If TTC # 2 has turned you into a nut job this thread is for you! (Part 4)

[sebsmummy1]

Hey!! We have had lots of graduates from Part 3, so let's get on the TTC bus part 4 and make this place a ghost town.

Destination Pregnancy, choooo choooooo

P.S. Bagsy for me to start the next thread, as it really does seem to be the OPs that get the BFPs!!

Ha ha I was going to say quick, someone start the new thread!!!

Go for it punky I've had my go even if it was a non starter.

Good stuff sebs glad it's not in black and white (or grey) for your husband x

well done sebs. I'm so pleased for you, it really has given me a bit of hope x

*now not not

I was just kidding, besides we will all be up-duffed by the time we need a new thread anyway {positive thinking mode on}

Hope so punky

Hey sebs how do I pm you?? I would like to take up your soft cup offer if it's still going?!

I'll PM you chick x

Girls, I'm out and I've just gone to the toilet and got dark brown cm in my knickers and when I wiped. Normal?

I definitely didn't have this with my last pregnancy.

Oh god sebs just got this. Don't panic. It can be normal, as dark blood is old blood and just part of implantation and / or slight breakthrough bleeding as is when period is norm due.

Any pain? And what's it like, mucousy or bloody or watery? Or neither?

No I'm losing it, it was a chemical. Now bright red blood, fucking fucking hell.

Oh no oh no. That fucking sucks sebs. I'm so so sorry. Xxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Oh no oh no. That fucking sucks sebs. I'm so so sorry. Xxxxxxxxxxxxxx

I'm on my own, my Mums left and I cannot get hold of DP as he is in meetings all day and isn't picking up any messages. I just want the bleeding to stop and I can then think it was 'one of those things'. Realistically though I have a bad feeling about it.

God I have no idea what to do with myself!!! Just waiting for the inevitable is bloody torture.

How much bleeding is there? It could just be one of those things and all is fine but I know it's hard to keep your hopes up - I was the same with my last preg as had no bleeding with my son. But people do have this and bleeding in early preg is apparently normal so it's just a stupid, horrible, cruel waiting game. So sorry it's happening tho sebs as wish it was just a smooth, healthy pregnancy. Xx

You know when you just know your period is coming. It's like everything just feels really wet and heavy down there and you whack in a tampon or mooncup and know that at any minute full flow will appear. It feels like that.

I am shaking. I just cannot believe it's going to end so quickly. I guess at least I can get on with TTC again.

:(

Rubbish that you are on your own. When is your dp home? So sorry sebs, this is so rubbish xxxxxxx

I have no idea, he is uncontactable unfortunately.

Well I haven't marked a pad so I guess that's something. I came back from soft play where there had been dark mucous, then as I drove home and run a bath there was dark red blood mixed in. I had a bath and got into my pyjamas, put a pad in and so far, and it's been over an hour, I haven't bled anymore.

I am praying it's something and nothing and it stops. I cannot stop shaking though, it's like I've gone into shock or something.

That's good it's not continued but obviously very scary. Hoping its nothing and stops too xxxx

Oh sebs, that sounds very scary. But I had what I assumed was a full period with my pregnancy, it lasted three or four days of intermittent bleeding. Turned out it must have been implantation or some other bleeding. I only did the pregnancy test a week later due to all the other symptoms. And nobody ever explained what the bleeding must have been. So don't lose hope sebs. Lots of rest if you can. fingers crossed xx

Oh sebs that sounds so frightening, poor you. As others have said try to rest if you can and it is a really positive sign that the bleeding has stopped. My best friend had a big bleed in early pregnancy, as with zippy it was never explained but all was fine. Keeping everything crossed for you x

Thanks girls. DP is home now so I'm a little but more grounded.

Ok, I'm trying to look on the positive. The discharge is now brown and sludgy. The pad has a little dilute brown on it. There is no bright red blood.

I think it's the unknown that is freaking me out. It could go either way at this stage and I can't imagine being able to get a wink of sleep tonight. I am having twinges but I wouldn't say cramps.

I am only approx 14 dpo. I would usually have got my period full flow yesterday. I just think 14dpo is late for implantation, argh I have no idea.

Arrr Sebs only just reading your messages. How are you doing? Any updates? I know it is no consolation whatsoever as everyones situation is different but I know of a few people who had bleeding in early pregnancy and it was just one of those things. What has DP said?
I'm so sorry you have to go through this, while you were still living on your high too I bet. Life is just so shit sometimes, why do shit things have to happen to good people. It isn't fair that it can't just be a smooth sailing sex to bump to baby. It's what we're here for FFS why is it so complicated!
Sebs you made me get my rant on!!!!
I wouldn't have guessed it's implantation, probably too late on by now? It could just be your body doing weird things for no apparent reason. Did you ever see that programme I didn't know I was pregnant? Women were getting what they thought was their period for 8 months or so!! FX you are ok and this is just a minor and one and only hiccup for you.