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pepperpots · 01/08/2006 13:05

Well here is the new thread
Here is wishing everyone all the luck in the world and i hope everyone's stay is short (meant in the nicest possible way!)

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Uki · 17/10/2006 12:44

I think we need firstar to do a test
maybee that will give us all something positive!!!!

So sorry about your appointment Oinker, i know what it's like getting all anxious and ready for appointments and then to have it cancelled.

Have to admit i'm getting a bit anxious too, I hope this is a BFP month. I've been looking up names i'm so clucky.

Uki · 17/10/2006 12:47

Edie
wanted to tell you my CM was all over the place first cycle too. It probably will be a little different till body gets back to normal, i'm sure you'll ovulate though. Thought i might of ov twice even in first cycle.

Juicylucythe2nd · 17/10/2006 13:05

Oinker - Boo hiss f**k re your appointment

Make sure you keep on their case next week (cry on the phone if you have to to get them to put you as a priority on the waiting list if they can't get you a new date quickly.

Hospitals = stress, disappointment and frustration.

BTW - really well done on the weight loss. 2 stone is amazing in the short time you've had.

oinker · 17/10/2006 13:23

Thanks ladies...

I have no idea how I would manage without all your support.

Janus · 17/10/2006 13:40

Oh oinker, what a huge disappointment. Were they going to discuss when you can have your op done? Just gone back over the thread and now see what you have to have so the stress you must be going through already is huge without something like this happening, life can be so unfair. I always think a good sob down the phone can pull a few heartstrings/favours! Good luck.

edie123 · 17/10/2006 14:04

Thanks Uki-that reassuring. Just couldn't stand the thought of not ov this month!

Janus · 17/10/2006 19:00

Blimey, rang my GP this afternoon to have a telephone appt. and told her how generally fed up we were that nothing was happening and she has agreed to refer us to the fertility clinic now rather than wait any longer. We will still do our tests this month so will have the results to hand but she agreed to get things moving as I am now 36 and my fertility could be 'dramatically decreasing' as she put it, gulp.
Glad she listened to me though and agreed there and then on the phone to get moving. Feeling more positive now and she agreed that a scan would be a good idea too to check for any scar damage. Good news, I think!
Firststar, any news??

babyfettle · 17/10/2006 19:07

Oinker - so so sorry re your appointment . They have to give you a priority appointment after this. Try and keep positive as you normally are - we're all here for you {{{{{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}

babyfettle · 17/10/2006 19:11

Firststar I hope AF stays away until tomorrow. Don't want to raise your hopes, as only you know how your groin pains feel, but I had some when I first pg with DD - signs of the ligaments relaxing around the pelvis apparently to prepare body for birth [don't ask me why it does it right from the word go, but I was really worried I was having an ectopic at the time]. Sending you much good luck to you for tomorrow

To all else, hope all your lives become less stressful and full of morning sickness and ligament stretching pains as soon as possible!!

2.5 weeks left for me!!!

SweetyDarling · 17/10/2006 21:10

Hi Lovely Ladies,
I'm a newbie to this thread.
I had a missed mc in August. Just got first proper AF since then, so feel like I've turned a corner and feeling like I'm moving forward again.
Good Luck to everyone for a BFP ASAP!!
Big Hugs!!

edie123 · 17/10/2006 22:16

Hiya Newbie...welcome.

Feeling a bit more relaxed about the ov issue...I think. Read my book tonight which reckons normal ov is between cd10 and cd16.

oinker · 18/10/2006 07:02

I went to WW weigh in last night and had a total weight loss of 10Lbs I wanted to laugh when I saw their faces. I made out that I had had a virus, vomiting diarrohea WOW what a shock !!!!

Anyway, I hit my hospital target and though I have loads more to loose am still happy.
I am going to turn up at the hospital today without an appointmnet and just wait and hope someone will miss their appointment and I will get squeezed in....

Finger crossed

Do we have any testers today? I think we do

GOOD LUCK

firststar · 18/10/2006 07:22

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oinker · 18/10/2006 08:34

firststar what CD are you on?
It all sounds very promising though....hang in there....

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firststar · 18/10/2006 09:04

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oinker · 18/10/2006 09:39

Got one.........

I was well trained by Captain....
Were you one too?

Girl Guides moto ' Be Prepared!'

firststar · 18/10/2006 09:55

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rubles · 18/10/2006 13:09

Oinker - well done you with the weightloss. I hope you have a successful day today camping out in the waiting room.

Janus - try not to be too alarmed by the GP's 'dramatically decreasing' comment. The consultant was at pains to say that although things MIGHT be starting to decline, there was and is still plenty of time for me. On the bright side, the GP has taken you seriously and is on your side so the wheels are in motion to hopefully put your mind at rest asap.

Firststar - very confusing for you. I really came on here expecting to find a BFP announcement from you - it looks like your body is messing you about, keeping you dangling.

Edie - glad you're feeling more chilled.

Welcome to sweetydarling, I hope your stay won't be a long one.

Janus · 18/10/2006 18:59

Oinker, did you have any luck today?
Firststar, still have my fingers crossed for you.
Rubles, thanks! Dp did his bit today, takes about 3 days for results. I'm hoping that whenever I have a scan there will be some real answers. Dp and I had a good talk today and both agreed that if anything is majorly wrong we would call it a day and not stress about doing IVF or anything like that. I do feel that this is becoming an obsession, I'm not sleeping very well, my skin is disgusting at the moment (spots everywhere which I'm putting down to stress) and worried sex is getting a bit mechanical instead of being spontaneous. I do actually feel OK if this is to be our 'lot' in life, we have 2 beautiful, precious dds and I think I need to also concentrate on them a bit more at the moment, not constantly looking in my knickers, etc!!!
Going to enjoy a big vodka and tonic tonight and relax!
Good luck girls.

andi0411 · 18/10/2006 19:08

Evening ladies--

Janus I think that is the right attitude to have- that's what dp and i have said if we keep having m/c's- we'll go so far then call it a day. Concentrate on us.

Oinker -good luck with that tomorrow!!

Firststar- what the heck's going on? It's agonising isn't it? Still a chance though, a good one!!

Edie- are you going into the 2 ww now...? Glad you're feeling more relaxed.

Hi to Uki Babyfettle and all others inc newbies- hope your stay is VERY short!!!

edie123 · 18/10/2006 21:41

Oh Andi thank goodness you are here

Im still worried that I have not ov yet. Now cd16 and think that I may have seen some (TMI) stretchy mucous that indicates ov. Oh god I hope so!! Please give me some of your good advice!!

How is the pg going? xx xx

andi0411 · 18/10/2006 22:51

Hi Edie - the cm is a good sign isn't it? Do you temp as well? I tried it but due to the varying times I get up it was no good. Also I had been reading an infertility book by Prof Winston and he goes on alot about obsessing, how negative this can be although understanding why and i thought yes that's me!

I decided in the last month prior to pg that as long as we had sex 2-3 times per week then the ov part should be covered and in this way i did chill out a bit about it all. It's so damned difficult though isn't it?

I tried to confide in dp tonight my fears- so very extreme at the mo- that we'll go to the scan on Monday and the scanner will once again tell me that the baby hasn't grown/ isn't there...I'm so fearful of this i could honestly weep. I don't know how I'll cope again i really don't..I read stories of women who have no bleeding and full symptoms and then go for a 12-14 week scan and there's no baby or it died weeks before.

God- sorry for going on and on about myself..no one else seems to really grasp the reality of these m/c's or the fear of it happening again except the people on here. I am over-tired tonight and should be in bed- thanks for all the support i get on here- i really mean that.

oinker · 19/10/2006 07:46

Well they saw me......

I love the hospital scales. I actually weighed 5kilos less on their scales. It was very shocking. Even the nurse that weighed me shouted 'Bloody Hell'.

Anyway, my Doc was not there but I was seen by a gynae who is in a meeting with him today. She will call me tomorrow with a decision.

I am getting nervous.....

firststar · 19/10/2006 09:10

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rubles · 19/10/2006 10:11

Firststar - I hate that stage you are at. It's like having an axe above your head waiting to fall and you just want to get it over with. Is that normal for you to spot so long before starting AF properly?

Oinker - wow. I am really impressed with you, you know. I am so, so glad you got to be seen, and doubly glad that you have exceeded their guideline weightloss for the op. You really have done all you can to make it go well, haven't you. There can be no 'what ifs?' on your part.
How many dress sizes have you dropped? Are you looking really good?

Andi, (((hugs))). The wait must be torture.
I wish someone would invent a little camera we could have implanted into our bellies so we can watch whats going on all the time on our TVs at home.

Janus, if you are not sleeping and spotty you really sound like you need to think of some relaxation techniques that work for you and ways of getting time out for yourself. I know what it's like, I too had insomnia and got a stye on my eye from the stress of my FSH results, but it's not healthy. I admire your attitude about stopping at 2 if you do encounter problems - I only have my dd and don't feel so laid back about it, my stomach kind of constricts in panic at the thought of her being an only child, but it would help if I could lose that fear.

I am on CD15 or CD16 - I definitely ov'd yesterday. We didn't BD yesterday though as it would have felt forced - we did it the day before but I now have a bit of a worry that maybe we should be trying harder. The trouble is, I really want to avoid us both feeling forced. It won't have made much difference will it??

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