Emmsys Weebles - the one where we insulate the greenhouse & pass round the mulled wine

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A new wintery thread :)

4ever. Remember the gripping pains were possibly fear rather than something sinister. Let your lovely DC distract you and get that customised cotton wool suit on. Take care.

Sorry 4ever that wasn't my aim at all. Pain is very normal. I never told anyone this not even dh, but at about 7 weeks I was in so much pain I was absolutely convinced the baby had died. I even put a star in my diary to mark the date to match up with the sonographer when the time came. So imagine my surprise when there was a heartbeat. Keep hanging on and keep the faith xxxx

Not looking good, red blood & clots now.. Think its over.. Xx

Oh 4ever I really hope it isn't, I'm still keeping my fingers and toes crossed. I wish I could give you a big hug and make it all ok for you xxxx

Oh 4ever. Really hope it's all ok. Thinking of you.

Oh 4ever big squeezy hand-holds from me. xxx

How are you today, 4ever?

Lurking for 4ever

I'm lurking too...
Thinking of you 4ever xxx

Thanks lovely ladies, bless mls making a reappearance.. 99% certain it's over, unless there's been a complete miracle and had twins or something, obviously highly unlikely.. Seemed to pass it this morning, mental as it sounds I fished it out the loo to be sure.. Still gonna go for scan tomorrow to be sure it's all gone and wasn't actually ectopic or anything.. (big risk when on pill apparently). Reading back sounds very matter of fact, im/we are just in that wierd head space, again, but thankfully kids are being extra adorable and that's totally keeping us going.. We only knew for 3wks, what a roller coaster it's been.. It's just utterly crap, this is why we hadn't planned any more, cos we didn't want to go through this awful crap ever again.. Was brilliant that Teddy was our last and successful pregnancy with the amazing outcome, which had helped heal those old wounds..

4ever :-( I'm so sorry. Really feel for you. Give those beautiful children of yours a big squeeze. Will be thinking of you lots. Xxx

Big hugs to 4ever xxxxx

Oh 4ever I'm so sorry I know you only knew for 3 weeks, but in those three weeks you must have felt all those familiar emotions again, including so much hope that this would work. I really feel for you, and I know just what you mean about Teddy's pregnancy working out and being the last one you planned, I feel exactly the same about Lily's.
There's nothing I can say to make you feel any better I know, but we are all thinking of you, and are there for you. Take comfort in your beautiful children.
Lots of love xxx

So sorry, 4ever. Sending you much love.

4ever sorry you are going through this awful head-f@*k once again. It never gets easier does it. Will be lurking for the results of your scan. Xxxx

Thinking of you 4ever big hugs xxx

4ever sending you and your dh the strength to get through today, you'll be in my thoughts and will be lurking for news xxx

Aw ladies you're so great.. Still rallying round, wished we weren't having too though, thought our thread was done with all this..

Been bloody horrible physically, tmi, but I'm just flooding, awful clots, stupidly thought it had passed Sunday morning, what's come away since has been much worse so I've actually not got a clue.. I'm not used to natural mc, my first was natural, and horrific, the 6th was the chemical pg at just under 6wk, and not too bad, but all the others were all seeing the heart stopped around 9wks at the scans, then erpc's, quick, and fairly painless, this in comparison is horrendous.. Really don't know how I managed to do the school run this morning.. Scan is at 12.15 so hoping they'll say it's passed, and the worst is over.. Thanks again for being there my lovelys.. Sorry to bring us all back to this bloody depressing place again xxx

Dont you apologise, this thread is why we're all here in the first place and we are here to support each other. Good or bad we are here. So sorry you are having a rough time of it. Hope physically the worst is over for you very soon.

Hope the scan went as well as it could.

Lurking. Reception not great at work but I keep refreshing. Hope you're doing ok.

Lurking too... Hope you're as okay as you can be 4ever xxx

Thanks again lovelys.. Scan confirmed both sac and baby have definitely now gone, so worst has passed thank God, though there's apparently still some tissue so will still have some bleeding but no as bad as it's been.. Couldn't 100% rule out ectopic, so also had a blood test, and got to repeat that back at hospital on weds.. Sigh... Just wanna curl up with my babies now and count my blessings.. Dh picking Summer up.. Been no sobbing, but had a quiet cry on way to hospital listening to music, then we went in the hospital chapel on way in, and they were in the middle of a service, so that got us both a bit teary eyed..

4ever I'm so sorry. I admire you for being so strong. I wish you didn't have to go through all this again. Lots of love and hugs to you all xxxx

Oh 4ever I too am so sorry. I have been thinking about you all day, and wish so much that you and your lovely dh didn't have to go through this again. As moon says you are incredibly strong, and thank goodness you have your babies to immerse yourself in. Any time you need to 'talk' we'll be here to listen.
Thinking of you xxx