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Treaclepie19 · 23/07/2014 07:45

The Rules...

(1) A lady may only POAS on a Friday.
(2) Friday means the day that everyone calls Friday in the time zone where you spent the night.
(3) Rule (1) does not apply to POA-OPK-S, UNLESS they are being illegitimately used as surrogate HCG detectors, in which case Rule (1) most definitely does apply
(4) Rule (1) does not apply following a BFP because if you want to waste £25 a day POADigiS that's your prerogative
(5) Rule (1) does not apply if a lady is POAS in an attempt to get a BFN to prove she can start DTD with intent
(6) Rule (1) does not apply if a lady wants for unknown reason to pee on an actual stick, like a twig or some such, if that lady is unexpectedly caught short whilst tramping in the forest looking for bears.
(7) These rules (including Rule (1)) are subject to the change at any time if the ladies of the Posifrickentivity thread decide on a whim come up with empirical evidence to prove that it is luckier to POAS on any other day of the week
(8) Violators of Rule (1) shall be subject to fish throwing.

And as a grand finale, why not pledge to NEVER POAS before 14DPO?

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Treaclepie19 · 13/08/2014 09:09

That is amazing news smiling!!! I am so pleased for you :)

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sebsmummy1 · 13/08/2014 09:14

Oh smiling that's just made me smile so wide, delighted for you, fabulous news xxxx

EnglishGirlsReturned · 13/08/2014 09:33

Amazing news Smiling - may you be blessed with a happy and healthy pregnancy Smile

Treacle - sorry you're still suffering. Hope the Drs get to the bottom of things soon for you. If I have ov'd we've probably done enough, but no where near as much as i'd have liked. To be honest my gut is telling this is going to be a wonky cycle again! Angry. 3rd flashing smiley today.

Sebs - my cm disappears for a few days, then goes quite thick. Then some creamy.

Monten - the soy isoflavones are like a natural clomid apparently. They block the estrogen receptors to make your body produce more fsh. You take up 200mg for 5 days at the beginning of your cycle, like you would clomid. Depending on when you take them they'll either induce an earlier ov or strengthen ov to produce a nice strong healthy egg. Worth doing a bit of research.

Treaclepie19 · 13/08/2014 09:38

Thanks English, me too.

Could still be ok, don't worry yet! The cycle I conceived was the one where I had no idea what was going on and 9 flashing smileys.

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EnglishGirlsReturned · 13/08/2014 09:42

Soy Isoflavone info: Copied from a very lovely passenger on the August TTC bus. Its a bit of a mammoth post I'm afraid

WHAT IS IT?
Soya Isoflavones are derived from soya beans. They have been dubbed “the natural Clomid,”
As they work in pretty much an identical manner.
Just like Clomid; Soya Isoflavones work by tricking your body into thinking its low on oestrogen. Your body then kick starts production of FSH (Follicle-stimulating hormone) followed by LH (Luteinizing hormone), which are both necessary to release Healthy Eggs during ovulation.

WHEN?
You take Soy Isoflavones, like Clomid, on either CD 1-5 , 2-6, 3-7 , 4-8 or 5-9.
If you take Soy Isoflavones during the later time bracket, for example CD5-9, you shall strengthen the egg that has already started growing, producing a healthier egg. The earlier in your cycle you take It, the higher your chance of releasing an egg sooner in your cycle if you are worried about short luteal phases or low progesterone, HOWEVER, multiple eggs may be triggered and these eggs will not be as mature as the eggs grown from taking Soya later.
A lot of women will choose the middle cycle (3 -7) allowing time for a strong and healthy egg to develop, without erasing the chance of a second egg being developed and released.
Most sites say that you should ovulate 3-7 days after your last dosage of Soy Isoflavones. So taking your last dosage on cd 13 means you may not O until cd 20 and then say you have an lp of 14 days, then that means you’re going to get AF on cd 34.

Summary:
1-5 = you produce more eggs, and ovulate sooner, with a stronger ovulation.

2-6 = you produce more eggs that usual, but not as many as taking it 1-5. Eggs may be more mature, and ovulation will be slightly more strong than 1-5.

3-7 = The best of both worlds, a few more eggs, and all eggs will be strong & mature, and ovulation will be a lot stronger than 1-5.

4-8 = No more eggs will be produced, but the ones already there, will be matured a lot more than usual, and ovulation will be very strong. Ovulation may only be brought forward a teeny bit.

5-9 = You'll have one very mature strong egg, from the ones you already produced on your own. Ovulation will either happen when it usually does, or a few days later, but your egg will be of great quality.

DOSE?
The dose is really down to you but you should always use the lowest amount that works for you.
With Clomid the starting dose is 100mg. Soya Isoflavones are said to be half the strength of Clomid, so it makes sense for the starting dose to be 100mg.
The trouble with 100mg of soya is that the capsules tend to come as 40mg or 50mg. So you have a choice of starting at 80mg or 120mg.

I would recommend that if you know that you do ovulate without taking soy then you should start with 80mg.
And if you know that you don’t usually ovulate you can start with 100mg.
Some women change the dose on different days. So they may start at 100mg for the first 2-3 days then give an extra boost for the last 2 days with 160mg to 200mg.
NEVER EXCEED 200mg/day.
As I have said though, use the lowest dose possible for yourself. If you ovulate using 120mg/day stick to that for a few cycles. GIVE IT A CHANCE. It is said that it takes 3 months to get the full benefits of what you are taking.

OTHER BENEFITS?
The following potential health benefits are attributed to Isoflavones:
Reduce heart disease risk
Protect against prostate problems
improve bone health
Reduce cancer risk

SIDE EFFECTS?
As with any medication, taking Soya Isoflavones may cause side effects such as:
Nausea
Headaches
Dizziness
Hot flushes
Night sweats
Cramping
Diarrhoea
In no particular order. Obviously the higher the dose you take the higher your chance of experiencing side effects. Many women take the tablets just before bed, to reduce the occurance of side effects.

DO NOT TAKE SOYA ISOFLAVONES WITHOUT CONSULTING A DOCTOR IF YOU HAVE ANY OF THE FOLLOWING:
Breast cancer, hepatic disease, prostate cancer, kidney disease, taking hormone treatments, and allergies to soy, peanuts or other legumes.
Soy Isoflavones should not be taken while breastfeeding or pregnant.
Soy Isoflavones may interact with the following medications; androstenedione, antibiotics, clomiphene, DHEA, contraceptives and other female hormones, finasteride, raloxifene, red clover, tamoxifen, testosterone and other male hormones and toremifene.

Although research carried out on FF has shown that 77% (in 2011) of women taking Soya Isoflavones on the stated days at the stated doses, got their BFP on their first cycle taking them!

Treaclepie19 · 13/08/2014 09:48

Now I'm considering them!!! :p
How did I miss that post on the bus :s

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EnglishGirlsReturned · 13/08/2014 09:52

I think it's worth a go. I've done some reading and lots of people seem to have had success within a couple of cycles. Worth a shot I guess.

OneDayLikeThis2013 · 13/08/2014 09:54

Oh smiling what lovely lovely news!! I'm so pleased for you, like sebs I'm sat here here grinning from ear to ear for you. And boozle too, you both deserve such wonderful news.

Poor you treacle how frustrating. I really feel for you.

Re the soy isoflavones - I bought some of these over the weekend as part of a 3for2 supplements deal but on further investigation, you're categorically not supposed to take them if your cycle/ovulation is regular which (touch wood) mine is at the moment. Would anyone like them? I can post them to you if you PM me

EnglishGirlsReturned · 13/08/2014 10:04

Yeah I wouldn't try them if you're regular Oneday. I'm going to do a little more research this cycle... technically i'm still in with a chance of ovulating so will wait and see and perhaps gets some later in the cycle.

Treaclepie19 · 13/08/2014 10:17

Thanks oneday, I'm just fed up of constantly moaning!
Hmm, I'm unsure because of having a short luteal phase. Will have to do some research I think.

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Marmaladecat1 · 13/08/2014 10:25

Hi all
Just popping my head to say congratulations to those with bfps and healthy beating blobs!

I got what I am pretty sure to be a evap line this morning I'm so pissed off! Why in this day and age can they not make tests which do not do that! I've been looking on different lights and squinting all over the place. :(
Sorry needed a safe place to rant

Marmaladecat1 · 13/08/2014 10:26

I would

Marmaladecat1 · 13/08/2014 10:27

I would please oneday if they are still going?

sebsmummy1 · 13/08/2014 10:42

Marm, whack it on here so we can have a look Grin

The only evaps I've ever had were on cheap ICs. Had some shockers, but never on normal branded tests.

OneDayLikeThis2013 · 13/08/2014 10:47

Yes Marm of course, message me your address and i'll pop them in the post to you. But hopefully you won't need them and this evap isn't an evap at all.

greysar · 13/08/2014 10:48

That's brilliant Smiling, congratulations!! Thanks

Thanks for the info on soy Oneday- I have my first acupuncture for fertility appointment on Friday, and will see what the needle lady thinks. Certainly interesting info, and may well try it next cycle... currently on CD8 of an approx 45-50 day cycle so got AGES to go!

smilingthroughgrittedteeth · 13/08/2014 13:36

Thank you everyone x

Marmaladecat1 · 13/08/2014 14:11

Thanks one day that would fab. Will pm you.

They are naughty cheap tests, let me have a go at seeing if the camera picks it up.
Thing is, the lines are super faint BUT it would be weird to have 2 evap lines in a row wouldn't it? I had exactly the same thing yesterday.
Even looking at my other previous tests there is no evap line.

Marmaladecat1 · 13/08/2014 14:19

I'm pretty sure you can't see it but its fine I can take it!

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sebsmummy1 · 13/08/2014 14:21

I can't enlarge on my phone. Can you stick it in tinypic or something and link to it?

Marmaladecat1 · 13/08/2014 14:31

Um...what's tiny pic? Let me google!

Treaclepie19 · 13/08/2014 14:32

I can see something marmalade, i just worry with ic's as I've had so many evap lines.
Fingers crossed for you!

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