W are jolly well going to get pregnant this month and we're brooking no argument - all rat smackers past, present and future welcome!

[farfallarocks]

Here, we go, nice new thread.
Might be helpful to have some stats so we know where we all are?

I will start, farfallarocks - TTC#2, cycle 11. 1st brooking baby DD, 21 months. Investigations reveal high FSH and potentially starting IVF.

Hope u dont mind me posting here but plz help as I am soo confused, today is cd 28 and I just done a opk test which come back positive I normally have a 28/29 day cyle whats happening?

oh geek how worrying. sounds like Mr g is taking good care of you hope the next week flys by. brooking for you.
emms are you ttc? opks can detect hcg levels so it could be positive due to pregnancy if your af is due now.

Oh Geek lovely, brooking like billy-o for you lovely. Could be cos both embies had stuck, and one has come away? Keep those feet up lovely xxx

oh geek my goodness. bleeding is v common but must be so scary. I'm brooking for you and your little bean like crazy. so pleased all looked good in there. lots of love x

hang on, if they can see the sac how could it be ectopic?

Yes I am ttc have been for 18months due to endo but has an ectopic in may. I did take a pregnancy test but negative :( I am due normally af in a day or 2 max

keep as I had two put back and they can only see one sac, they don't know that the other one isn't trying to grow elsewhere until they can identify all my bits.

emms very occasionally I would get a +opk just before my period, though hpts showed negative. I think sometimes your hormones just do very un-textbooklike things. I'm sorry about your ectopic, I hope you get a good result soon.

Geek could be as Maybe said, so sorry to hear about the bleeding but it can be quite common early on but worrying all the same, all appendages crossed for you.

Emms sorry to hear about your ectopic and about ttc for 18 months! Hope you stick around here, lots of lovely people to support you here. Could be still to soon to register on a hpt perhaps if AF not due yet?

Geek!
Brooking like mad for you. I had 5 days bleeding with mini far, exactly same time as my other macs started and was convinced it was over but betas rising. Here's hoping the embies are just getting snuggly! Can you check your betas? All crossed here for you!

Keep grr at instadiffer Nct lot. Mine are all having problems with number 2. 2 of us heading to ivf, one has had 2 mcs, one is pregnant and the other been trying for a year. Would not wish a Ttc struggle on anyone but does it make it easier T meet ups that I am not the only one struggling!
Ad arrived cd22!! So looks like I did ovulate early and cd9 should have covered it. Anyway appointment next week at argc.

random question, I find chopping veg the most time consuming thing about cooking from scratch. so when I get my carrots, onions etc can I chop them so they are ready and waiting to be used? or will they just be manky in a day? I guess I could freeze chopped onion and sling it in the pan straight from freezer?

Frozen chopped onion might go a bit slimy unless you keep the pieces quite large. You can chop, blanche and freeze things like carrots thpugh, then just take then out when you need them. I do the same with cheese - grate a massive block, stick it in a sandwich box in the freezer and just take out what I need.

If you are chopping the veg into chunks rather than pretty slices, lakeland do a ring-pull veg chopper. I got one for mrg and it's brilliant. 4 pulls and it's coarse chopped, a few more and it's as fine as you want!

sounds brilliant geek thank you. I Never grate cheese I can't stand it. hadn't even thought I could freeze that!

Hi ladies, just to let you know that it's over for me. I miscarried last night.

oh god. geek my darling, I'm so, so sorry

this is fucking unfair, and I'm so sad for you and so angry it should happen

I have no words, there are tears in my eyes. I'm so sorry geek x

Oh no, geek. I am so, so sorry.

Oh Geek I'm so sad and so very sorry to read your news, hugs x

Geek I have no words I am so so sorry it's brutal and so unfair. You poor thing big squeeze to you and me geek. Have you been tested for immune issues? Perhaps that is the next step. :(

I am so so sorry my lovely Geek. I am thinking of you and MrG xxx

Tears here for you too Geek, and MrGeek. It's so unfair, and so horrible. I hope you're taking good care of each other. Thinking of you.

It's a shitty fucking thing that's happened to you Geek, there are no words!

Oh Geek that's so sad. Thinking of you x

Oh Geek, oh no. I'm so so sorry.

Geek shitting shitting shit. I am so sad to hear your news. Why does any of this have to happen?