Eggcellent Egg Buddies: are you IVF cycling in June/July/August 2013? Then get your druggy arses over here for some pure fucking menkulling...

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NokklingtonStStation, I couldn't find a new thread so I made this one, cock. Hope I did the right thing

my symptoms have stopped, no sore boobs, had a headache yesterday, that is what happened last time I miscarried

Buzzy- hope you are ok. I feel for you. What did the scan show? Do not panic xxxxx

its over tortie I just need the blood test to prove it now

digi says 2-3 weeks

Buzzy really?? What happened??? My heart goes out to you xxxx

buzzy you don't know that. It's easy for me/us to say, but preparing yourself for the worst will not make it any easier IF it happens. Try to stay neutral at least?

I've not got as far as you so I don't know if I'm speaking out of turn, but please just hold in there. Just a little longer.

mejust yes I've been snappy etc, I've assumed normal pmt. have you had a period? I may be a ball of worry/ aniexty later on but I just don't think about whats next. I cannot afford to, as I'll probably slide to pessimism. DH has been thinking about it a bit. I was full of resentment last night for having a womans body and going through all this but I do most periods anyway.

X-post. Buzzy - can you call the clinic? Can you go to epau now?

My thoughts are with you.

I can't talk buzzy cos you have had to talk me out of negativity but there is so much unknown. Can you get a hcg done today? To put your mind at rest?

A digi test is not conclusive! They are shit x

there is nothing they can do just confirm it with blood tests

Were the measurements vastly out then?? Or they just couldn't see?? How far are you and how far are you measuring? Is there a heartbeat? Xxx

Buzzy - did you use first morning urine for the last test you did?

it doesn't make much difference when you pee, it wouldn't drop a week

You need to do a proper blood test xxxx

i'm trying to organise one now

What did the scan show that has scared you so much chick?? Why have you got to go back in 2 weeks? Xxx

I am 5w4d, the sac measured only 5w0d, my symptoms have stopped, I have lots of pains and the digi has dropped, I feel normal, i'm sure if I stopped all the drugs I would start to miscarry

Oh buzz. Like tame says, you need to get a proper blood test done as that's the most accurate way of seeing what's happening. Those digi tests can be horribly misleading. I don't think the measurements are 100%accurate as they have revised mine. They can only accurately tell as the embie gets a bit bigger. Please don't give-up until you have all of the facts. I know that sounds clinical but you have come so far - until they tell you it's all over, it isn't.

Am thinking of you.

tame how did it go this morning ?

Am thinking of you too.

Hi to everyone else. Sorry for the lack of personals.

Xx

Buzzy God, it's a shitty place to be in and I'm sorry. Was in limbo myself for 3 weeks last year and your life seems to contract so only the wait is meaningful BUT when I was P with DD, I tested with a digi at 6 weeks (from LMP, about 25 days from O) and it showed 2-3 weeks. She is fine so no need to think the worst yet.

epau don't think that a blood test will be conclusive as the numbers will be so high so they supposedly don't double quite the same or something, now they have seen the sac that is what they will work from, my cat is acting strangely which doesn't help my mental state, my symptoms have stopped and I feel normal so its not good ladies, need to stop the steroids as soon as possible

buzzy I don't mean to dismiss your worries, but you just had a scan, which showed fairly normal measurements. Presumably when you initially had 2 sacs, the hcg would have been high, and now there is just one maybe it would drop? If the medical staff thought you were in the process of miscarriage when they scanned you, surely they would have said? Try not to panic. I hope that you get the reassurance you need, and that your panic is ungrounded. Lots of love.

life bad dreams and fuzzy-headed? Join the club. Over-emotional? Tick. I had the prostrap injection on Tuesday, and I think it is kicking in. It is basically the same as the buserilin, but a one off rather than daily injections. I thought I was just looking for side-effects too, but seeing your description, I know it must be that. When do you move to the next phase? When is EC? I have down-reg scan and start progynova on the 19th, and donor EC is estimated to be the 24th.

motor its the first scan they have done, they have nothing to measure against, its the fact that all my so called symptoms have gone tell me something is not right, I 've been here before I know the drill, with my second miscarriage this shit went on for 3.5 weeks, I know I couldn't cope again with all that wait another week oh wait another week

tame how was the blood test? When do you get the results?

AFM I have got a raging UTI following the internal scan and endometrial scratch on Tuesday. Now waiting for a prescription for antibiotics from the GP. That rather ruins the weekend away we had planned as a way of me trying to reassure DH that life can carry on as normal despite IVF. Still, small fry compared to worries about pregnancy.

Hi ladies. Just popped in to check on you all. Have kept in touch with buzz and noks on t'other thread.

You lot have gone postal!! It's like a crazy hormone-fuelled soap opera on here, bloody fantastic. Although gutted to see the jewcy has gone. Hi if you are lurking jewcy, come back, your potty mouth is needed for entertainment purposes.

Congrats tame, hope everything went ok today? x

buzzy it is totally understandable that you are fearing the worst given what you have been through before, but just because it has happened before, does not mean it will happen again, and I truly hope this will be successful. Can you talk to the guys who did the scan and ask their opinion, or did you do that already? They said 5wks, you know it is a few more days than that, but it is not far off!