ahhhh thanks everyone, and hopefully it's the first of many many many BFPs on the bus!
So, symptoms, I'll try and make the list, not sure of which DPO though, sorry, but I'll try to put them in order of earliest to latest
started about 6dpo with fatigue and lightheadedness, then nausea (light, but definitely abnormal) then the CRAZY dreams began, so vivid and intense, then the feeling like AF was coming and the 'wet feeling' though CM was nearly dry and no AF (obvs!), light cramping, tiny bit of implantation bleeding, no pain though (this time, last time it hurt a lot!), but I think the big symptoms that made me sure even before I tested were I got very achy knees and other joints (but especially knees) and food started tasting completely different, this has been over the past maybe three days (I'm 13dpo today), I also had a few other symptoms like heartburn, feeling cold, buzzing in my ears, v.emotional (poor DP!), but those honestly could have been other things
I had a couple days in there where I was sure I was out because literally everything went away, it all came and went as well, nothing was constant
Also, first time I was PG (lost 5wks), I had SUPER sore boobs from very early, and this time, hardly at all (bit of nipple soreness which could have been something else), so it really is true that no two pregnancies are the same, boobs has always been my telltale AF sign too so I dunno, bodies are strange!
sorry, massive post! anyway Fx for everyone, I'll be checking in every day to see who's BFP'd!!!!