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Struggling to conceive No.2 after getting pregnant easily first time round

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Metalhead · 09/12/2014 09:16

Still here, still struggling on, still hoping to get there in the end. Come on ladies, we'll all get our BFPs in 2015 (if not before)!

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Metalhead · 20/12/2014 13:24

new that's fantastic news! Huge congratulations! Grin Really hope this one is your sticky bean. x

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BobsyBoo · 20/12/2014 13:25

New that is excellent news, many congratulations. How long were you TTC for?

I knew one of you would get a Christmas BFP, let's hope there are a few more Xmas BFP's on here Xmas Smile

NewEraNewMindset · 20/12/2014 13:34

I cannot get the sodding photo to look anything like it does in real life!!

I've been TTC since my son was 6 months and he is now 25 months and I am 40 in 2 months. I won't be convinced until I see it on a digi but it is pretty early to see anything at l so I'm quite shocked. Twins maybe Grin

Struggling to conceive No.2 after getting pregnant easily first time round
NewEraNewMindset · 20/12/2014 13:37

This one is a bit clearer.

Struggling to conceive No.2 after getting pregnant easily first time round
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Metalhead · 20/12/2014 13:38

That's a very clear line for this early new!

Let's hope you've started a trend and we'll have a rush of BFPs over the next few days!

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NewEraNewMindset · 20/12/2014 13:44

Bless you. I'm not going to do anything to rash as we know I have a thousand hurdles to get through right now. Is it a chemical? Am I going to have an early MC and start bleeding in a few days etc etc? I'm going to start taking 75mg aspirin daily and keep taking my high dose folic acid. Not sure what else I can do really.

BobsyBoo · 20/12/2014 13:44

Wow New that is clearly a second line & I can't normally see them on my phone. You're right it's very early to test, did you have any signs of implantation? I'm currently 8dpo, not that I'm going to test because a signs of AF couldn't be any clearer. Ha ha to twins, you never know, waiting so long & then you get 2 [fsgrin]

NewEraNewMindset · 20/12/2014 13:47

I only tested because I was getting creamy cm and wanted to get rid of the test so it couldn't hurt me later in the cycle.

I just have this terrible feeling of doom about it which is ridiculous as I've waited so bloody long to see a positive hpt.

BobsyBoo · 20/12/2014 13:47

Positive thoughts New that everything will be just fine.

Yeh let's hope you've started a trend. When are you going to test Metal ?

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Metalhead · 20/12/2014 14:09

bobsy I'll probably poas Tuesday or Wednesday just to make sure I can drink over Christmas, though by then it should be pretty obvious anyway if AF is going to turn up or not. At the moment all signs are she will...

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BobsyBoo · 20/12/2014 14:12

No creamy CM for me apart from a few days ago when it was too early to be pregnancy related.

Try to relax, I know that's easier said than done. Wishing you a happy & healthy pregnancy Xmas Grin

BobsyBoo · 20/12/2014 14:17

Metal or hopefully find out you can't drink over Christmas, fx crossed for you. Didnt ginger day she felt like AF was going to arrive then got a BFP?

I'll know tomorrow for definite although I know I'm not anyway. At least I can have as much pate &. Brie as I want this Christmas!

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Metalhead · 20/12/2014 14:21

She did bobsy, but I think that was more because she felt crampy, which has actually been a sign for me both times that I was pregnant too. So I'd be very happy for some AF cramps right now! Wink As it is, I've got no creamy cm, no cramps, no sore boobs and the same temp pattern as always, so I'm pretty certain I'm out.

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BobsyBoo · 20/12/2014 14:34

I'd love to have some cramps right now but not a twinge, no brown spotting like I had with DD. I have sore boobs like every cycle when AF is due although I managed to convince myself yesterday that they were more sore than normal! I was clutching at straws.

crispiecrunchie · 20/12/2014 15:27

YAY!!!!! Great news New!!! Fingers crossed you've started a new trend of bfp!!

NewEraNewMindset · 20/12/2014 17:13

Ah sorry girls, digi says Not Pregnant. Feel like a total wally now Sad

BobsyBoo · 20/12/2014 17:44

New is it not too early for a digi? I thought you couldn't get a BFP till day AF due, I hope I'm right.

NewEraNewMindset · 20/12/2014 17:49

Apparently its 25miu and Tesco is also 25miu, so unfortunately its not less sensitive. I hate digis sometimes, they are so sodding final!!

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Metalhead · 20/12/2014 17:50

Agree with bobsy, the CB digi ones are not very sensitive at all, 50 miu I think. So if your other test was 25, and considering how early you are, I really don't think you should worry (easier said than done, I know!).

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Metalhead · 20/12/2014 17:52

Sorry x-post there. It might still just be a case of one test picking up a slightly lower level, especially if you've only just tested this late in the day with the digi.

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iniquity · 20/12/2014 17:55

Too early for digi newera

NewEraNewMindset · 20/12/2014 18:01

Hope you are right but i feel like a dickhead I'm not going to test again as it's too depressing. Am due on in about 4/5 days so will wait and see if AF arrives.

NewEraNewMindset · 20/12/2014 18:01

*AF due..

lovemyboy247 · 20/12/2014 20:21

new- wow I hope this is a def bfp for you that would be an amazing xmas pressie. good luck fx for you. xxxxxx

BobsyBoo · 20/12/2014 20:33

There's definitely a line on that first test & they say you don't get a false positive. From what I know about digi's I wouldn't tell until at least AF due. Good luck fx xx