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wannbe , coggy pussycat, anyone else from ttc jan thread whos not got there bfp

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trace2 · 27/08/2006 11:59

just though i would do this for us, as all new ones come and go (not meaning to hurt anyone) but its hard trying to keep up when were still left here

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ShowOfHands · 06/09/2006 13:01

Coggy: "If there is anything that we can help people with I think we jolly well do......so there!!!!! "

I have visions of you with hands on hips and poking your tongue out.

coggy · 06/09/2006 13:01

I also wanted to say...(could be three posts in a row from me!!).....that people do pop on here too for advice or to catch up with us and I have really appreciated Babymad for taking time to commiserate (sp?) with me that my AF had come.

I don't actually think we are exclusive.

Right - that's it....I have now finished!!!!!

coggy · 06/09/2006 13:02

Well I am now SOH....you just ruined my three posts in a row!!!!

ShowOfHands · 06/09/2006 13:04

Ha ha thwarted in your three in a row attempt!

And the idea of being in an exclusive thread? Sorry but me, exclusive club? Nah, doesn't work I'm afraid! They won't even let me have a Boden catalogue.

ShowOfHands · 06/09/2006 13:04
coggy · 06/09/2006 13:07

If I could be bothered getting off this sofa...then I'd chase you y'know!!!!!

desperate2bmum · 06/09/2006 13:08

hiya girls.

just wanted to say that i think its great you have your own thread and completely understand why you have done it.
i post on the positive threads but only discovered mumsnet in june after my m/c even though been ttc since january.
just want to say though i only post here and there but those of you i have spoken to on the positive threads you have given me nothing but support and friendliness. and i hope you all get your bfps soon. i am over the moon for the 4 people who now have there bfps on sept thread but cant help feeling a little upset and i sooo want it to be me.
dont be strangers....
xxx

wannaBe1974 · 06/09/2006 13:10

SOH glad to hear that you're feeling better

I'm almost inclined to hit that "report post" icon next to chloeBee's post, predominantly because she claims to be speaking on behalf of a lot of other people when that does not appear to be the case. One person cannot claim to be speaking on behalf of others when that is not the view they have expressed.

And "I've changed my i.d because I am very happy on the threads I post on and don't want this negativity to follow me over there", too right, in other words, you don't want peple to know who you are and associate you with accusatory postings.

sorry, I'll shut up now but it makes me very mad that people can be so self bloody rightious, oh and as for the exclusive club ... now, if it's exclusive, then where the hell is the complementary champagne and the oysters, lol.

coggy · 06/09/2006 13:13

D'you know......I think that actually sounds a damn sight better than these crummy bickies that we normally have wannaBe!!!

Desperate.....most of us lurk to see what everyones up to....I think it's the 'moving over' to the next thread bit that soooooooooooooooooo depressing!!!!!

Oh yes.....and wannaBe....did I just read that you may be testing tomorrow???!!!
Have you bowed down under all our (non) pressure??!!
LOL!!!

ShowOfHands · 06/09/2006 13:13

Oysters and champagne daaarhling? What a wonderful appertiser, goes well with the lobster that chef is currently catching for my lunch.

wannaBe1974 · 06/09/2006 13:15

hahahah coggy I'm positively cracking under the weight of it, lol. mmmm lobster! and aren't oysters supposed to be an afrodisiac?

desperate2bmum · 06/09/2006 13:16

i know coggy.
i will be the last one on the september thread this time round..had a/f early september so think imdue around 29th/30th but then she comes and goes as she wants these days.
right im off now babydust to you all xxxxxx

desperate2bmum · 06/09/2006 13:16

i know coggy.
i will be the last one on the september thread this time round..had a/f early september so think imdue around 29th/30th but then she comes and goes as she wants these days.
right im off now babydust to you all xxxxxx

pinkranger · 06/09/2006 13:20

Totally agree with everything you said about that poster wannabe! Sorry you are not ging on hols coggy , feel that i could go away right now

Have a nice time to everyone going away!

Good News SOH, i wish i had your doctor! x

ShowOfHands · 06/09/2006 13:25

Pinkranger he was lovely and particularly gorgeous. He's from NZ and along with all the medical dos and don'ts he also said all the things everybody here says- enjoy it, relax, pamper yourself, get your dh to look after you etc. He also mentioned how wonderful Toni Weschler was and moaned about this country's attitude to fertility issues. Lovely man all round!

DD1ofcolandgerry · 06/09/2006 13:25

O dear oh dear, what a dissapointment that people need to post negative comments like the one below.

I only discovered mumsnet about 3-4 months ago,(but 2 years ttc) and in this time everyone has been a great support. I got my BFP and I know everyone is chufed for me but I just want to show my support to all those who have been here longer than others. They have all offered support and advice over the past few months and it has been greatly appreciated.

Im wishing baby dust to all on this thread, and dont let negative comments from one anonymous mumsnetter upset you.

dd1

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trace2 · 06/09/2006 13:32

bloody hell! i only go out for a few hours and look what happens, my place on the sofa gone, ...
so where am i now gona sit to drink my champagne and have my oysters??

soh soooo glad to went to gp and you feel a little happier,

and thank you girls DreamingIguess, pinkranger ,
Uki and babymad and of course desperate2bmum for your surrport. i do still come over to other threads to check on all of you, as you know its just here we can catch up this things more easier, i am so pleased when each and every one of those women get there bfp i am so glad they dont have to wait as long as us ladies!

wannbe i must say you are very good at putting your point of veiw over, but i think you speck for all of us, thank you

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trace2 · 06/09/2006 13:35

wow congrats DD1, WELL DONE

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andi0411 · 06/09/2006 13:37

Hi fellow members of the 'exclusive club'- I don't know if i dare post here anymore. Are you too exclusive for common ol me?

What the heck?

ShowOfHands · 06/09/2006 13:43
ShowOfHands · 06/09/2006 13:44

Should really follow that with a

Tell us about your trip andi.

andi0411 · 06/09/2006 13:44

Ps I have to agree with Coggy in that if i had been on mn since i first ttc i would have been on every new thread for the past 3 yrs with breaks for pg and mc- how demoralising would that be?

I'd just like to add that although I don't post here alot have always felt welcome on any thread- how many women in RL can talk to a 'room'- vitual or otherwise of like minded folk who really do have a clue what you're going on about?

andi0411 · 06/09/2006 13:52

Wanted to say first- so happy about you're bfp-and i know that you mean about telling folk...i wouldn't the next time round- just me, dp and 1 million virtual friends lol. Good luck- stay here,you need your security of familiar people right now i think.
Ah SOH what a trip...we went to the Lake District and stayed in Windermere but toured round abit. Stayed in a cheap- but v romantic- b and b. Discussed the poss of not having children-something we've never spoke about...and adoption and advanced fertility treatment. Just got back to basics with why we're together in the first place. Becasue we love each other- we want kids for all the right reasons- but we will still be together if it doesn't happen.
Going to give it our all for a few more years- I'm 34 in Nov- so still heaps of time.
Happy to be chatting with you all again though.

ShowOfHands · 06/09/2006 14:01

Andi I'm glad you had such a wonderful time. It's very important to remind yourself of why you are together and to just enjoy that for what it is every so often. I really do hope that you fall pg without any advanced procedures, but it is such a reassurance to know that you are in this together and have discussed the eventualities.

It's good to see you back, just in time there's a lot of baby dust flying around!

andi0411 · 06/09/2006 14:06

Thanks for the lovely welcome back and I am going to try to post more - i like you ladies on here- you're fun and informative and giving. i hope i can help someone , sometime with care like you have all helped me and so many others- i think strong bonds can be formed in this vitual world....perhaps we should meet up 1 day...consumate our relationship- so to speak- with the real life oysters and champers......

On to more mundane matters - going to supervise the man who is altering my kitchen (but in the 2 hours he has been here has had 4 cups of tea- 8 biscuits and 19 cigerettes- plus spent 90% of the time on the phone....gggggrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

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