Oh dear notta, are these colleagues this insensitive about everything? I just tell people we're trying if it comes up in conversation- but then again, most of the people I know are sensitive enough not to go on about it in a crass way (note I deliberately haven't told my mum, though!).
It might be useful to actually find out what your progesterone figure is- it's possible to ovulate and yet have levels that leave something to be desired (my situation).
Sorry about your BFN tranquility- there is nothing worse than that pure white little window, is there...?
So, I had my transglobal underground this morning. The lady was really nice, and v. informative- none of that "I cannot possibly say, you'll have to wait for your GP to tell you" malarkey.....Womb is fine- there are "possibly" a couple of fibroids, but v. small, and they wouldn't get in the way of conception....Lining there (and "nice and juicy" 
- luckily the appt. happened to be mid cycle so there was lots to see!). Ovaries all fine, with a MAHOOSIVE follicle on the left one- honestly, I'd heard they were surprisingly large, but it still shocked me! I mean, it was the size of the ovary, which is, what....the size of a small plum? No wonder we get ov pains! And the egg is only about the size of a full stop! Interestingly, ginger, although it's my left about to pop, the right one is still aching away, even though nothing of note is happening there....Maybe ovaries react to all kinds of tenderness and inflammation in that region??
So, there we go....nothing wrong with DP or I EXCEPT progesterone not as high as it could be, and a luteal phase not as long as it could be (and age, obvs 
). So....off to the GP to threaten and cajole her into referring me to the fertility clinic then!
wonders if ginger's home yet