Apologies for being AWOL for a while, after a few days of no symps at all morning (all day) sickness came back with a vengeance and been feeling totally rubbish!
Blue so glad you finally got to hear that HB and had five mins of not worrying! Not for very long but its nice while it lasts isnt it? I think your abs have done wonders keeping your bump under control for so long, bet its a bit of a relief (albeit scary) thats its now all public. So pleased your DCs are excited 
Ducky how is your little blob doing? How rubbish having to go back to more responsibility at work, right when you could have done without it. On a positive side, like Blue says maybe it will help you to concentrate on "normal" stuff. And no I dont think not being petrified before a scan is an option for any of us!
ORM hope you managed to get through the last few days as well as possible.
Owl hope all the Owl family is doing great
Kleine thanks for coming back and telling us your happy ending, its gives so much hope
ATM I know what you mean about the sympathy being the hardest to handle - I think with time I have become a bit "hardened" to the stupid, insenstive comments but someone just holding my hand, giving me a hug or even just a kind look can set me off blubbing!
Ruby how are you doing? Did you have a good talk with your MW about the new situation and was she able to calm your fears? when do you have your next visit with the consult?
Earth how are you and your little man?
Tulip how are you doing?
AFM Had a major wobble last week pre-scan, was totally convinced baby 2 had died too. Anyway all was well at the 12 week scan apart from the hematoma still being there. The sonographer was pretty uncomunicative though, when we asked what the HB rate was he just said "we dont measure it, but its normal". So if you dont measure it how the heck do you know its normal then?? 
He also said the next scan would be at 21 weeks 
there is NO WAY I can wait more than two months for the next scan!
Waves to everyone I might have missed and anyone lurking x