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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

wannbe , coggy pussycat, anyone else from ttc jan thread whos not got there bfp

1011 replies

trace2 · 27/08/2006 11:59

just though i would do this for us, as all new ones come and go (not meaning to hurt anyone) but its hard trying to keep up when were still left here

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Booboobedoo · 22/09/2006 16:57

Hi ladies. Haven't been around for a while: LO's been keeping me busy (mainly with my head over the bog).

First of all: so sorry for your tragic loss JuicyLucy . It's so wrong when the young are just taken like that. I hpoe you can start to feel gladness for your BFP soon.

Coggy: GOOD LUCK FOR MONDAY!! Really hope this is the break-through for you. I'll be thinking of you.

Hi Trace, Natty and everyone else! Glad to hear you all sounding so chirpy (and good news about that follicle Natty).

It was my birthday yesterday. Went to London Zoo as having-kids practice. . My Mum came with me, and we came to the conclusion that I've been suffering from antenatal depression - hence not being on MN very much.

I think it largely stems from the MS, but also I've felt tremendous guilt about not 'appreciating' or 'enjoying' my pregnancy, as it's something I've been desperate for for so long, and so many of my online pals are going through so much trying to get their BFP.

Anyway, I'm feeling much better about things now, and determined to drag myself out of it! I know how lucky I am, and I just need to tell my body that .

MrsMcJnr · 22/09/2006 17:00

That's great news Natty!! Drug up your OH and then he'll be putty in your hands, I really hope you get your BFP this month!! I might OV Sun or Tues, not sure but we could be doing our 2WW together!

MrsMcJnr · 22/09/2006 17:02

Sorry Trace, meant to reply to you too, I'm ok thanks, not been having a great day, just about everything is getting on top of me (apart from DH! )(see Oct thread) still, all my MS pals do cheer me up with the chatter! Have a great weekend!

Natty1806 · 22/09/2006 17:43

that would be nice if we were Mrs McJnr.

Booboo - sorry to hear you are still feeling and being sick, think it is normal feelings that you are having you have waited so long to become pregnant that people like youself and us on her think well we have been through enough in the last few years that surely we will really enjoy the pregnancy but those things called hormones get in the way.

Really hope you feel better soon and can start to enjoy it, when is your 20 week scan will you be finding out if it is blue or pink?

And belated HAPPY BIRTHDAY

pussycatmomma · 22/09/2006 21:58

Just popped in for a chat, but after searching for juicylucys news ......what can i say? i am so sorry for your devastating loss, and at the same time, so happy for your wonderful news. I cant think of anything to say without sounding trite or coming out with cliches, which is not what you need right now.
So sorry for the pain and anguish which your family must be going through, particularly your sister, losing her child. I will say a prayer for you and your close ones.
Keep tight hold on your special news, your child will be the best gift you have ever been given, and in time i am sure will bring joy to the rest of your family once the sadness is not so raw.
(((((((big hugs to all)))))))) pcm x x x

pussycatmomma · 22/09/2006 21:58

Just popped in for a chat, but after searching for juicylucys news ......what can i say? i am so sorry for your devastating loss, and at the same time, so happy for your wonderful news. I cant think of anything to say without sounding trite or coming out with cliches, which is not what you need right now.
So sorry for the pain and anguish which your family must be going through, particularly your sister, losing her child. I will say a prayer for you and your close ones.
Keep tight hold on your special news, your child will be the best gift you have ever been given, and in time i am sure will bring joy to the rest of your family once the sadness is not so raw.
(((((((big hugs to all)))))))) pcm x x x

Babymad4num3 · 23/09/2006 00:21

Good luck on Monday coggy all the best xxx

andi0411 · 23/09/2006 07:15

Coggy just wanted to add - good luck on Monday!!!!

coggy · 23/09/2006 08:59

Hiya BooBoo......don't worry how you feel......just feel whatever you feel and don't be guilty or confused about it.
Just go with it.....that's pregnancy hormones for you!!!

Thanks for all of you thinking of me.....I am looking forward to Monday and not!
Just read that SKBF has got her BFP (clomid thread) and she started injectibles last month I think....she was also very scared of injecting.....so that's fantastic timing for me to read and encourages me on!!

WannaBe.....are you home yet??!!

Natty1806 · 23/09/2006 09:12

Coggy - just in case i don't manage to catch up with you before Monday i am wishing you all the best, what time is your appointment?

Leaving a box of chocs on the table for coggy to enjoy and de stress over the weekend.

coggy · 23/09/2006 09:26

My cons. appointment is just before 11am. and my IUI appointment is at 1pm so hopefully we'll have time for a civilised lunch in between!!!

Although it'll probably end up as a quick hospital cafe sandwich!!!

Natty1806 · 23/09/2006 10:46

Maybe a quick trip to a pub in between for a strong drink

trace2 · 23/09/2006 15:35

coggy good luck on monday, are you scared or excited?

i am in a really bad mood today its like pmt com e early, i hope it dont mean afs on her way very early.

wannbe whetre are you???????????

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Natty1806 · 23/09/2006 16:47

Sorry need a big moan !!!!

OH can't be bothered to bd today - what a cheecky git, i have told him if i don't get pregnant this month it is all his fault. That is bad but he makes me feel so angry i have had EWCM today as well so really feel i am going to miss out and as i now annoyed am going to get drunk which will cock up my temps .

Aaaaggggghhhhh !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Sorry you know how it is, right must take deep breaths and stay calm, he said we can bd tomorrow all day, with my hangover i am not going to feel like it oh why does he do this to me.

Please call pray i do not ov today and miss out.

Going now sorry for bending your ears.

Trace - sorry your feeling moody as well hope it is mot PMT and where is Wannabe???

Coriander73 · 23/09/2006 19:14

Hi Trace!

Want to post a pic of Jack as promised but unsure how to work it on MN...advice welcome!!!

x

ShouldKnowByFriday · 23/09/2006 19:40

Natty I am sure that when you get that show of cm you then have 36 hrs for bd'ing or it is 36 hours after the cm. Google to check and don't worry, tomorrow is fine. Kiss and make up and get your way.

coggy · 23/09/2006 21:48

Natty...I agree with SKBF....think the EWCM is a sign that you are entering your fertile period...it should continue for a few days and then after ov. dry up.
I'm sure tomorrow will be okay for you....but I know how and frustating it can be!!!
Me too this month!

Trace.....scared and pleased.
Pleased that I get to meet the cons at long last and scared about the old IUI chat and the implications of the treatment!!
Desperately hoping that I'll get my BFP before any of that stuff needs to start....but then....being realistic.....I need to accept that it is unlikely now.

Oh dear.......I'm glad that DH is downstairs and not at work otherwise I have a feeling that tonight may have ended in a couple of glasses of wine and a good old sob and whinge on here.

Feel a bit fed up...nearly 35 which takes me into that magic fertlity barrier......got shown a scan picture in a difficult situation by an unthoughtful 'friend' and so I'm glad I have the control of being okay cos DH is in otherwise it could be a definitely soggy coggy with LOADS of tissues tonight!!!

Natty1806 · 24/09/2006 10:06

35 is not old coggy but can understand what you mean because doctors always say past 35 etc etc but remember they do also say after ovulation you will have a period 14 days later and we all know that is not always true. So it is just a standard statistic and not individual.

Made up with OH last night got soooo drunk started crying, come home only to have a argument with our neighbours

Slighly hung over today so going to go out for some yummy lunch and then back for some bding.

coggy · 24/09/2006 10:07

What did you and your neighbours argue about!!??

I'm off to lunch today too which is good because I fell REALLY FED UP....not like me.

ShowOfHands · 24/09/2006 10:49

Glad everything's sorted out with your OH Natty, have a lovley lunch.

Coggy, I think you're entitled to feel a bit fed up. I would imagine nerves are getting to you a bit. It's a huge leap you're making by having this meeting tomorrow. Medical intervention and procedures are unwelcome at the best of times, but starting down this road means putting a whole new spin on ttc. Hopefully, this whole new spin will be you getting pg! Enjoy your lunch, will be thinking about you tomorrow.

How are you trace? Better mood today?

I'm off to the newsagents in disguise. I want the free audio book of George's Marvellous Medicine that comes with today's Telegraph...

Sexonlegs · 24/09/2006 11:22

Hiya ladies, just dropping in and catching up with you all.

Coggy wishing you all the best for tomorrow - will be thinking of you.

And to everyone else, keep at it.

Lots of love to you all.

SOL xx

coggy · 24/09/2006 11:23

Hey that's wierd!
I was thinking about you and how you're getting on earlier!!!

I've just popped back on and here you are!!

Good to hear from you......everything okay?

peachygirl · 24/09/2006 11:31

Hi coggy I'm just having a quick lurk and wanted to wish you good luck for tomorrow!

Natty1806 · 24/09/2006 11:32

Coggy, hope you have a nice lunch too, you are bound to be feeling down you can't always be happy and positive, hopefully tomorrow you will feel better after your chats, maybe ask the nurse if they have treated anyone else with a short LH phase and what the success rate are etc. I am sure they will tell you all this anyway, but might be an idea to ask.

Well with our neighbours we came home at about 12.30am and let the dog out for a wee and he always as a bit of a bark if he can hear anything or if a cat has been in the garden and the man next door stuck his head out the window and told us to shut the fuck up!!

Saying that we always put our music on too loud and we make the dog bark on purpose etc etc . I do have my music on loud but only for about 2/3 hours a week when i am cleaning at the end of the day we are both young and could be a lot worse - god only knows what they will be like when we have a screaming baby waking them up in the middle of the night.

Oh well i am not changing for them, am sure our other neighbours were having a good giggle listening to our argument last night.

SOL - how are you? things going well? How many weeks are you now?

andi0411 · 24/09/2006 16:04

Afternon all- just wanted to say congrats to SKBF- well done!!

Also to let Juicy know we were thinking of her and Coggy good luck tomorrow.I hope your mood lifts a bit- but it's hard sometimes isn't it? The longer it all goes on..If your anything like me you'll have your list and 'taking some control' does help- well it makes me feel better.

Natty your neighbours sound exactly like my old ones- they were just miserable, but strangely their 'evil' child could do no wrong...everyone else was noisy and deliberately annoying them- I nearly 'did time' over them ...lol.

We live in the middle of nowhere with only a few neighbours but they are half a mile away- it's bliss- quiet, but bliss.

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