bfp due on valentines, 2ww

[littlemisswine]

hello

im crossing everything for a bfp on valentines day

cycle #3 for me, ttc our 2nd child

added pressure that if no bfp by mid march we have to stop ttc as ill be starting treatment as I have ms but im feeling hopeful I can tell my consultant no treatment as bfp! !

anyone want to keep me company?

[Helen87]

Sounds good Don't know really. Possibly because I am a bit apprehensive about tomorrow. Silly really but it's the first time I've tested when there's been a slight chance!!x

[Thisistheyear2014]

Well hopefully this is your month, it does sound very possive! I don't have much hope for this month, but there is lots of time before I need to stress out!!

[Helen87]

I don't know really, might just be a late af with no symptoms! Only came off the pill in october so I might still have a slightly all over cycle!

Yeah there's no point in worrying just yet is there. Why don't you have much hope?x

[Thisistheyear2014]

It's so hard to work out yours cycle when you come of the pill! Have you had no Af symptom at all?

I just have a feeling, I had a really tener stomach yesterday and I get that a few days before Af the month before last, so think Af will be here tomorrow or Sunday. I just want it to come now if it's on it's way so I can' stoping thinking about it! Haha x

[Helen87]

No nothing at all. Last month I was starving, spotty, back ache and then cramps and af. This month, nothing at all. My skin is actually clearing up a bit! I'm pretty sure I ovulated because I had a lot of symptoms around end of last month. Only time will tell I suppose! Prob going to be even more annoyed tomorrow, knackered and a bfn!!

Ah right. How long have you been trying for? Lots of people seem to get af symptoms and then a bfp so suppose you're never out until she arrives! I know me too. It's the not knowing that's the killer isnt it!!

[Thisistheyear2014]

That all sound like it could be a bfp, your right we both won't know until we test tomorrow or af shows her ugly face! Only been trying for 3 months but Dh was very ill at Christmas so I would only say 2 cycles.. What about you? Since October?

Yes it's the not knowing that's drives us women mad!

[littlemisswine]

im out, good luck to everyone this morning

[Helen87]

Sorry to hear that littlemiss.

No we've just been trying since jan as cycles were all over the place. Had a lot of random spotting last month too which made me think I had no chance!

Yeah the not knowing is a killer! Went back to sleep but woke up really early meaning I last wee'd about 3hrs ago. Reckon I should try and hold off testing until 4 hours?!

[MyNameIsKenAdams]

So so sorry to hear that LittleMiss

Good luck for next month

[littlemisswine]

Thanks but I dont think we'll try again as im likely to start treatment in march, my consultant said they wouldn't if I was pregnant but unlikely to put it back so we can keep trying.

good luck helen, we need to see the test photos!! I think 4 hrs is plenty

[Helen87]

bfn! good luck to everyone else!

[littlemisswine]

sorry helen

[Helen87]

It's fine, thanks! I suppose I'm still not technically out until af shows....!

[Cakecrumbsinmybra]

AF here today too

[Thisistheyear2014]

Sorry to hear that ladies! I got a bfn this morning but still no af so there is still hope! X

[mylittlesunshine]

I'm sorry ladies! I got a bfn today too. Hopefully March will be a better month for us

[Helen87]

thisistheyear- exactly my thoughts. We're not out until AF is here!!

[Thisistheyear2014]

Sorry to here that littlemisswine, is Af here? X

[Thisistheyear2014]

Helen when was Af due?

[Helen87]

AF was due on Friday, according to a 28 day cycle. Still no period symptoms or anything. Last night I had a few tiny little spots of pinky red blood when I wiped but doesn't seem to be anything today. Weirdly I'm following the same pattern as my sister when she got pregnant at the minute, but obviously it might just be slow AF so will have to see what happens over the next day or so!

You?

Do you think you're out littlemisswine?

[ImBrian]

I got bfns up till 12 dpo and the one i got then was so faint it would have been missed if you wernt obbssessive So fingers crossed its just too early. I had spotting with dd1 around time af was due and with dd3 I spotted for about a week around ovulation.

[Hibou7688]

I''me bfn too, but still no af. Cycles been a bit long recently (35 days then a 38 day) today is cd 32 so could have another week to wait!!

[Thisistheyear2014]

My af was due yesterday but I have had very bad cramps today! Which i never normal get!

I didn't test again today because I thought I would wait a few days, when are you going to test again? X

[Helen87]

What are you thinking of the cramps?! Implantation or AF?!

Well I was looking at my tracker app thing before and last month I OVed on about cd19 so I was thinking if I OVed late again this month I wouldn't get a BFP when AF was due. Also if last night's tiny spots wee implantation bleeding then I wouldn't get a BFP for a few days. Soooo I'm thinking of leaving it until about Tuesday and then and still no sign of AF then I'll test. As hard as waiting is, I think I'd rather leave it longer than test again too soon and see another bfn!

You?!x

[Thisistheyear2014]

Af arrived last night! That could be possible if you ovulated on cd19 that it could of been to early to test!

Any changes today Helen? X