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Going Clucking mental? Old birds gather round.....

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Gingerbreadlady1 · 13/05/2014 10:54

A thread for the older ttc'er. Join us in the chicken coop for support, advice or just somewhere to rant.

Here's the old thread for those wanting to do serious lurking:

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/conception/1978730-Old-birds-wanna-join-the-coop?msgid=47008448#47008448

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Gingerbreadlady1 · 11/08/2014 18:27

Hi everyone! Sorry I've been AWOL, I had no idea the disruption a puppy brings, god knows how (if?) I'd cope with a baby?!?

annie how did it go with your boss re start dates? You sound so stressed hon which is far from ideal before you start ivf, firmly believe stress is the leading cause of infertility. Can you slope off for a wee holiday or weekend break to re-set your batteries? When's your start date for new job? Has all the ivf prep now been taken care of?

stubborn, in the nicest possible way, hope your arse is on the mend. Ouchey!

tranquility welcome back in the game my lovely. I can totally understand your fear (do you not suffer health anxiety)? I'd also be bricking it. I think taking it 1 day at a time is all you can do. Big hugs.

Me, AF came sat, no too disappointed this month due to puppy madness. Although on the plus side, first cycle on new meds to address prolactin issue and lp gone up to 14 days (still a 39 day cycle in total however, not so good). I get my amh test results tomorrow, gulp!

Going Clucking mental? Old birds gather round.....
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Dontgotosleep · 11/08/2014 19:06

Aww he's gorgeous. I want to squash him. Give him a bit kiss and a cuddle from me

stubbornstains · 11/08/2014 20:39

Aw....wickle paws! Wickle nose! Etc etc etc...Grin

Sorry about AF Ginger, but that's good news about your LP. Can you stay on the meds indefinitely? (Incidentally, have you been experiencing any lapses of self control, errors of judgement, uncontrollable urges to sell your house and put the money on a horse, eat 2 packs of chocolate doughnuts at a sitting, start snorting cocaine off the arse cheeks of a 20-something male model, or any other of the exciting side effects you were promised? Grin).

Fingers crossed for the AMH results tomorrow....

My arse would like me to convey its thanks for all good wishes about its health, and it's feeling much better, thanks. It's just one of the many things that are conspiring to make me feel like an old gimmer. Nothing like TTC at the age of 40 to spark a mid life crisis eh!

Dontgotosleep · 11/08/2014 20:58

Sorry a.f turned up Ginger, should have said that before but I guess I was too smitten by your gorgeous little man

Gingerbreadlady1 · 11/08/2014 20:59

Lol stubborn! I'm still searching for a male model, they're scarce on the ground in Scotland. Not sure what the score is on these meds but think I can stay on them till prolactin levels reset so to speak. I'm somewhat passive with ttc at moment.

Glad to hear your arse is all peachy again. And yes, I too feel like an old crone.

Hi dontgo, how's things with you?

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Dontgotosleep · 11/08/2014 21:11

Not too bad, thanks ginger. I enter my fertile period 14-18th. I next see d.p on Wed.

AnnieHoo · 11/08/2014 21:53

Haha stubborn that cracked me right up!

Awwwww Ginger I Envy him!!!!! He is beautiful!!!! SmileSmileSmile He looks so cosy.

My boss is cool about the time off In September - Phew! WineWineWine

stubbornstains · 11/08/2014 22:00

Right, better get some sleep then dontgotosleep! Get yourself all rested and ready for the impending shagathon....Grin.

Cool, that's one less thing to worry about then Annie Smile

Inshock73 · 12/08/2014 10:55

Hi everyone ((waves))

I haven't been here on for weeks. Been avoiding the whole ttc thang and have a new boss in place who has decided to place her desk next to mine...right next to mine!!! Feel like I've gone back ten years! Also means I can't surf whenever I feel like it or need to!

Got lots to catch up on now!

I'm on day 32, normally have 26/27 day cycle! 6 days late! eeeek! Not testing until at least cd35!

Dontgotosleep · 12/08/2014 11:11

Ha ha. Stubborn. I'll certainly be living up to my name over the next few days. (LOL). X

AnnieHoo · 12/08/2014 12:13

Oo Inshock. 6 days late. FX for you!

Gingerbreadlady1 · 12/08/2014 15:19

Really keeping fx for you inshock!

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Gingerbreadlady1 · 12/08/2014 18:15

Thank god! Some good news at last! Amh of 26.2, phew..... Takes pressure of a little for now at least.

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AnnieHoo · 12/08/2014 19:01

Oh wow Ginger that is very reassuring news for you! Grin

patch77 · 12/08/2014 19:44

Consultant appointment has come through for 3rd September. What happens at the first appointment? It's only addressed to me. Does this mean dh can't come with me?

Gingerbreadlady1 · 12/08/2014 19:47

It is annie, think we may wait to do our ttreatment in glasgow which will be so much easier! How's things with you?

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stubbornstains · 12/08/2014 19:59

I wondered where you'd been inshock! It's funny how 2wwers fall into 2 categories- those who are raring to test at about 3DPO, and those who are terrified of the idea of testing and would rather stick their fingers in their ears and go "la la la" until they're several weeks late. I too am firmly in the second camp. Happy "la la la"ing! Everything's fine! Nothing's happening! Pregnant or not? Hey, I'm sure you're not bothered either way! Grin I am so going to be checking in 3x a day for updates

Hurrah ginger! You got eggs! An eggstravaganza of 'em! (groan).

AnnieHoo · 12/08/2014 20:48

Ginger it does take the pressure off a bit knowing you're 'above average'. So pleased for you - that is an impressive number!

I have found myself something new to drive myself mad about. Round and round in circles I go. Someone seriously needs to moderate me or chuck me off these threads.

Yesterday and today brought the most perfect clear abundant stretchy EWCM like I haven't seen in years. Also I'm a raving sexpot and want to rip clothes off and hump anything that moves. Plus I just did an OPK and it's positive and I have a flashing smiley tormenting me in the bathroom.

Sods freakin LAW! We are strictly on barrier contraception this month because I have the catheter test on monday and I assume that's because they are making sure i'm not preggers before sticking it through my cervix and possible up my tubes???

It would be SO much easier just to get up the duff tonight and never have to go to an IVF clinic!

AnnieHoo · 12/08/2014 21:35

OK. I've had a cup of tea and calmed down. I'll put my pyjamas on and get an early night. Will hold out for the IVF and then if that doesn't work I'll take this as a good sign for ttc naturally.

farfallarocks · 13/08/2014 08:44

annie that is sooo tempting, any way you can push it back a month? Sorry I am probably not helping!

ginger that is a seriously impressive number, great news!
inshock POAS!!

dh has super spunk, literally amazing results in every category I might put him out to stud , at least one of us is firing on all cylinders!

Inshock73 · 13/08/2014 13:45

I have my fingers in my ears and I'm lalaling all the way at the mo Stubborn

Great news Ginger! and Farfall

I can't Farfall I'm in denial....! :)

7 days late now (gulp!) If by some miracle I am then it will have coffee and cider/wine running through it's veins! I'd taken a month off!

stubbornstains · 13/08/2014 13:58

The egg lives off its sac for the first few weeks....I think I read somewhere that a shared blood supply is established about 21 DPO, but don't quote me on that....

Um, do you know when you ovulated this month inshock?

Inshock73 · 13/08/2014 14:07

Not sure but looking at dates it probably fell on a weekend...need I say more Stubborn?! :)

Inshock73 · 13/08/2014 14:08

and I didn't know that thanks Stubborn

Dontgotosleep · 13/08/2014 15:33

FX for you inshock. When are you going to test. Are your periods usually on time.
I'm as horny as anything. #. Jumping on .D.P later...