Thanks for the kind comments ladies, I'm still struggling to believe it
Natty - I'll happily recap my story for you. We've been trying almost 2 years. I started temperature charting almost right away, and noticed I seemed to have a very short luteal phase of 7 days. We saw the doctor, who referred me for a cd21 blood test, which showed low progesterone, and we were referred to a specialist. DH had a sperm count done, which came back very low, but he had been quite ill at the time it was done, so that might have affected it. He was re-tested 3 months later, and the count had improved significantly. I had a mid cycle scan which showed I was not ovulating, so we were prescribed clomid. The consultant said he thought I'd never ovulated, and was very dismissive of my temp charts, but I still reckon I was ovulating, and the non-ovulatory cycle that month was due to the fact I was taking a high dose of Ibuprofen for back pain. All the scans showed I was responding fine to the clomid, but still nothing happened. After 6 months on clomid, I paid for a private consultation with our specialist, which was a real eye-opener. We discovered that the NHS options for our treatment would be slow, and limited. And we were told for the first time the actual numbers of all our tests. And I was still not happy with DH's sperm results (although it meets WHO minimums, 13% motility didn't sound good to me). So I persuaded the specialist that with my next clomid cycle we should try an IUI, which would give us another chance to look at DH's sperm. We did this, and the procedure went fine, but it also revealed DH's sperm was doen again (2% motility and low morphology), and at that point the specialist told us our only chance to have children was to move straight to ICSI. Being private patients we only had to wait a few months before we could do this, and we have been so lucky in that everything has gone really well every step of the way, and we now have our BFP from our first ICSI cycle, and another 6 embryos in the freezer!
Sorry that was a bit long.
Jules - how are you doing? Is that line getting any darker? I'm really crossing my fingers for you
Coggy - thanks for the kind words, I'm hoping you'll get your BFP soon too!
Hugs,
Artoo.