bfp due on valentines, 2ww

[littlemisswine]

hello

im crossing everything for a bfp on valentines day

cycle #3 for me, ttc our 2nd child

added pressure that if no bfp by mid march we have to stop ttc as ill be starting treatment as I have ms but im feeling hopeful I can tell my consultant no treatment as bfp! !

anyone want to keep me company?

[MyNameIsKenAdams]

2.75 for 30 tests you say??

Mught have to order some.

Probably right re symptom spotting - I just find it so hard to not think about it.

[Helen87]

Yeah absolute bargain as long as you're happy to pee in a cup!!

Yeah I symptom spotted loads last month and AF turned up right on queue so I can't do it again this month. But that doesn't mean I'm not thinking about it aaaaaall the time!!

[littlemisswine]

I came off cerazette in october but this is our 2nd cycle trying as I was on steroids for my ms so didnt straight away

I will buy a digital clearblue to wave as dh once my ebay cheapies show a line

did anyone use opks this month? im wondering whether to buy the digital ones if a bfn this cycle as I can never decide if its a positive on the cheap ones but def had a line the same darkness on days 13, 14 and 15

[Thisistheyear2014]

I'm glad to hear that I'm not the only one constantly thinking about it! My 0H is so relaxed about the whole thing keeps Telling me to try and keep my mind off of it, easy said than done!! How does everybody else's OH react to the two week wait is it just Mynott so chilled out?

[littlemisswine]

mine doesnt really mention it, I keep all the dates to myself and dont tell him im poas as I dont want to get his hopes up

[MyNameIsKenAdams]

I dont talk about it with dh yet as he just dont seem interested in the "might I be?" ponderings. He likes fact. I write on the chalk board "Aunt Flo is visiting" in the hall so he knows im.not

This time, I will not tell him when I get a BFP but will pretend it isnt and we will wait for the line to appear together.

[Helen87]

I talk about it to mind and he is excited about being a BFP and disappointed when AF turns up. But he doesn't obsess about it whilst we're waiting. I think men can detach themselves a little bit because it's not their body!

Like the idea of redoing a test together. I'm a crap liar though would have to tell him straight away!!

[Helen87]

*mine

[JonesSchool]

Helen87 I've been wondering about ewcm, AF or hopefully BFP is due 12th feb and I have loads, sorry to be disgusting, it feels like AF is coming so I run to the toilet but no AF. Stressful!!!

[Helen87]

Yeah that's what I was like yesterday and the day before! It's all so confusing isn't it! Do you use OPKs or you just guessing when you ovulated?

[JonesSchool]

I use OPK's, I said I wasn't going to but then became obsessed! I had positive OPK on the 26th which makes it 11 ish days past. Apart from Ewcm no symptoms and I keep trying to spot them, although shouldn't!
It's good to know somebody else is getting the same, I read it can be a positive sign, but then I've also read its AF preparing!!!!

[JonesSchool]

I been like it since Monday!

[littlemisswine]

I think you should poas!

[Helen87]

Yeah I haven't had any symptoms other than ewcm. I've also read both sides of it. It makes it so hard to have any idea what's going on doesn't it. Last month I had all sorts of stuff, but this month I don't have any symptoms either. Well either that or I've trained myself not to read too much in to everything! What cycle are you on?

[JonesSchool]

I'm too scared! Last month I managed to convince myself I must have been, so was really disappointed!
I'm on cycle 3, trying for number 1. I came off the pill after about 13 years in December so have no idea about signs of AF or anything! What about you?

[Helen87]

Cycle 2 of properly trying after coming off the pill end of October. I was on for 10 years and it took ages for first proper AF! When are you planning on POAS?

[JonesSchool]

Maybe Saturday or Sunday if AF doesn't get me, if it still hasn't arrived by the 12th and the weekends were negative I will try again on the 12th! Scary stuff!

[Helen87]

Fingers crossed for you then!! You got a feeling either way?! I go through stages of being positive and stages of thinking it'll never happen. TTC is draining!!

[JonesSchool]

I soooo agree! I had no idea it was like this and how easy it is to become obsessed! If you want something really badly like an expensive new coat or shoes, you save up and can normally get it, if you want a baby it's not that easy. They don't seem to appear on demand. You can't just save up. Hope my late night ramble makes sense. Xxx

[Thisistheyear2014]

That's so true jonesschool I total agree with you! Hoping we all get what we are looking for this month! Can't wait to hear how everyone else gets on too, baby dust to you all xx

[Helen87]

Yeah you're exactly right. I'm so impatient and used to be in control of stuff. My usual motto is that if you want something badly enough you can work hard to get it. But with TTC you can do absolutely everything right and still not get pregnant. These people who can take the relaxed approach have massive respect from me!xx

[littlemisswine]

how are you all getting on?

ive taken ds to soft play and sat here thinking how id cope with 2!

[Helen87]

Still patiently waiting!! You?

[littlemisswine]

waiting but not very patiently!!

[Helen87]

Hahah yeah I'm not really patient either. When's af due and when are you testing?