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bfp due on valentines, 2ww

242 replies

littlemisswine · 01/02/2014 18:25

hello Smile

im crossing everything for a bfp on valentines day

cycle #3 for me, ttc our 2nd child

added pressure that if no bfp by mid march we have to stop ttc as ill be starting treatment as I have ms but im feeling hopeful I can tell my consultant no treatment as bfp! !

anyone want to keep me company?

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mylittlesunshine · 22/02/2014 09:41

How is everyone doing? I'm now 8 days late so thinking of testing again tomorrow. Hoping someone has had a Bfp!

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Fingerscrossed10 · 19/02/2014 14:20

Oh thanks thisistheyear! I felt so awful but literally couldn't control how I felt! Glad it's kinda normal!!
I came off the pill in October as we moved into our new house been so busy the last few months I have managed to put all the baby making to the back of my mind but now there is a slim chance I've turned into a loon about it!

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Thisistheyear2014 · 19/02/2014 13:51

I can total understand where your coming from fingerscrossed ! I felt the same way with my best friend last month. I know it's crazy how obsessive you get I never thought I would be like this!

How long have you been ttc?

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Fingerscrossed10 · 19/02/2014 12:17

Just had a call from my best friend in Australia which normally is great but today she announced she was 7 weeks pregnant then proceeded to moan for the next hour about morning sickness!!! Tried so hard to be excited and understanding for her but really struggled!! Feel like a bad friend, I never realised how emotional/crazy I would get!
This is the first time I've really thought I might be bfp and it's a roller coaster of emotions so far! I think I've been through them all in just the last hour!! Happy, excited, scared, fed up, jealous, frustrated and just plain sad!
How's everyone else feeling on day 5 in this limbo land???

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mylittlesunshine · 19/02/2014 11:04

Thanks Thisistheyear, I'm now 5 days late but not getting my hopes up! Hope everyone else has good news soon

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Thisistheyear2014 · 19/02/2014 08:09

Still having a look at this thread hoping that you all get your bfp soon.. Baby dust to all of you!! X

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Fingerscrossed10 · 18/02/2014 18:44

Hehe! I can totally understand that imbrian, our bodies have given us some hope and those damn sticks just aren't playing ball with us!
I'm going to try and not do another one until the weekend!
It's going to be a long week.... But it ain't over til the fat lady sings!!!

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ImBrian · 18/02/2014 18:28

I get cramps just like af when im pregnant so fingers crossed for you. :)
Thanks, I need to just not do any tests till friday like I originally said. I just hate not knowing 100%.

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mylittlesunshine · 18/02/2014 18:19

Hello fingerscrossed, sorry you got a bfn too! It's so so hard, AF is still not here for me and cramping has stopped I guess I will just need to wait and see. Hopefully you get a Bfp when you test again!

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ImBrian · 18/02/2014 17:41

Im developing a poas addiction. So far today I have peed on a superdrug, asda and cb digital. Very faint lines on the own brands and a bfn of the digi. Im driving myself nuts :(

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Fingerscrossed10 · 18/02/2014 16:44

Hello!
Please forgive me for butting in... I've been with you all the way in spirit reading along!
Just had to join in as I'm in the same boat mylittlesunshine.... 4 days late and finally plucked up the courage to poas today and got a bfn!
Not sure what to think of it all guess all that's left is to keep my fingers crossed for the next few days for all of us!
Thanks for keeping me company through the wait and making me not feel like such a loon!!!!
Love fingers crossed xxx

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ImBrian · 18/02/2014 08:07

Im worrying a bit, I did two tests yesterday and still got very faint lines 48 hours after another very faint line. I thought it would have got stronger by now! I cant get y excited till I see a nice strong line. Ive got two test left so im going to wait maybe till friday and see if its any stronger.

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Helen87 · 18/02/2014 07:50

Same as you. I'm not testing again until end of the week/ weekend, I'm thinking if it was implantation bleeding on Saturday night then a test won't show positive until 3-5 days later so I'm going to give it a bit of extra time, as painful as that is!! And obviously that gives AF time to turn up late too. Are you usually regular?

How are you finding the waiting around? It's killing me a bit really. Not sleeping anywhere near as well as normal. I'm naturally a very impatient person who likes to be in control, so obviously this kind of thing isn't good for me!

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mylittlesunshine · 18/02/2014 01:01

Hi Helen how's things going for you? I'm now 4 days late and no sign of AF, I've had 3 bfn so not doing anymore tests for this week. We will just wait and see if AF decides to come or not. I'm feeling pretty fed up now!

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Helen87 · 17/02/2014 18:01

Thank you, definitely not ruled myself out yet! I'll keep you informed Smilexx

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Thisistheyear2014 · 17/02/2014 17:54

There's always next month! Well your a few days late now so there's still hope for you! Let hope one person on this thread gets a bfp!! Lots of baby dust your way!!

that's a good idea, no harm in waiting.. Keep us updated and fingers crossed for you xx

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Helen87 · 17/02/2014 17:08

Ah sorry to hear that thisistheyear. No update today. Still no AF, loads of cm and generally feeling rubbish. Although I think the latter is due to me being very tired!

Decided not to tell until the end of the week and then it gives plenty of time for AF to show up or if I am pregnant I should get a pretty strong positive, so the waiting continues!x

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Thisistheyear2014 · 17/02/2014 12:14

Af arrived last night! That could be possible if you ovulated on cd19 that it could of been to early to test!

Any changes today Helen? X

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Helen87 · 16/02/2014 18:13

What are you thinking of the cramps?! Implantation or AF?!

Well I was looking at my tracker app thing before and last month I OVed on about cd19 so I was thinking if I OVed late again this month I wouldn't get a BFP when AF was due. Also if last night's tiny spots wee implantation bleeding then I wouldn't get a BFP for a few days. Soooo I'm thinking of leaving it until about Tuesday and then and still no sign of AF then I'll test. As hard as waiting is, I think I'd rather leave it longer than test again too soon and see another bfn!

You?!x

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Thisistheyear2014 · 16/02/2014 17:18

My af was due yesterday but I have had very bad cramps today! Which i never normal get!

I didn't test again today because I thought I would wait a few days, when are you going to test again? X

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Hibou7688 · 16/02/2014 11:26

I''me bfn too, but still no af. Cycles been a bit long recently (35 days then a 38 day) today is cd 32 so could have another week to wait!!

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ImBrian · 16/02/2014 07:38

I got bfns up till 12 dpo and the one i got then was so faint it would have been missed if you wernt obbssessive So fingers crossed its just too early. I had spotting with dd1 around time af was due and with dd3 I spotted for about a week around ovulation.

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Helen87 · 16/02/2014 06:43

AF was due on Friday, according to a 28 day cycle. Still no period symptoms or anything. Last night I had a few tiny little spots of pinky red blood when I wiped but doesn't seem to be anything today. Weirdly I'm following the same pattern as my sister when she got pregnant at the minute, but obviously it might just be slow AF so will have to see what happens over the next day or so!

You?

Do you think you're out littlemisswine?

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Thisistheyear2014 · 15/02/2014 23:38

Helen when was Af due?

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Thisistheyear2014 · 15/02/2014 22:40

Sorry to here that littlemisswine, is Af here? X

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