April TTC girls head into September - Autumn and BFPs here we come

[iamdivergent]

Stats so far (you know me, probably wrong! Argh!)

Steph1204 TTC # 1, 2nd cycle, BFP 12 june, EDD: 20/2/15
lillamyy1 TTC #1 cycle 4 BFP 11/8/14 EDD 18/4/15
Ducky23 TTC#2, cycle 1 BFP on April 17th EDD 25/12/14
Cupcake92 TTC #2 Cycle 4 BFP on July 22nd 2014 EDD 05/04/14
LuluJakey1 Age 35 TTC#1 Cycle1 BFP Late May?? EDD 04/01/15
bearsinmotion ttc#2, BFP 26 June, EDD 25/02/15
Poppet85 ttc#1 cycle 3 BFP 5th June EDD 10/2/15
Kitkatkaty87 ttc #1, cycle 1, BFP 7th June EDD 15/2/15

iamdivergent ttc #3, heading into cycle 8 (BFP/AF around about 24/08)
MrsPopple29 ttc #1, cycle 5 (August)
Me624 cycle 4 (?)
21questions ttc #2 (cycle 1 august) Age 30
ToriB34 Age 34 TTC #1 (mmc July)
bradders
Siarie, TTC #1, cycle 2 not sure when AF due as last cycle was irregular
LenaW2109 cycle 6
CP1299 I am 35 TTC1 cycle 1
Tylastar TTC #1
Macmissy Age 34 TTC#1 Cycle3 (+ cycle 3MMC Aug 14)

The successful list is getting so much longer - fx for the rest of us!

I just wrote something but it's not come up?? Can anyone else see it?

I can see it cupcake really really hope it's your month as soon as you get the go ahead!!

Oh good lol! I hope so too Ducky. It's aching me not being pg
And I'd love for my great nan to see her next great great grand child. As she gets so excited about DS already bless her. She's going to be 90 on Tuesday (day after my birthday) I just pray she gets to see baby number 2.

When will you get the go- ahead Cupcake? Do you have to see someone?

I have had 3 wraps with chicken fajitas tonight- guacamole, sour cream, salsa, grated cheese and lettuce and tomato. It was a yummy tea. Followed by a banana and a double caramel magnum! I was starving by the time I came home from work. I cooked the fajitas and DH did the rest - by which I mean he opened cartons, put stuff in bowls and set the table.

It's just when I ovulate lulu.
I presume I'll ovulate soon after I get a bfn. But I'm not gonna test to see when I do. Ill do a pg test in 4 weeks time. To see if I've fallen pg again or not. Until then it's just 4 weeks of dtd! I hope I have a lot of energy lol!!

DH and I are still DTD lots every other day at least. I thought I would go off it or he would but nothing has changed. I expect it will as it goes on.He does ask some stupid questions though that make me laugh - too rude to repeat but very funny. I am sure he just thinks them up to entertain me. If he is serious , it is disturbing how stupid he is

Hope you get a bfp very soon Cupcake.

Hi ladies!
Question of the day: what do you think about washable diapers???

Lol lulu that's good u still dtd! :p
And thank u, I hope I get my bfp again soon as well.

Steph, personally, washable nappies are not for me. A friend uses them and when her son has a bad stomach it leaks out everywhere. Plus I couldn't wash them, it'd gross me out lol! I much prefer just whipping the nappy off and chucking away

I thought I was feeling a bit better but today I've just gone back to being upset and crying a lot.
I'm so not used to having to deal with this much emotion lol.

I love washable nappies steph - they're pretty and not much more inconvenient than disposables, but they're not for everyone!

I have just been going through my pregnancy risk assessment for work - apparently I need to wear "sensible shoes" :(

Steph I will just be using disposables

Cupcake, you will find tht happens, it's kind of like waves when it hits you, then it goes calm again.

Bears, risk assessment?! Work must care about you! All I've had is extra duties chucked at me!!!

Cupcake sorry you are feeling low today.

Steph some of my friends have used cloth nappies but when my time comes it will be disposables all the way!

We're civil service so we like our risk assessments . Also gives the organisation legal protection in case anything goes wrong!

And I work in a radiation environment, which probably has an effect!

Thanks everyone :)
Feeling a little better this afternoon. Probably because me and DH have planned that when I do a hpt we'll do it together and it'll always be a digital one so we get. a surprise together :) Cheered me up planning it as it's made me excited :)

And yes Tori ur right, we are strong women :)

That's lovely cupcake

Cupcake your DH is sounding really nice at the moment - in all ways!

My risk assessment at work was a waste of time. Total waste of time. The only suggestion that came from it was that I should try and have a quiet break in my office at lunchtime. FFS! Then I would be thete another hour at the end of the day. Tonight I left at 6.30pm and I was there at 7.30am this morning. No lunchtime, never even got to the loo. 11 hours straight.
I have done another 2 hours since I came home.
DH is really annoyed with me and I know he is right. He said I should be taking more care of me and the baby and making some better choices for a change at work.
I am watching 'Educating the East End' which is a bit of a busman's holiday as it is what I spend my days doing, but I have put my feet up and have had a bowl of porridge and a large glass of iced tea. DH has my feet on his knee and is rubbing my ankles. Bliss

Lulu ur DH is right, need to be kind to urself :) relax and put ur feet up more :)

And yes I'm surprised at DH. I'm waiting for that day he cracks lol!

Lmao I was worried that I might be feeling too good this morning. Like my symptoms were going, but then I realised im just getting used to them.

Bit into a lion bar and could only manage a mouthful before I felt too full/sick. It's going to feel like a long time until my viability scan on Thursday lol!

Another friend who has a DS same age as mine, is pregnant.... :( and she's due only a couple of days before what my baby's due date was. :( I wanna be happy for her hut it kills me to know my baby won't be there when hers comes.
God all this sure does SUCK! :/
I pray and pray I get my bfp again this month

I have another thread in chat at the moment. DH has been offered a job that would be a really big promotion by a Head who he used to work with in West Yorkshire who was a Deputy Head then but has his own school now. It is exactly the kind of school DH likes and his dream job on the Leadership Team. It would be a really big pay rise - approx £14,000- and it would start next Easter.

But I don't want to go! I feel really mean because to just be offered a job like this is incredibly unusual in teaching but the Head really rates DH and wants him to help him turn the school round and make it successful. It is such an opportunity for him.

And we would be near his family.

But what about me and my job? I love my job and do it really well and I am currently at a higher level than DH - although not quite where he would move to.

And this is my home. I love Tyneside and Northumberland and our house.

They have asked him to go down and have a look and an 'interview' but there is only him so if he wants it, it is his. He does want it but he won't push it unless I want to go. He thinks we would have help and support there as well and I can see that.

But I would have to give up my job and effectively my career, and my home.

I feel really stressed by it all. DH says we have to talk it all through but I don't want to because he'll persuade me.

Aaww lulu that's such a hard decision to make :( u need to both think what'll be best for the both if u and the baby. I had an opportunity to move to Essex and do a health and social care year long course then have a job in Basildon hospital after it. I turned it down as DH wouldn't move with me and I regret it a lot as it was a great opportunity for me. But have a big think how u will feel as if the move makes u unhappy then it's not worth it.

Tori, what thread is it? And I know I keep wanting to just rush it all. Everyone in my family is now expecting us to try and become pregnant again so it's like added pressure.