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Is there a November bus yet? Can't find the timetable..!

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ThisIsMeNow · 03/10/2013 10:29

Just that really!
Looking for the November bus to hop on please. If anyone knows the next one due can you point me to it? Thanks!

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MundayCakes85 · 15/10/2013 22:44

Hi ladies I've come to vent. Had a 2 day early period, then after a stressful day at work I seem to be spotting again. Work was awful and got home and had an argument with (D)H. He seems to irritate the s* out of me the last week or so.
He's given up smoking and I'm doing my best to cut right down. Tonight he told me he was disappointed in me- how can I tell him I'm stressed out with work and disappointed that we aren't up the duff yet?
Sorry I'm on a major downer tonight, will promise to pull my socks up soon Hmm

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ThisIsMeNow · 16/10/2013 08:37

Morning all.
Just been kicked off the November bus officially!
Feeling a bit sorry for myself today so I'll have a mope and come back in a bit when I feel more positive!
Ttc #2 cycle #2 Bfp nov 12

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SoMuchFruit · 16/10/2013 09:46

Morning - just found the bus stop for November.

This is Cycle 4 (well, technically C3 as the first one doesn't really count) and my BFP is due Nov 11th. The day after you This

We DTD eod (mostly) last month but I think I actually O later than I/various calendars etc say and we missed it as OH was away.

CD6 today and AF buggered off yesterday. Hope this is a good month for us all. FX!

SoMuchFruit · 16/10/2013 09:47

the day before you This! Maybe I need some coffee..

SoMuchFruit · 16/10/2013 09:49

Munday that's a bit hard of your OH. Definitely tell him about work/ttc concerns. He might understand why you are a bit down etc. Have a bit of Cake in the meantime.

lucyfluff · 16/10/2013 10:18

Glad you found the bus somuchfruit...hope this is a lucky one for you Grin

Im having a bit of a meh day...bleeding still lightly which means no dtding and horrible headache :( AND its pissing down so entertaining ds all day inside.....cake may help Wink

How is everyone else?

MundayCakes85 · 16/10/2013 10:51

Thanks SoMuchFruit think I'll have to sit him down tonight. Is it wrong to eat chocolate for breakfast? Oops!
Feeling much better today- hope everyone's got their wellies and macs on for jumping in puddles today x

dollydaydream27 · 16/10/2013 13:50

Hi ladies is there a seat left for me .
Dolly daydream 27 ttc #1 cycle 1. BFP due 7th November.
Very excited Smile recently engaged been thinking about ttc for a loooong time and we have decided to take the leap . Looking forward to this journey with you lets hope November brings lots of good news!

booisgreat · 16/10/2013 14:41

thanks for the welcome ladies. I love reading the posts. They can be very entertaining and enlightening.

Munday- I cant believe your oh said that. You are under enough pressure and at least you have cut down.

I did another opk today at 12.30, hadn't peed or drank in over 2l.5 hours and got a really strong second line. not as strong as the test line so I must assume the one sun morn was a false positive and that I will o soon. I will do another later. Rang dh and told him we would be busy tonight-he thought I meant painting!!! They can be so tuned out sometimes. He doesn't know his luck recently as we have been bding every night. He actually declined last night - I was in shock. he is always up for it - in every way. I wish I knew how to work the smilies /emo/te/2.gif
did I just do that right??

either way is getting a strong but not as strong as test line a good sign. only prob is I have slight spotting too!!!/emo/te/11.gif

Hello to everyone else. having a quick type at work.

41 for the next tiny while ttc#3 cycle 1 1mmc

booisgreat · 16/10/2013 14:42

ps welcome dolly and so much fruit. just realised my smilies didn't work. tutorial please girls.

Luckystar1 · 16/10/2013 14:50

Hello everyone can I join? I'm ttc #1 after a mmc 6 weeks ago. I'm desperate to get my bfp, although I've got a feeling it'll take a few more buses!!

Af should finish at the end of this week and then it's full speed ahead! Fx for all of Us!

kirstyd1 · 16/10/2013 16:35

Hi on cd8 today and just did an ovulation test, got a line near but not quite positive, fingers crossed to everyone this,month x

ScienceGeekGirl · 16/10/2013 17:50

Hello girlies, I'm in the nothing time where I'm still on my AF and probably got a few more days to go. DH says he's gonna be open to my DTD even when he's tired from work. This ttc business really has switched our roles. Kinda funny lol

Hello kirsty. Little bit jealous at your early nearly positive opk. Blush. Do you have short cycles usually?

Sorry to hear about you mc lucky. I think I remember you from previous buses. Hope you are ok and that the ttc journey going forward is kind to you.

kirstyd1 · 16/10/2013 18:05

Hi i usually have 28 day cycles.last two pregnancies happened really quickly unfortunately last one ended in mc in July since then last two cycles were 29 then 30, although ovulated much later on, maybe this early one is a positive sign, feeling much more optimistic this month x

Choccywoccydodah · 16/10/2013 18:08

24 awaiting BFPs!

sazzlehopes ttc#2 cycle 11, bfp due end oct?/1st nov
nicnacnicnac ttc#1, cycle 1, bfp due 2nd Nov
dupainduvindufromage, Ttc #2, cycle 3, bfp due 5th Nov
englishteacher78 TTC #1 Cycle 4 BFP due 5th Nov
Owlie84 ttc#1 cycle 6, BFP due 5th Nov
justanotherforumname, ttc#1, cycle 1, bfp due 6th nov
kirstyd1 ttc#2 cycle 3 after mc bfp 7th nov
Dollydaydream27 ttc #1 cycle 1 bfp due 7th Nov
sparklesandfizz ttc#3 cycle #3 bfp due 8th Nov
MundayCakes85 ttc #1 cycle 4 bfp due 8th Nov
booisgreat ttc #3 cycle 1 post mmc bfp due 8th Nov
Leezl ttc #1, cycle 4, bfp due 10th
theduchesse, ttc#2, cycle 1, bfp due 10th nov
barmybunting TTC #1 Cycle 2 bfp due 10th Nov
LePetitPont ttc #1 cycle 3 bfp due 10th Nov
Choccywoccydodah ttc#2 cycle 3 bfp due 10th Nov
Mumtoacub ttc #1 cycle 6 bfp due 10th Nov
plinkyplonks TTC#1 cycle #4 bfp due 11th Nov
SoMuchFruit ttc#1 cycle 4 bfp due 11th Nov
ThisIsMeNow ttc #2 cycle 2 bfp due 12th Nov
SaltySeaBird TTC#2 cycle #2 bfp due 14th nov
ImNotAFlower ttc#2 cycle 1 bfp due 15th Nov
LuckyStar1 ttc#1 cycle 1 post mmc bfp due 16th Nov
ScienceGeekGirl ttc #1 cycle 8 due bfp 17th Nov
justhayley, ttc#2, cycle 1 after mc, bfp due 25th nov
Punkypod, ttc#2, cycle 1, bfp due 5th dec
Refoca ttc #2 cycle #3 bfp due ??
thisismenow, ttc#2, cycle 1, bfp due ?
wiggleginger, ttc#2, cycle 3, bfp ?
Lucyfluff ttc #4 cycle 1 post m/c bfp due ?
Sausagesaurus lurking.....

Choccywoccydodah · 16/10/2013 18:10

Think that's everyone updated. Let me know if your dates are wrong as I've had to guess a couple.

Welcome new passengers!!

Oh, just realised I've not updated the number of passengers......

Choccywoccydodah · 16/10/2013 18:11

31 awaiting BFPs!

sazzlehopes ttc#2 cycle 11, bfp due end oct?/1st nov
nicnacnicnac ttc#1, cycle 1, bfp due 2nd Nov
dupainduvindufromage, Ttc #2, cycle 3, bfp due 5th Nov
englishteacher78 TTC #1 Cycle 4 BFP due 5th Nov
Owlie84 ttc#1 cycle 6, BFP due 5th Nov
justanotherforumname, ttc#1, cycle 1, bfp due 6th nov
kirstyd1 ttc#2 cycle 3 after mc bfp 7th nov
Dollydaydream27 ttc #1 cycle 1 bfp due 7th Nov
sparklesandfizz ttc#3 cycle #3 bfp due 8th Nov
MundayCakes85 ttc #1 cycle 4 bfp due 8th Nov
booisgreat ttc #3 cycle 1 post mmc bfp due 8th Nov
Leezl ttc #1, cycle 4, bfp due 10th
theduchesse, ttc#2, cycle 1, bfp due 10th nov
barmybunting TTC #1 Cycle 2 bfp due 10th Nov
LePetitPont ttc #1 cycle 3 bfp due 10th Nov
Choccywoccydodah ttc#2 cycle 3 bfp due 10th Nov
Mumtoacub ttc #1 cycle 6 bfp due 10th Nov
plinkyplonks TTC#1 cycle #4 bfp due 11th Nov
SoMuchFruit ttc#1 cycle 4 bfp due 11th Nov
ThisIsMeNow ttc #2 cycle 2 bfp due 12th Nov
SaltySeaBird TTC#2 cycle #2 bfp due 14th nov
ImNotAFlower ttc#2 cycle 1 bfp due 15th Nov
LuckyStar1 ttc#1 cycle 1 post mmc bfp due 16th Nov
ScienceGeekGirl ttc #1 cycle 8 due bfp 17th Nov
justhayley, ttc#2, cycle 1 after mc, bfp due 25th nov
Punkypod, ttc#2, cycle 1, bfp due 5th dec
Refoca ttc #2 cycle #3 bfp due ??
thisismenow, ttc#2, cycle 1, bfp due ?
wiggleginger, ttc#2, cycle 3, bfp ?
Lucyfluff ttc #4 cycle 1 post m/c bfp due ?
Sausagesaurus lurking.....

MundayCakes85 · 16/10/2013 19:09

Looks like we're filling up quickly. Hello to all the new passengers. looking forward to the ride?
Asked DH to DTD tonight- only cd5 so obviously just for fun, and it appears he's lost his mojo. Sat down and had a chat (whilst he was playing GTA!) and I said I was hurt by his comments and that I'm doing the best I can with all the stress. Turns out he's worried he's not fertile enough and felt like I was using him for his swimmers!!
Had to remind him that he's fit (boys are vain too!) so this month I won't give him a sex plan, but said we had to DTD 3 times and week Smile
How's everyone else finding it this month?

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ThisIsMeNow · 16/10/2013 20:23

Having a crappy day today so wine and chocolate tonight Smile

Does anyone know, if Af came a day early does that shift when I ovulate?

DP is working away so my plan is shag as much as possible at the weekends and cross fingers not legs we get a Bfp!

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ScienceGeekGirl · 16/10/2013 20:34

Ovulation can move around a bit. The bit that tends to remain constant (within a day or two) is time from ov to af (LP length). For example in my 7 cycles my ov has been anywhere from cd15 to cd32. Whereas my LP length is between 11 and 13 days regardless. Hopefully though you are far luckier than me and you cycle length is pretty constant to within a day or two.

grobagsforever · 16/10/2013 20:59

Hi all is there room for me? Have 1 DD who is 3. Have finally plucked up the courage to TTC for DC2. I am 33. DD only took 2 cycles but I'm aware I'm four years older now. CD 10, my cycle has been 28 days for months but last one was 24 days which worried me a bit. So I would go for Nov 1st for POAS.

Thisismenow, yes your AF coming early could meam you ovulate early, are you.normally regular?

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ThisIsMeNow · 16/10/2013 22:02

I've not had enough cycles to know what's regular I'm afraid! Was on cerazette 6/7 years before dd, fell with her cycle 2 then on cerazette again since she was born.
Not had an actual real period for nearly 10 years! Shock

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TwerkingNinetoFive · 16/10/2013 22:23

Can I join. BFP due on the first November (I think)
Trying for number 2 but the first was a 'surprise' so I'm new to all this ttc business, I'm on Cycle 2.

findingme · 17/10/2013 15:58

Hi all, can I join? October bus has just dropped me off. findingme, ttc #2, cycle 3, BFP due 11th November

ScienceGeekGirl · 17/10/2013 16:07

Welcome aboard find and twerk. It's gone quite quiet on here recently.

Anyone having any fun ttc activities/stories to keep us entertained till we enter November and can start testing. I have a shiny monitor that I get to use to pee on sticks in a few days which should keep me entertained for a few weeks!