetamol than anything else. Been taking that with brufen for my back pain and it made me so sick. Or something did.

ginger I would probably count the pink as spotting rather than period.
Do you have any idea when you ovulated based on any physical signs?

oh lordy what a night we had last night!

dp went out to celebrate best mates birthday and as I was working I didn't go. offered to pick him up but en route got stopped by police for having a dirty number plate on dps car ( only driving because i had no petrol) to cut a long story short my insurance company haven't updated their system so it appears i have no insurance, I'm a domiciliary carer so there is no chance I would be driving round with out it!! car was siezed until.I can get all.documents to prove its all insured.£170 to get the car back and if by some chance I'm not covered to drive DPs car that's 6 points and £300 fine

not to mention getting a newly pregnant lady to stand out in the cold in pyjamas when its snowing then leave her stranded with no money to try and find dp and get a taxi home! we were trying to save money but ended up spending it anyway. and can't work today as I have a caution on the police system so until.the issue is resolved I'll just keep getting stopped!

sorry long rant

mrsE what a shitty night! Hope you've warmed up and you get the car back very soon.

Nothing to report here except a grumpy mrsd who wanted more than her dh could manage this morning! 3rd day of flashing smiley. God knows what my body's doing. Use to go straight to solid before this mc malarky. Still early in my cycle for me to ov. Usually happens after cd14 and only that today. Happy Sunday ladies

ginger I'd count the pink wee as spotting and start your cycle once full flow starts.

ok thank u for the advice ladies. going on what ive read on here about cm im guessing last saturday.

god ive done 4 bfps in my dream lasnite and updated on herw 'today i am pregnant' sad now ive woken up so much for being cool about it all.

thank you.

Officially day 1 of period is when you wake up with red blood.

MrsE that sounds awful and really stressful. I am glad you got back ok in the end.

Ginger I've always counted CD1 as the first day of proper red blood.

I'm on CD10 and still having blood when I wipe. I guess after a 2 month cycle post-mc it was always going to be a long AF. Plus I've just been put on antibiotics for a weird face infection (attractive) so getting back on track with ttc is not exactly going to plan.