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The Elderberry Pavlovas skipping down the yellow brick road of positivity, thread 13 - lucky for some?!?

997 replies

Bunnygirlie · 09/08/2013 23:35

The smallprint - Berries have a strict entrance criteria (TTC #1, over 30, TTC for 3+months, NO instadiffers, must have a special pot) and def no mention of baby dust or baby dancing UGH !!! Ooh we are strict...please note your house may be at risk if you do not keep up repayments lol

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BlindKitty · 15/08/2013 19:11

Omg barking and haycorn??? We're going to need a new helicopter if me and pip are coming this month!!!

haycorn remind me of your story. You've been ttc for ages right? Well done, massive congrats!

pip 6 envies?! 1 in the oven and 5 in the freezer?

So in my news I injected all by myself today. That's it but I feel like I need some praise haha even though it is actually piss easy

marie456 · 15/08/2013 19:21

Brilliant news to haycorn and barking! There have been so many bfps that I've lost track of who I've congratulated! I'm glad I joined the berries at this positive time! Hopefully your luck will rub off on the restof us!
Pip it's like you're half diffed already! Great news!
Don't feel down bunny Sad. Sorry you're feeling blue. Ttc is poop!

marie456 · 15/08/2013 19:22

Aww well done kitty!! Brave girlie!

haycorn · 15/08/2013 19:56

Been trying for a year kitty, but my periods went AWOL for five months in the middle, which was when I snuck away from Berry HQ because I was feeling too sad that I couldn't even join in with the talk of shag weeks and 2ww and the joys of charting. After 5 months, GP finally agreed to refer me to a specialist, and bloody period returned next day!

Had managed two by the time my appointment came and was feeling quite proud of myself, but he wanted me to take progesterone tablets for 4 months to get everything properly regular before doing any tests. I really wasn't keen to take them because the bumpf said that it was very unlikely you could get pregnant when on them, so I came straight back to Berry HQ to ask for advice because there are no greater experts anywhere else in the country!

I was hoping that I was maybe back to normal(ish) and wouldn't need the tablets, so was feeling very blue when AF didn't turn up when I had expected her. I didn't believe for a second that it meant anything good, because I have had all those ups and downs before, but had a test in the cupboard so decided to give it a go this morning.

When I have tested before I haven't dared look at the stick until the 3 minutes were up because I wanted to keep the idea that I might still be pregnant for as long as possible, but this time I forced myself to watch it the whole time to get rid of any silly hopes as soon as possible and get on with my day. When the second line started appearing I thought I had imagined it. Then I thought I must have used an OPK stick by mistake, and did a mad dash for the bin to check!

When I realised that it was a proper pee stick, and it was a definite line, I didn't know what to do. Strangely I didn't really feel anything, because I couldn't believe it was true. My hubby was still in bed (it was 6:30!) but I felt like I couldn't even let myself think about it because surely it was a mistake, so I left him in bed and took the dog out, forcing myself to think about other boring things and definitely NOT start trying to calculate due dates. It was only when I tested later with ridiculously expensive tests and they all said yes that I started to believe it.

Hubby still doesn't know! It is our wedding anniversary today, and his birthday tomorrow, and we are going out for dinner in a bit, so I am going to tell him then. Makes me feel a lot better about the crap present I've bought him!

Right, sorry for dragging it out a bit, I am very grateful that you have indulged me, I've been desperate to tell him all day so I may have gone overboard here! Well done for injecting yourself - it might be easy but I'm damn sure I'd struggle!

haycorn · 15/08/2013 20:02

And bunny, I'm really sorry that you are feeling pants, but yesterday I was feeling exactly the same, and now everything has changed (for the time being anyway). Yesterday I was absolutely convinced that I was never going to have my own mini berry. I knew it to my core. So there is always hope. It's just the bloody endless waiting and not knowing that is the killer.

Pipbin · 15/08/2013 20:07

Haycorn that was lovely. What great timing. I wish all us berries could be hiding round a corner in the restaurant to see his reaction.

I've just realised that assuming the transfer happens when the clinic expect then it will be on my dad's birthday.

marie456 · 15/08/2013 20:16

Haycorn what a lovely story!! Made me feel all warm inside! Hope you have a wonderful meal out. How perfect to find out on your wedding anniversary! Grin Flowers

RevoltingPeasant · 15/08/2013 21:59

Haycorn that is such a nice story. I want my BFP to be just like that, except we don't have a dog so I will need to pretend Grin

Can I do a brief straw poll? DH and I only DTD once this month to completion, 3-4 days before I think I OV. No pg symptoms whatsoever. Fairly sure am totally undiffed.

It is our wedding anniversary tomorrow and then we are going on holiday to the same place we went for our honeymoon - staying in the same room and everything- and it would be so lovely to have a nice meal with a bottle of wine. Would you risk it?

AF is due literally the day after we get back so I wouldn't know during the hol. It is surely safe right?

Sadly.....

Gillster · 15/08/2013 22:04

At this stage I don't think that one glass of wine is going to make much of a difference. If you were diffed I don't think there is a blood connection yet so the alcohol wouldn't be able to get across anyway. Enjoy your evening.

yorkiebilb · 15/08/2013 22:16

Hello sorry for coming to the party so late but wanted to pop in and say a huge congrats to boom tally barking and haycorn on your BFP's. so pleased for you all! Fantastic news. Double congrats to barking on the lovely engagement as well.

Sorry if I've missed any other news but been AWOL from mn so just catching up again now.

pip fx on your ivf. Sounds very promising so far.

cherry hope you're okay. Are you waiting on DE matching at the moment?

bunny merk sid thunder hello lovely ladies hope you're doing okay.

To all the lovely other berries hope you're all well and fx for more BFP's soon.

CharmingCats · 15/08/2013 22:23

Well done kitty !
Love your story haycorn please let us know how hubby reacts!

SIL texted DH her 20 wk scan picture - its a girl. They already have a ds, so effortless perfection continues. Feeling decidedly grrr, but have managed not to cry or appear upset in front of DH.

Trying not to symptom spot in the 2ww now 4 dpo, so far too early anyway and sore boobs are normal for the lead up to af and metformin makes me feel queasy and I'm tired because of a late night on Tuesday. I'll be in Portugal at pimping time, so will be a good berry and take my pot and strips.

rumisyum · 15/08/2013 23:42

bunny I will no doubt be around for a looooooong time going by past experience. Sorry you're feeling crap about it at the moment.

Well done, kitty! That's the bit I'm dreading, so I'm impressed by your skills.

haycorn awww, hope your anniversary surprise to DH went down a storm!

peasant I'd drink. It'll probably be completely fine either way.

happylass · 15/08/2013 23:56

Evening Berries. I'm back on home turf after a lovely 2 weeks away with DP. Think I've just about managed to keep up with all the BFPs - I should leave the country more often Grin.
Pip still keeping everything crossed for you.
Kitty what happens next with you?
Bunny fear not I'm still here with you and will probably be the last Berry standing. If it doesn't work this month then we won't be trying again until February Sad
RP I'm on cd21 and have consumed a ridiculous amount of alcohol every day for the last 2 weeks. Don't think the embryo is attached to your blood supply for a while after any updiffment. Am sure you'll be fine to indulge. Enjoy your time away!
Haycorn that's a lovely story. Come back and let us know how your DH reacted! My AF BFP is due next week just before DPs birthday and I have this dream of wrapping up a digi test (positive of course!) and handing it to him with the rest of his pressies. Quick someone wang me before I get totally carried away!!
Off to bed now ladies, more wedding dress shopping tomorrow. Night all!

BlindKitty · 16/08/2013 06:41

happy where have you been? I keep taking menopur injections for now abd then I go for my day 9 scan on wed to check I've not overstimmed. If all is well I'll then use the trigger shot and go in maybe Friday for insemination.

rum it's actually really easy. The whole build up to it was worse!

haycorn that's so romantic. What did Dh say? Details please!

BlindKitty · 16/08/2013 06:43

happy I have fantasies like that all the time! My latest one is just passing Dh a corona with lime! He's been desperate for a drink for ages but I've banned it until we get pg!!

rumisyum · 16/08/2013 08:11

happy I'm in exactly the same position - AF BFP due on my husband's birthday next week. I've already daydreamed way too often about how I'll surprise him with the news.

Sadly, the menace that is pre-AF spotting has got me, at only 9dpo. It's never been a good sign so far... Sad

Any news on the embies, pip?

Bunnygirlie · 16/08/2013 08:24

DHs birthday not till next year, I don't wanna wait that long Sad

Meant to be having a BBQ tomorrow, weather is going to be vile though so will have a house full of friends and their children! Fun fun fun

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happylass · 16/08/2013 08:55

Kitty I've been in Greece. This hideous weather is not a very good welcome home! So exciting about your treatment. Am I right in thinking you could be upduffed by next weekend?!
Rum I've been getting AF twinges too and she's not due until Tuesday Sad
Where is Haycorn? If I can't put my own dreams in to practise I want to know how other people's pan out!
Have a good day all!

Pipbin · 16/08/2013 09:08

Come on Haycorn tell us how it went!

Call from the clinic. Out of the 6, 3 are progressing at standard rate and 3 are ahead of where they should be. 2pm Monday for the transfer back!

sparechange · 16/08/2013 09:43

Pip that is amazing news!
How many are they putting back?

haycorn · 16/08/2013 10:02

Morning berries! So I did tell DH last night, although I felt weirdly nervous about doing so. I think because I left it all day I had turned into a huge moment in my head and then I didn't know how to do it. We chatted normally for ages, but the whole time I was worrying away in my head, so in the end I just interrupted him and said 'I know it's not your birthday just yet but can I give you one of your presents early because I am too excited to wait.' At first he didn't believe me at all, kept saying 'You're joking right?' (what a terrible joke that would be), and then when he accepted it his eyes filled up, which was really strange as I have NEVER seen him cry. And then after a minute he said 'Well bang goes our holiday then' as we had promised ourselves that if we weren't knocked up by Christmas we would book an amazing holiday for the following summer as something to look forward to. The tears freaked me out a bit because I have never seen him like that, but the complaining about losing the holiday was much more like normal, so I was much more relaxed then and finally had someone to get excited with (apart from the lovely berries of course!).

And I wouldn't worry too much about the drinking RP. We have just got back from a weekend of weddings where I very heavily indulged. I know I probably shouldn't have just in case, but I have denied myself way too many times in the past only for AF to turn up (or bugger off completely). Hopefully that thing about stuff not being properly connected yet means I don't need to feel too guilty. Although weirdly I got period style cramps both evenings that I had something to drink (which of course convinced me that the game was definitely up this month, and so persuaded me to have another drink as consolation).

That's VERY exciting about your eggs pip! Do you have to decide how many to put in?

Boomgoestheweasel · 16/08/2013 10:40

Sorry girls, been slightly out of action - last day of uni yesterday so had all sorts to organise/sign, and spent a good proportion of the evening drinking soda water disguised as gin and tonic. Totally fooled everyone, although how anyone could believe that I was still as sober as I was after 8 G&Ts I have no idea!

Pip that is awesome news about your embies! How odd to think you've got all those Piplets growing in a lab! Is it a one or two embryo transfer?

Kitty well done on learning to stab yourself!

Haycorn we need an update! I'm so overemotional at the moment, I cried at the thought of the conversation you'd be having Blush

Oh Rum sorry to hear you're spotting. Is it too optimistic to ask if it could be implantation bleeding...?

Happy welcome back! When do you pimp...?

Charming fingers crossed...!

Barking I'm not sleeping at the moment either...must be diffment Hmm

Hello yorkie, good to see you Grin

Bunny sending you virtual cake and wine. Hope you feel better soon.

Hi to all I may have missed!

Nothing exciting going on here except mild nausea and sore boobs. Off to do my final interview prep for uni now, eek.

Boomgoestheweasel · 16/08/2013 10:43

Oh sorry X-posts haycorn - oh that's so sweet that he welled up! Now I'm crying too, argh!

RP agree with Haycorn, I know I had my heaviest drinking month since ttc this month, which is just the law of sod again - I feel a bit naughty but most of it will have been before the egg even implanted!

Tallyra · 16/08/2013 11:23

Awwww! I shouldn't have been reading that - I'm shop sitting, and I got a huge tear in my eye reading that. just as a customer came in! That is beautiful, it bodes well that he was teary!! Grin

Boodle9 · 16/08/2013 11:59

Hello Berries and congratulations to Haycorn and Barking; that is most excellent news for you both.

So, unfortunately for me, I couldn't make it a hat trick of clomid success with Boom and Barking as my AF arrived 2 days ago. Was seriously disappointed as it was 5 days late and I'd had nausea, mild cramps, bleeding gums before that. Absolutely worst AF ever too - even heavier and more painful than usual - have been housebound for 48 hours. Sad

Onto round 2 of clomid I go and cycle 26 of TTC.