Hoping for a positive in October!

[BBWBabeLisa]

Hi, I'm not sure if theres already a thread for those hoping for a +ive October. I'm on the +ive Sept one but my fertile window for this month has just passed without being able to try (got to get blood sugars stable before we can try) so next chance to try will be towards end of September (32ish cycle), which means I won't be in a position to test til October. If theres already an October thread please point me in that direction, if not, here we go!

Hello and welcome to the Newbies though I am not on this thread anymore

N&T&B - thinking about you, praying for you and hoping for the best my friend xx

I'll be keeping everything crossed for you Natty&T&B. Please let us know how you get on.

I'm afraid I can't help Sideways, I dont remember having a bleed outside of AF, but my AF's have a history of being a bit wierd.

Welcome to the newbies! Quite a few of you.

Kyte, Not sure I can help but my AF is also late (7 days now) and I'm having BFN's so we are kind of in the same boat - Hope we get answers soon - And hope yours is a BFP!

RH - I think we all worry about the affect it will have. I desperately want my second but I sometimes wonder if it will have a negative effect on DS1, and at 34 sometimes worry about the risks, especially as I've had a pregnancy with an abnormality before. But I think we just have to go with our instincts and try. You'll make it work and it will be so natural when No 3 is here that am sure you'll wonder why you ever queried it.

Ready4motherhood - Good luck! Let us know how you get in with testing.

Good luck for today Natty

sorry feedmenow hope DH changes his mind.

xx

Hello - I thought I'd sneak on this board too, hope you don't mind!

This is my 1st month of TTC - AF is due a week on Sat. Earliest I can test is next Tues - prob best to wait until Sat though.

ready4motherhood - I'm feeling just like you. A few days ago I had this weird fluttery feeling in my stomach, and now have got AF period type pains. It's probably just AF, but they seem v early - normally I only get them 3-4 days before I'm due and this would be about 9 days early!

Yesterday felt lighheaded and a bit nauseous - but like you say, I just dont know if I'm making myself have these symptoms because I want it so much! Think I'm being far too hopeful!!

Good luck to everyone waiting to test!

x

Feedmenow - so sorry. Agree with the others, you need to talk to your dp more about this decision. Is this a permanent choice, or only for a given period. Will he ever be ready to make the sacrifices? You need to know where you stand. >

So sorry

N&T&B - Hope it went well this am and you have some good news for us later

Thanks Jess, I think I was just a bit alarmed as af had seemed so normal. I am planning to go to gps next week anyway so may mention it.

Welcome to all newbies

Natty - good luck for this morning.

Ready4 - you'll have to do better than tallking about nipples if you want to give us a TMI alert on the ttc threads

Sorry that AF has arrived Kyte - good luck & babydust for next month.

N&T&B.......been thinking about you.
Hope it all went okay this morning.
X

Morning,
still no af, its day 4 and still negative
wait, wait, wait.

Just found out today my contract has been renewed after all so no more job hunting!

CD18 today and lots of bd so trying not have the innevitable optimism.
OV was CD 18 last month so fingers crossed.

Happy nearly weekend to all! Sorry to those having a difficult time.. Fingers crossed things get better

Kyte - Good luck next month. May well see you on the Nov thread (that's not sad for seeing you, just possibly having to be there )
KitKat30 - I am so pleased I am not the only one Fingers are crossed for you for next week!!
Sideways - Tee hee. I shall remember that rock hard nipples is not TMI I'm looking forward to getting pregnant and having issues that really are TMI (eek!)
Babydust to everyone!!

x

RachelRose - I can't believe that you are still in limbo you poor thing! Got inspiration from you and did 20 mins on my barely used cross trainer this morning during Trisha (I'm on holiday today )

Divamaummy - hope you find out what is going on soon.

Sorry AF arrived Kyte, come and join us on the November thread.

Ready4motherhood - Fingers crossed for you

Great news about your job CityAngel!! I am on holiday and yet my boss has already called me twice and pissed me off mobile (my personal one!! now switched off!) Hope you managed a BFP this month.

Hello to all the newbies and babydust to you all................................................................................................

RachelRose - Thank you for your kind words. I am sure you are right that all will feel natural. I sometimes still pinch myself that here I am with 2 beautiful children but cannot remember what life was like before.

My best wishes to all who will be testing over the next couple of days and I will watch/read with bated breath.

I myself am imagining that every twinge is 'embedding' and keep checking my cycle dates to make sure when I can start testing - about the 23rd of the month if my dates are right!

Keep positive all.

SIGHS

loks like all is ok with little one, no.1 that is. looks like i was expecting twins and that i may have lost one, which accounts for the bleeding. mum told me today she also lost a twin, my sister laura was suposed to be a twin.

so i am happy, but a little sad. there is no way finaces could stretch to 2 at the moment anyway so looking at it like that.

had really good news from my work today, they are letting me leave with FULL pay, i dont have to work the remaining 3 weeks of my leave. so i am now a stay at home mom... with the benifit of a childminder for the next 3 weeks as we have to pay her anyway. which means all the forms that need filling in and sending off, the housework, and the loft can all be sorted out before having tom full time. also easing myself back into full time chaos of full time tom!

so feeling happy today!

also posted this on june antenatal, your not going mad you have read the same message twice

love to all and lashings of that sticky baby dust sneezes

N&T&B

Oh N&T&B glad to hear that one baby is ok and I am sorry about the twin at least you did not know it was twins until today. There are lots of sets of twins in my family on both sides and this happened to my uncle's twin. Sounds weird but the twin that didn't live will always be part of your new baby so he/she will always feel whole. I lost my twin and have never felt whole without him somehow.

Great news re work, think you need the rest anyway, don't do too much, especially in the loft!

ah thank you so my mrsmc. pleased to hear everything si ok with you at the moment anymore news on the move?

ah that was meant to say thank you so much mrsmc! sounds like i have a crush on you there....

Sounded a bit poetic!! No more viewers so it's all a bit quiet. My neighbour was a bit tipsy last night and joked that she takes down the for sale sign when we are out so we can't move away, think she was joking but

Natty&T&B, I am new but have been reading all the threads - I'm so sorry to hear about dear twin, but pleased that one babe is ok! Here's to a trouble free pregnancy - you deserve it!

x

N&T&B. Glad to hear all is well with your baby but sorry for the loss of it's twin. Make sure you sit with your feet up plenty too while you are at home and childfree - you'll be glad of having had the rest once your SAHM days begin!! x

NattyandThomasandBump so glad your still PG been thinking of you!

Natty&T&B that is good news it must have been a worrying time.

I hope everyone is ok? How is my cycle buddy desperate doing? I am in the waiting 2 weeks phase now I think.